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At the age of 13, he left home and went to Nanyang to seek a living, and the wish of the ninety-year-old Chinese in Singapore is to find their relatives and reunite with them.

This ninety-year-old Chinese man is called Tan Yugao. He is now 90 years old. At the age of 13, he left home and went to Nanyang to earn a living, and since then he has not returned to his hometown and lost contact with his family.

Tan Yugao, an old man who has been away from home for more than 70 years, only vaguely remembers that there is a Tongji Bridge near his hometown, and everything else has no impression.

After the local police learned about the old man's desire to find relatives, they actively searched for the old man's relatives. On August 17, the local police combed through the only information provided by the old man and visited and investigated. On August 18, the police went to various village committees in their districts to learn about the situation with the older generation of old people who had gone to Nanyang to beg for a living, hoping to find the village where Tan Yugao lived when he was young.

But the information I learned did not match what the old man provided. In the end, the police asked the village committees for help, and asked them to post the news that the elderly were seeking in the circle of friends. Finally, on August 19, the police received a ** from a community village committee, saying that an old man knew Tan Yugao's sister Tan Zhongyou.

The old man also knew that Tan Zhongyou had a cousin, Tan She Song. So the police and the village committee went to Tan Shesong's house to confirm and told Tan Yugao about the search for relatives. Tan Shesong was excited after hearing this, and even said:

Found it, finally found it. He said that before his aunt (Tan Zhongyou) died, he handed him a letter, saying that it would be used as a mark to find relatives in the future.

At present, the police are also in contact with various parties to arrange for the elderly to meet their relatives as soon as possible. The most regrettable thing is that Tan Yugao's sister is no longer alive. The whole family was very happy that their relatives could be found.

The older generation of people worked very hard and had to leave home to earn a living. After leaving home, they either passed away or settled abroad, and not many people were able to return to their hometowns. But what they miss most in their hearts is their hometown and relatives.

Just like the old man Tan Yugao, who is 90 years old, he has not given up the idea of looking for relatives. The elderly are still lucky to be able to be with their relatives in their lifetime, and I am happy for them.

Tan Yugao, an old man who left home at the age of 13 to beg for a living,Now 95 years old, his greatest wish now is to find his loved ones. At that time, he came to Malaysia alone, and the country was suffering from aggression, and Tan Yugao's father and brother were killed in the war, leaving only his mother and two sisters. According to his recollection, during this period, he had a brief contact with his family in China, but because it was a correspondence at that time, and the transportation was not convenient, he lost communication with his family again, and he did not expect that this interruption would be more than 40 years.

Later, the son of the old man Tan Yugao, in order to help his father find his family affection, posted a "missing person notice" on the Internet, hoping to find his long-lost relatives and contact them as soon as possible. <>

After the post was published, it attracted the attention of the community police, and they screened and visited the local people according to the relevant information, and later an old man told a clue, saying that he knew Tan Zhongyou, the sister of the old man Tan Yugao, and then found his sister's cousin Tan Shesong, so the police found Tan Shesong through the clues provided, he was very happy after learning that he had found his relatives, and took out the letter that his aunt had left, ** and a construction land use certificate. Among them, this construction land use certificate was purchased by his sister for the old man Tan YugaoPerhaps the elder sister thought that her younger brother would return one day. <>

At the same time, following the clues, the police also found the niece of the old man Tan YugaoThe next thing is to arrange a family reunion, so that the old man Tan Yugao can get together with his relatives in China as soon as possibleThus fulfilled the old man's wish. This incident also shows that no matter how far you go, no matter where you are, your relatives are always concerned, and we hope that they will meet as soon as possible. <>

I want to find my loved ones. Tan Yugao left his hometown at the age of 13 to make a living in Singapore, and soon after arriving in Singapore, he was separated from his relatives, hoping to find his long-lost relatives in his lifetime.

The old man left home when he was young and had not been in contact with his relatives on the mainland for more than 40 years, and now he hopes to use the power of the Internet to help the elderly find their hometown and relatives. At present, the relatives of the elderly Chinese in China have been found, and we look forward to seeing them as soon as possible.

Seeing his relatives, because this old man has been uprooted from his hometown since he was a child, he has always missed his family very much, so he wants to see his family.

I hope to get in touch with my relatives in my hometown, in his old age, everyone hopes to return to his homeland at the moment of aging, his parents' grass and trees, branches and leaves all make him worry, and he can't let go of the guilt of his relatives.

This kind of man makes people love and hate, do you think he is worth your sacrifice so much? Good people don't mean that any version can be accepted! He's against his brother now.

Sister Quan is so spoiled, but she doesn't care about your feelings so much! His attitude towards your mother, towards your hometown? I don't treat you as a treasure in the palm of my hand now, so what if I get married in the future?

His younger siblings are so unkind to their brother and so unkind to you, so even if you get married in the future, do you think he will change? Will his siblings change? Now that you're not married, you're feeling distressed, so do you think you can make sure you don't suffer even more when you're married? Will it be happy?

Love is not a matter of two people! Marriage is even less so!

It's good for everyone to make a decision early!

First of all, whether you really love your wife and children, love your current small family, as for the **, are secondary, like your current family is in the run-in period of husband and wife, because some small contradictions are unpleasant, but there must be a bottom line. It is not easy to form a family, and it is commendable that husband and wife grow old together. Therefore, it is not feasible for the two places to separate, and the two sides find common ground and discuss the problem slowly and patiently.

And the focus is on children, your whole life is running around and tired, isn't it just for children? Consider your child's schooling and quality of life. Raising good children is your wealth.

Family is the first school a child comes to earth. Different families have different effects on their children's education. Therefore, no matter what kind of family it is, family relations should be handled well.

Parents of children in three-generation families need to manage the relationship between supporting the elderly and raising their children. Parents always love their children, but they often ignore how to respect and take care of their older generations. How well parents do in this area will have a direct impact on their children's attitudes towards the two generations of parents.

It is natural for three generations of a family to coexist with each other due to their different values and attitudes towards life, which requires the parents of the children to pay attention to living in harmony with their grandparents, understanding each other, and especially not arguing openly in front of the children, so as not to cause adverse effects on the children.

The nuclear family should deal with the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between raising children. In general, parents are emotionally close to their children and have high expectations for their children. In the rural areas, due to the implementation of the production responsibility system and the revitalization of the economy, parents are busy; In the city, most parents are dual-income workers, working hours are tight, and the education of their children is limited by time and energy, which requires parents to be consistent with their children's education.

Incomplete families generally refer to single-parent families, broken families and intergenerational families. These children live with only one parent or not with one parent for a long time, which requires different members of the family to manage the family relationship from the perspective of caring for the child and thinking about the next generation.

In short, no matter what kind of family it is, it is necessary to create a good family atmosphere so that children can grow up healthily in a good environment.

In my opinion, your father wants you to go out and find some work, not stay at home all the time, and it is also an encouragement to you. This is also a question of the way a man speaks, he should tell you that it is not good to communicate with you, but the mood is understandable. My suggestion is that you can go out and find a job, do something, your dad will be happy, no matter where you live, the old man's father's family cares about you, wants you to work well, don't waste your studies, want to do something is also a good thing, work hard.

That parent is not hoping that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix, if their children are not able to be independent when they grow up, they will live in front of them. He thinks that you are angry and have no face in front of others, so they will be very angry and dangle in front of him.

At the age of self-reliance, don't blame your dad for pushing you out, push you and you will become a talent, and you will be wasted at home.

Since you have graduated, you have to learn to live independently, not the hearts of your parents, but today's social situation is grim, they want you to learn to be independent as soon as possible, find a good job, and then be able to take care of yourself, they all hope that their children can stand alone, have a happy life in the future, they can feel at ease, so you should face your own life, they are also looking forward to your good, but the method is not right.

Boys can be a little more mature when they grow up, and the people who are missing are well-behaved and reasonable, and their hearts are kind, beautiful, gentle and warm, if you can do it, even if you go out, you are not lonely, and you can go out of society and be a promising young man.

Isn't it good to be self-reliant?

It is an indisputable fact that the elderly and children are basically not together.

Let's find common ground while reserving differences.

If possible, just live on your own.

Some parents have good intentions, and maybe the way to deal with the problem is not right, which makes you bored, but on the other hand, isn't it also a good thing that you have gone out and found a job? Finding a job is self-sufficient, even if you're really bored and just getting out of this state of life.

The relationship was very bad that day. The relationship with him is very good that the dear people respect.

Men, maybe they want to force you, sometimes men's expressions are not good, you may listen to what your dad really meant.

I take the liberty of asking, are my parents separated? After graduation, let's find a job before choosing a job. If I were you, find a job and support yourself first. It is advisable to provide accommodation in a unit. Get out of his way, stay away from him!

This is my own dad. It's not too young. Should. Get a job and go to work right away. Club! Father, do something. Things are taken for granted.

Learning to be independent and living independently is not your father's cruelty, but for you to learn to be self-reliant. Parents all over the world hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Besides, gnawing on the old is something that people look down on, and your parents raised you and can't support you for the elderly.

Go out and find a job and start your own life.

Your father wants you to learn to be independent, not that your father is ruthless, your parents want their son to become a dragon and their daughter to become a phoenix, and you have to understand your parents' feelings. Your parents raised you and can't accompany you to old age. You have to learn to support yourself, go out and slowly find a job to earn a living.

Is this my own father? Is there no room for you at home so small? It's better to get a job. Let's get to work.

Parents have the obligation to raise their children until they reach the age of 18, and if you have reached adulthood and graduated, you should find a job as soon as possible and do it first, and then change jobs if you find a good job.

Don't choose comfort at the age of struggle, your dad wants you to be self-reliant, so hurry up and find a job!

Sometimes parents can't help it, because they are afraid that you will not be motivated. You can talk to your father.