Beipiao is so bitter, why don t you leave yet?

There are countless film and television resources to be filmed here, programs to host, and the big names you once thought were unattainable may now become your acting partners, or even fall under your pomegranate skirt... Is it possible to have other second and third lines? In Beijing, I can get all kinds of dreams that I want.

It is simply not possible anywhere else ...

Pursue your dreams, stay with what you are looking for, and leave without finding them!

When I go home to work, the salary is too low, there are no benefits, and there is no way to live.

Because when I went back, I had nothing but arable land.

All living beings are suffering. Those who work in second, third, fourth and fifth-tier cities are not hard? As a senior Beipiao who has been drifting for 5 years, it is said that Beipiao is very bitter, probably because of Beijing's high housing and hukou restrictions, and no matter how hard you try, there is no sense of cruelty that you have any hope of staying.

But what if you don't consider buying a house in Beijing? You can read books at the National Library, you can go to the National Center for the Performing Arts to watch dramas, you can go to the Forbidden City on weekend afternoons to see the National Flag Honor Guard training, you can go to Tsinghua University to listen to speeches, by the way, and save some money for your future destination.

I'm a little hair, the kind I call home, earning 3,500 a month, and 4,200 a year later. The local room price is 12k sq. m. You will definitely say that the education is low, not low, 211 undergraduate.

Even if you take a graduate exam, it is 1k more. In front of the house price of 12000, if no one helps, what is the difference between 4200 and 5200? I was lucky to be small, the family conditions are higher, the only child, as soon as I graduated, the family gave nearly 1 million, paid a down payment, renovated, bought a small car, a month, even so, more than 3k mortgage repayment and family repayment.

How many of them can get this kind of funding as soon as they graduate. If your family is poor, the money you subsidize is a drop in the bucket, and even more so, you need to sponsor your family, what can you do? Beipiao also gives you the possibility of buying a house in a second- or third-tier city, if you are in a small city, are you going to buy a house in the village?

My parents desperately went to the city, do they want to live back?

Metropolises like Beijing and Shanghai seem to be very densely populated and crowded. But the people here are atomized individuals. There is little overlap between people's private lives, except for busy procedural work.

People are content with their own small, intimate spaces. Everyone is alone in their own can-sized living compartment, and they are comfortable and comfortable. As Lu Xun said, there is a high wall between everyone's souls; It's just that as they get older, they are more and more satisfied with this quiet isolation, and at the same time they are afraid that the collapse of this high wall, even if there is a small gap, will make them have an indescribable fear of the unknown on the other side of the wall.

I've always felt that I didn't leave because I couldn't make money when I went home. Now it seems that many people do not leave because they can't give up the lights and wine, and they can't give up the life of people and dogs. Indeed, many people are bitter and tired.

However, in the jungle of steel and concrete, the bottom is not a cleaner, but countless office white-collar workers. There are not as many workers as they take, but they are more decent than the workers. Everything I see is bright and green, and my heart is distorted.

Some people don't want to leave Beijing because they make more money here than they do in their hometown, and they can send the money home to subsidize their families. Some people are reluctant to leave Beijing because it is fun, literary and artistic, and it looks exquisite.

How can there be so many reasons for hypocrisy, anyway, I'm because of money. The same job, in Shanghai, has a monthly salary of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan; In my hometown of Chongqing, four or five thousand. Not to mention the high consumption in Shanghai, I only spend 3,000 a month, and in Chongqing, I have to spend 1,500 at the same level.

Is it warm when you go back? Is it time to have dinner with everyone? Forget it, that's just what you imagined, everyone is busy.

Is it so easy to go back to your hometown? Do you know how hard it is to find a job in a county? Can't find a job to drink the northwest wind?

Although Beijing is a bit hard, there is no house, no hukou, and I don't know when I will be able to get married and have children and live a "stable" life in the eyes of many people, but at least I can find a job, work hard for a few years, save a little money that will be scattered by the wind, and go to a not so big city to buy a house and settle down.

Beipiao is a kind of anesthetic, he does not let people flee the pain of their homeland, but rather he himself only covers up the truth of the pain. The biggest fear of going home is not that there is no future, because most people actually subconsciously know that they have no future. What they are really afraid of is to accept for themselves that they have no future.

The past is still warm, and the wanderers who drift north are full of enthusiasm in their hearts.

Many people always say that Beijing is a big casino, and those who lose bets leave Beijing, and those who win bets stay, and many more people continue to struggle.

Beipiao is a paradise for young people, but also a hell for young people, many young people here bear the greatest pressure of life, but also enjoy the most perfect freedom in life.

Many people go from one extreme to the other, some people find their own space for development, and some people lose the direction of their own pursuit, and finally find themselves living in the eyes of others!

A friend I met when I went out to work said:

I don't know how many years I have been in Beijing, but my life has not changed, the things that should come will come, and I can't get over the ups and downs, sometimes I just listened to a few more stories, contacted some more people, moved my heart a few more times, understood some more truths, maybe when you were youngest, when you were 5 years old, you might run to a field a kilometer away in order to catch a butterfly, when you were 10 years old, you could run all over the streets and alleys for an ice cream, and when you were 19 years old, you could run for the people you liked. When you go to a strange city alone, when you are 25 years old, you can just find someone to live for the rest of your life, at that time there is just no one around you to say goodnight, but time makes sunflowers become mimosas, and you become helpless when you are alone.

Maybe this is life, fortunately or not, people live for a lifetime, and they know whether they are warm or cold. Sometimes it's just a mouthful of food.

North drift is so bitter, why do many people still choose North Drift?

The reason why I chose Beipiao is because the things that Beijing is in contact with are not accessible locally, which is the center of economy, education, humanity and politics, and many people want to be baptized in big cities and go to a bigger stage. Just because this is a big city, this is the capital - Beijing!

Every inch of land in Beijing is very precious, and it is not too much of an exaggeration to describe it as an inch of land, and everyone knows in their hearts that even if you work hard all your life, you may not be able to afford a bathroom. But in this life, isn't it just to pursue a cause without regrets! And the city of Beijing is the closest place to the dream!

Have you ever seen a crowd of people carrying large bags and small bags and dragging suitcases at the entrance of the subway?

Under the crowd, it is their hearts that pray to come to Beijing to work hard and change the status quo of life.

But how many people are wandering around and shattering their dreams in vain?

Beipiao must be hard, since you are here, you have to persevere, I can only say that there are still many people who are lonely in the dark like you here, is Beijing the only possibility to realize your dreams? Whether it is or not, because there are so many fish of the same kind who are desperate to wear and die.

I want to share with you every bit of my life in Beijing, share my happiness with you, share my interesting stories with you, share with you the things you don't have time to see, and when I am sad and sad, these words can also accompany me.