The wife who said When the child is older, I will divorce , after the child goes to college, is it

The children really divorced after they went to college, in fact, many people just made do with their marriages, and when everything was ready, everyone basically broke up in the end.

Most of them are not divorced, because at this age they think that they are the same as whoever they live with.

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Legal Analysis: Parents whose adult children who have not yet lived independently and are still enrolled in school and have the ability to pay should still bear the necessary child support expenses. Adult children are enrolled in not only universities but also graduate school, and the only prerequisite is that their parents are able to pay.

Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family (1) Article 41: Adult children who are still in school and receiving education at or below high school, or who are unable to maintain a normal life due to non-subjective reasons, such as those who have lost or partially lost their ability to work, may be found to be adult children who are unable to live independently as provided for in article 1067 of the Civil Code.

Most of the families in this situation are originally husband and wife who do not have a good relationship and have been relying on their children as a link of communication with each other for many years. Chen Ling, a marriage and family counselor at Zhengzhou Weiqing Marriage Consulting Company, said that a certain party is dissatisfied with the marital relationship and regards the child as a consolation to maintain the relationship, and inadvertently uses the child to avoid the problem. As soon as the child leaves the family, the problems between the couple are exposed.

The question is, what should be done when this happens?

On a piece of paper, the husband and wife wrote down the dreams they had together when they were young, such as going on a trip together and reading a book together. After that, the couple went on a trip, trying to develop hobbies together, focusing on something together, and gradually finding new feelings.

All marital problems lie in communication.

After the child leaves the family, the husband and wife should strengthen communication with each other.

When reconstructing the world of the two, the husband and wife should pay attention to the needs of the other person, and then "do what they like" to love. In many years of married life, many people think that they love each other very much, but they don't understand each other's needs at all, and love and "dedicate" in their own way, but they don't know that "your sweetness" is really a burden to each other, until the two break up unhappily.

It is worth noting that, in general, women are more about emotional needs, talking and nagging are more for catharsis, while men are more about wanting to be respected. Therefore, a man who is accustomed to saying nothing and being silent when there is something must learn to understand his wife, who may just be lonely.

Women should learn to affirm a man, praise him more, and give him enough dignity and face.

Life is an art. If you can't "do what you like" for a long time, the other party will "abandon the city and flee".

Only by learning the art of love can there be no embarrassment of "children go to college, but we are scattered".

Divorce has nothing to do with children. Divorce is a decision made between two adults, and it must be a divorce that goes wrong in the marriage of two people.

People who are divorced after having children, this kind of person is really too irresponsible to the family.

Normal, there is the kind of family that often quarrels, it is better to be together than to be separated, so that the child is in a family without noise when he is a child, which can reduce his degree of injury.

It's normal to have children and divorce, after all, life is so short, it is impossible to make do with it for a lifetime because of the children, and it is not good for the growth of children.

I think that the original family has a great influence on the children, and a bad family atmosphere will have a bad impact on the children, so it is best not to divorce for the sake of the children.

The child must be considered, divorce or not divorce is a matter of affection between husband and wife, even if the relationship between the child and everyone in the family will not change after the divorce, the impact depends on whether the father's love and mother's love he feels are enough.

Divorce itself has little to do with the children, it is a matter for both husband and wife, and the parents of the divorced children will still not change. It would be too sad if two people maintained a marriage in name only because of their children.

It's normal, now people are pursuing equality and freedom, two people are together and the two are not in the same way, they don't see each other, and it will only be more painful to live, that is to say, people now have no patience, the previous society was centered on men, so women can only endure it, and now the times are different!

Although they have children, their personalities really can't get along, and they have no choice but to divorce, which I think is normal.

It affects the growth and development of children, and I think a healthy family is very important for children's growth, and it is not easy to divorce.

As a child growing up in a single-parent family, I really feel that a complete home is important.

Grass, it's because I have children that I got divorced. You've seen a few newlyweds and divorced.

Divorce is someone else's business, and you don't have to look at it. Let's disperse.

If life is better, who would think about divorce.

It must be unbearable, and I really can't go on.

It can only be said that such a marriage is too difficult.

At the time of divorce, if the children have reached adulthood, the court only needs to grant the divorce and settle the division of property, and no longer solve the children's problems. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 8 over that a minor child over the age of 8 should be living with the father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into account. A child under the age of 2 years shall be awarded to the mother.

Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

After divorce, children under the age of two years shall be raised directly by the mother. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of custody, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of concealment that is most beneficial to the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.