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Such couples are just to live together, to be able to have each other's company.
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I think that such a couple is just to maintain the stability of the family, maybe for the sake of the children, or maybe for the sake of not making their parents sad, but I don't think there is really any need to maintain such a marriage.
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Maybe because of the children, they still want to give the children a complete home, but the relationship is broken again, so they can only not divorce and live their own lives.
It is also possible that the parents of both parties are unwilling, and in order not to worry each other's parents, they will not divorce for the time being.
It's just that I haven't found a suitable other half, so the two of them will not divorce now.
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Now there are many such couples, because the relationship between them has slowly faded with the passage of time and the troubles of trivial things in life, but for the sake of the children, for the sake of the children to have a complete family, so they will not choose to divorce, but live their own lives, play their own games, and do not disturb each other.
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Such couples have no love between them, they are just together for the sake of their children, so they will not interfere in each other's lives.
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This is to not affect the development of their own children, and I hope to provide a home for my children, so that he can return to his home anytime and anywhere.
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I think that for such couples, they may each have an indifferent attitude, and they don't cherish this relationship, and they don't care about the family, so they do this.
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I am also living like this, thinking about what else to insist on in such a marriage, can't I live a chic life? How long can I hold out.
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Because now more and more couples are not in harmony with each other, but they are unwilling to bear the name of divorce, they think that divorce is very unseemly, so they would rather go their own way than choose divorce.
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Nowadays, more and more couples have to go their separate ways without divorce, because people are more independent nowadays and don't want others to participate in some of their own decisions, so they prefer freedom.
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Because most of today's husbands and wives live their own lives, they only live together for the sake of their children, but they take care of themselves in their private lives, and they barely live together for the sake of their children not being affected by the family.
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Because divorce is a very important and troublesome thing for them, everyone is not in love, and they want to have their own life, they have no conflicts, and the divorce procedures and property distribution issues are very troublesome, so they keep this state.
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Because they don't want to divorce because they don't want to divide the joint property of two people, each of them has no feelings.
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It is because there are so many couples nowadays, if they divorce, it will have a lot of impact on their lives, so they will decide to live their own lives.
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Because today's husbands and wives pay attention to spiritual independence and don't want each other to interfere with their lives.
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Because such couples are all for the sake of the children, they are afraid that the children's psychological capacity will not be good, so there is no divorce, but each has its own way.
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Because their thinking is more conservative, they want to save a little face for themselves, and they don't want their children to have no family.
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Because such couples are all thinking about their children, in order to give their children a more complete family. That's why there is such a state.
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In fact, everyone doesn't want to get divorced, because divorce will be questioned by some people in the outside world and various arguments, so it is better to maintain this state and it will not be affected.
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It's normal, because they still have to consider a lot of factors, and it's not that they can simply separate without feelings.
First of all, they have to think about children, after two people get married and have children, there is a bond, what decisions need to consider the impact on the child, and the child is young to consider his growth and parenting. When the child is older, his psychological development and education should be considered, just like many couples choose to go through divorce procedures after the college entrance examination in order not to delay their children's college entrance examination, and there is a phenomenon of divorce. Some children will become extreme and sensitive because of their parents' divorce, and in order to keep their parents together, they will do something different from the usual, which has a detrimental effect on parents and children.
Secondly, they also have to consider both families, sometimes both parents are very optimistic about this marriage, so they don't want to make the parents sad and disappointed, so they choose to live together. There are also couples who are embarrassed to separate even if they have no feelings after marriage, and they feel sorry for their parents and don't want their parents to worry.
In addition, there are some couples who do not divorce because of the distribution of property, it may be that their joint property is not easy to divide after marriage, or there is no property that can be divided at all, such as only one house, but they don't want to move out, and they can't afford to buy another set, so they simply live together like roommates, you don't interfere with me, I don't affect you, don't disturb each other, outsiders look at each other as respectful and happy, but the actual situation is only known to them.
Although in today's society, people's consciousness is becoming more and more self-conscious, and they will consider their own real needs, most people have a high degree of acceptance of divorce, thinking that they should be separated if they are unhappy together and have no feelings, but the reality will always have various factors that restrict their behavior, after all, most people are not selfish, not only to consider themselves, but also to consider the relatives around them.
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Normal. Because many couples are more family-oriented and will choose to continue for the sake of their children, this is normal.
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This is normal, because many couples nowadays come over like this, and since they decide to enter into marriage with each other, they should be responsible for each other.
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Normal, because everyone feels that since they are married, they should not divorce easily, and marriage is a responsibility.
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<> "Why are there many couples who play their own games but don't divorce?" These three reasons speak to human nature.
1. Relying on symbiosis, the joint property between husband and wife cannot be effectively divided.
There are many self-made couples who have experienced a lot of things with each other, becoming bigger and stronger step by step, from poor to rich, and the interests of the two people are also crisscrossed.
At this time, the two people no longer have feelings, and they have also considered divorce, but the union of interests makes it impossible for them to divide the property too clearly. Therefore, since the division of property cannot be clear, then it is good to live in this mess, and it is a big deal to treat the other party as a suitable partner.
Second, the advantages and disadvantages are avoided, and the second-married couple is far less trusting than the original couple.
I knew an eldest sister before, about 37 years old, because of proper maintenance, ** tight, plump body, at a glance, only the charm remains. She and her husband are playing their own games and not interfering with each other, usually no one interferes with anyone, and they can't say a few words.
The eldest sister said that there was no relationship between the two of them, but she asked herself, if she said that she was sick and hospitalized at this time, no matter what her husband was doing, he would definitely put down what he was doing and come from thousands of miles away. This is the trust between the original husband and wife, which no one can give.
If she is divorced, then the second-married couple will be full of calculations, and the eldest sister herself frankly admits that she has her own children and will definitely think more about her own children, and the second-married husband is just a person who lives together for her.
3. Be thoughtful and don't want broken feelings to hurt your child.
In real life, children living in single-parent families will have some character flaws to a greater or lesser extent, because the components of the family are parents and children. A divorced family is either absent from father's love or mother's love, and such a family cannot instill complete love in their children, which will lead to some defects in their character, such as low self-esteem and sensitivity, anger and twisting, etc.
Husband and wife may exist in name only, but they will not deny their love for their children, the two of them no longer love each other, but they do not want to cause irreversible damage to their children because of their own affairs. As a result, they would rather maintain the glamour of their marriage on the surface than break this filter.
Generally speaking, it is necessary to analyze the specific problem specifically, if you really have no interest in the other party, and you also feel that you are familiar with each other, then you should propose to break up at this time, and you should tell the other party that you really have no feelings for each otherAnd this is a normal choice, but if you feel that it is necessary for both parties to be together, then you can also choose to continue to communicate at this time, and in general, you should consider the problem from the following aspects. <> >>>More
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