Obviously, there are a lot of intergenerational spoiling, why is it that bringing grandchildren has

Because today's children are becoming more and more difficult to teach, and if they are not careful, they will teach badly, so the children will blame themselves, so the older generation does not want to take children, but wants to pursue a new life by themselves.

They suffered a lot when they were young, and now it's normal to want to relax. Understandably, these trendy parents prefer to enjoy life and refuse to spend time with their grandchildren. The parenting style of parents is not recognized, and there are often conflicts between the two generations.

Some parents, after going through all this, take it easy and choose to let go completely, so as not to make the relationship more strained.

In the past, grandchildren and grandparents were very close, but now the relationship between the two is becoming more and more estranged, and many elderly people are afraid to take grandchildren, in fact, not because they don't love their grandchildren, but because they are afraid that they will be blamed by the child's parents if they don't take the child well.

Because today's children are too naughty, it is easy to do some excessive things to the elderly, and it is easy to do very spoiled things, which is not conducive to the healthy physical and mental growth of children in the future.

Because now young people throw their children to the elderly, and they don't care about themselves. Elderly people not only take care of their children, but also take care of their studies and education. Sometimes, if you don't teach well, you will be blamed and complained by your children.

Because they are afraid that they will not take the child well, it will cause some accidents to the child, and they may also find the child very annoying.

This is because many elderly people are not particularly good in health, so they are afraid of not being able to take care of children, and many elderly people's educational concepts are different from those of today's young people, so there will be a lot of disagreements in bringing grandchildren, causing some controversy.

It's because young people are very busy nowadays, and they are all ordinary office workers, so the children are handed over to the elderly. But the child is particularly naughty.

Because today's children are very difficult to bring, and they also think that they can't educate their children well, for fear of being disliked by their children.

Personally, I think that the reason why many elderly people are afraid, but the grandson is afraid that he will not be able to bring it well, which will lead to the dissatisfaction of his son and daughter-in-law, which is also a sad thing.

Because many elderly people now want to have a stable old age, and they don't want to bring a lot of inconvenience to themselves because of their grandchildren.

Mainly because older people dedicate their lives to their children and do not want to live without their own private time.