An age old question, If I don t want to do anything, who can enlighten me ?

It's not that you don't want to do it, but you didn't find a suitable one for yourself to do, you don't know what to do, worry, maybe as long as one day you suddenly meet what you want to do, that interest comes, I'm similar to you now, I don't want to do anything, part-time job? I'm scared, I don't know what to do, and the salary is low, and I don't want to do it much, now I stay in a place of less than ten square meters every day in addition to watching TV or watching TV, every day I see the eyes are spent, I have experienced similar things before, but I don't know when I suddenly found a job to do it, things are just troubled when there is nowhere to go, and no one can predict what will happen in the future, so in fact, it is destined to you, and you yourself play a greater role, what did you do one day, At that time, you know what you should do, everything has a beginning and an end, now you just wait, of course, when you wait, you have to try to think about what to do, and then when you do what you did at that time, you will work hard to do it, when I don't do it, you will do nothing, but once you do it, you have to do it all, for this problem for you is a bit complicated, only you have to decide your own fate, what to do and what to do quickly.

The role of psychology, maybe I see too much negative news in society.

Give yourself a vacation, or when you're really stressed.

I'm willing to do anything.

Give her a hug and tell her that I will always be your strongest backing.

Ask someone closest to him to spend more time with him, or distract him a bit.

There are still early problems.

Ask her what she wants to eat and buy it for her.

Give her a $100 million card.

You ask her, "Tomorrow the sun will rise as usual, believe it or not"?

yes, you know that. Efforts are not necessarily successful, but giving up is bound to be a failure. Well, you have the answer to your question in your heart. If you think that the person in the anime is you, then, she is you. You're going to have the same problem as her.

Because that's the law. "I think what kind of person I should be, I must be that kind of person. ”

That's what it really means to "make all wishes come true." So, don't think about it, otherwise, you will bear the consequences. After taking the consequences, don't come out and shout or complain.

Now, you feel that this kind of life is not good, and such thoughts cause your current life. So, what to do?

There is no good or bad way, right or wrong, and you don't need to care about other people's opinions. Some roads are difficult for you to walk, but not difficult for others. To go or not to go, the choice is yours.

I wish you success.

Find your own interests and hobbies, and then put your heart and soul into learning and practicing, and you will definitely succeed.

Don't follow the crowd and listen to what others say about what is popular, what to do to make money, so that in a few years it will be nothing.

If you are willing to drill, it will definitely pay off.

Sometimes, don't care too much about other people's opinions, just fight when you're young.

If you don't forget, there will be an echo.

Everyone has their own path, do you know what the biggest shortcut in learning is? It's just interest.,If you like it, go and study it.,My friend has a Japanese translator.,He doesn't have the same confusion as you.。 You don't need to be judged by others about your success.

You are still very young, I wish you early success.

I can't say what is wrong with you learning these two subjects, but I think you still think about your family's ability, whether you can find a job after learning this, after all, this world is still very realistic, if not, then it is still a popular thing, after all, you can't learn anything again, time will not let you start over, and if you don't learn well, it will not hit your self-confidence is also a problem. These two subjects are not easy to learn, and I also have Japanese books, but I just don't know where they are wrong, and I don't learn them very well. Think about it.

You already want to post it, it's useless to say what others say, isn't it? You just need others to agree with your approach, and you will do it when you think about it, and you may not be able to listen to what others say.

I envy you, at least you have something you're interested in.

No matter what you learn, as long as you are willing to learn, there will definitely be gains, there must be voices for and against on the road to success, no matter what you have to do is to walk your own way, in addition to you said that you worked in the field when you were 17 years old, and you still have nothing to do, I suggest: you should plan how to use your income every time. In the same way, you should also plan your foreign language learning, don't set your goals too high at once, take your time, and believe in yourself!!

I think you just have to settle down and learn, regardless of whether there is a way out or not, as long as you persevere, you will always find the meaning.

In fact, to be honest, in today's society, it does not mean that if you are interested in something, you can study it and get ahead in this area. For example, many people have many different hobbies, but when he chooses a career, he does not choose his hobbies, he chooses what he is good at or is more popular in society, because survival is like this, you may have heard a lot of people who are very successful in a certain aspect When he talks about his life, he may say that what I want to do the most is something, and it is not his current profession. Of course, I'm not denying your choice, I mean, you have to put in more and harder effort to choose yourself who is illusory and feel that you have this talent, you have to do better than others, preferably unique, so that you can stand out yourself, because you don't have a platform, so you have to grow taller than the platform, higher than the platform, and then higher than the people above the platform, so that you can succeed, otherwise, your result is that you will not meet the talent.

As long as you are willing to work hard, you will succeed one day, and you have to persevere!!

Nothing is guaranteed to succeed, just don't forget the feeling of being on the road.

If you are diligent and studious, you will have a way out, don't look down on yourself, you have to sink down. Don't float on the surface.

Do you feel like being the only child in your family is under a lot of pressure?

In addition, I am not successful in my career, I feel that I am very useless, and I don't know how to support my parents in the future?

I think you're actually quite young, younger than me, but you already have a lot to bear.

You only went to junior high school, and you didn't do anything after that, just playing games. In that case, it is also understandable, in fact, everyone has a fun psychology when they are young, because they are not sensible, but the past is gone, and it is impossible to start over, and there is no way to get it back, so you don't remember the past anymore, Learn to look forward, you know?

You should want to create your own business, but you must also know that many times you don't want to succeed if you want to succeed, you have to have a plan, and your ** must also have characteristics, which requires you to have a unique vision, see which markets are not developed, open a special ** for a specific group of people, and choose some personalized clothes. And it can't be someone else who sells clothes, you also sell clothes, it's all clothes, it's all the same, there is nothing attractive about it. That's a case that few people will visit.

Therefore, you have to think about it slowly, how to make something different from other people's, and you can't continue to let it go like this, so that the ** will be deserted. If you don't act, just watching it go cold is not an option. You will also feel very sad in your heart, because if you put in so much and there is no return, you will be less confident and feel that you will not succeed.

You can work things like attitude and after-sales service, and many people pay attention to the owner's personality when shopping, so that there will be repeat customers.

Also, you said that your father looks down on you, I suggest you don't think so, no parent will be ashamed of their son, most of them are proud of their son, even if you don't succeed now, he will definitely not regret giving birth to you, and he will not think that you will really lose this family and discredit this family. Really, don't let your own thoughts ruin your father-son relationship. No parent would look down on their child!

As for the friends around you, don't care too much about other people's eyes, you just do what you won't regret in the future, caring so much will make it difficult for you to move an inch. I don't dare to do it if I want to, for fear of failure. A true friend will not laugh at you, will not look down on you, will only reach out to help you, or enlighten you when you need comfort.

I think you are a very self-motivated person, because only people who are on their way to success have so many troubles. I believe in you, you can do a good job, take your time, don't be too anxious, think about it, and then compare those successful stores why they are successful, and then think about why they are not successful, improve their own shortcomings, and then absorb the good of others, your store will be prosperous!

Believe in yourself, really!

Learn some real skills, you're not too old in '92, you're just 18 years old, learn some hard crafts, and you can learn them when you're in your twenties. Come on, when you are still young, you are very confused, but you should also study things well, don't do anything at home, go out to learn things, go out and work hard. Opportunities don't grow at home, they float outside.

Go to the army! Exercise yourself, be lucky to stay in the army, and don't say much else.

You're still young. It doesn't matter if you don't have a diploma, but you must be capable. Laziness must be stopped.

Don't think about getting rich overnight or anything like that. Starting a business is not something that can be successful in a day or two. Think twice when you encounter a big problem.

Usually talk to your parents and friends more and be happy. Hope you get better.

This is how it is in the workplace, it is normal for the boss to scold often, no matter in **. The supervisor I serve in my unit is a woman in her 30s, alas, I am often scolded, what to do, who let us work for others, if only we were the boss.

I feel the same way as you! Crashed away.

This is about mentality, the most ideal point at present is that you still know that you have to correct, know that you are wrong to change your mentality must do two things, first: you know that you are wrong Second: you are willing to correct, and insist!

Man is a very inert animal, lazy, selfish, lazy and all kinds of negative emotions often make themselves lost, no one wants to work hard to pay, put time in their own space does not belong to their own space! Everyone wants to enjoy forever, never to work hard Your fault is that "sensibility" and "rationality" have lost their balance, knowing that they are wrong, but they can't extricate themselves. This kind of spiritual thing, no one can help you, you can only strengthen your own mentality and thoughts, and change yourself by yourself.

The only thing that can help you is the word "pressure"! Hope it helps you to get back on your feet!

That's your family conditions are good, my family is average, I haven't worked for almost two years, and I'll go crazy if I stay at home again, so I went out to work (waiter, six hundred a month), there are such and such problems before work, and there are after work, but I can live independently on my own, no longer have to ask my parents for money, real "freedom"! Looking back on the past, when I took the first step, the pressure was really high, but the pressure of not going out to work was even greater, now that I think about it, when I encounter such a thing again, it seems that there is not much pressure and I have adapted!

I've tried to have no job for 1 year before, and I've been looking for a job, but the company doesn't like what I like, and the company doesn't like me, so I have been procrastinating for 1 year

I don't have any money at work, others are at work, and I don't have anyone to accompany me, in fact, it's really boring And my temper has become bad, and I often quarrel with my boyfriend during that time I have to put my mentality on the table, don't be afraid, there's nothing to be afraid of, anyway, if you don't like it, don't do it It doesn't have to be a big company, and the treatment is not necessarily very good, but to find what you like, at least get rid of your lazy emotions first

It's useless to say too much and can't concentrate a lot on the psychological role of school, you look at your classmates, when you don't want to be nervous, do it every day, so problems with students, the results are gradually more than you will have a progressive strength to feed mom and dad with perseverance in the last fight.

I'm pretty much the same, why are we so similar, but I think it's better to start your own business than to work for others, so you can also start your own business, do a small business, and it's worth it to be tired.

If you don't go to work, no one wants to go to work, but if you don't go to work, how can you come to the ocean, what do you eat, drink, and live without the ocean! The girl is better, she can marry a good husband in the future, but after you get married, be a housewife at home, I don't think you want to do it, you are a typical characteristic of the Chinese - lazy! It's not terrible to be lazy, it's scary to be lazy all the time!

That's easy, I'll give you a way to make sure you don't stay for half a year and then work.

You'd better jump off the building! You'll wake up when you jump! Hey!