What should I do when someone else s actions make me feel uncomfortable and oppressed?

If you're a bystander, you just have to stay away from him. If you are the person concerned, if the relationship is more distant, the same estrangement will do. If the relationship is closer, then you can make a direct statement, you are making me uncomfortable by doing this.

Because many people don't know what they've done and suddenly people don't like it. Everyone's mind is different. Everything must be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

However, anyone who generalizes can lose the right in the specific operation.

Specific to this topic, when encountering this kind of thing, sometimes you can do this, sometimes you can't, the way of life is ever-changing, and you have one mind. The so-called heart is to stick to the heart: repay virtue with virtue, repay grievances with straightforwardness, and do not do to others what you do not want.

And the so-called Taoist, can not be judged from the same thing, straight, rigid and soft, do things in a hurry, vent the anger in the immediate and damage the long-term plan, unless there is a long-term strategy, it is difficult to achieve great things. Also, those who are human beings are not gentlemen, they are not husbands, and they are young birds, how can they count the night owls?

But again, it's better to be a little more tolerant at all times. So no matter whose fault it is, or who caused it, we can directly find out to the other party that we may not be very able to accept some of his actions, and if the relationship is good, it may be better to say this kind of thing; If the relationship is average, then no matter what the other party will react to, as long as our attitude is not too bad, then we have a good conscience; If it's someone who doesn't have anything to do with it, then it won't have any bad effects, of course, provided that we don't have a revenge mentality or any negative emotions.

Go and blame people directly.

Of course, at the end, if the other party is someone who can have absolute control over some of our things, then we need to think twice about doing things. Of course, there is no fixed way to behave in the world, but for this one, I think you should make the most appropriate handling as long as you calm down and think about it. May life be happy and proud!

For such a situation, you can appropriately adjust your bad mentality, divert your attention, talk to friends, travel with your parents, or go to the sea to shout, and if necessary, you can also consult relevant psychological counselors, all of which are okay.

Listen to the soothing **, take a deep breath, adjust your mentality, exercise, and sing loudly, so that you can express the oppression in your heart.

I think you should still find someone you can trust to express the grievances and discomforts in your heart, because suppressing your feelings has a great impact on your mental health.