I ve been with my wife for eleven years, and now I m getting a divorce, is there someone outside?

It doesn't have to be someone outside, only your wife knows what the situation is, you can be honest, the relationship has nothing to do with the length of time, it has nothing to do with the number of children, sometimes the relationship is gone.

Divorce after 11 years of marriage, there must be a major conflict in the marriage, you should divide the reasons in detail, talk to your wife, the contradiction should be resolved in time so that the marriage will not be in danger, whether there is anyone else outside the wife, before the divorce, you should believe in each other, only have a frank conversation, understand the cause of the contradiction can solve the best, can not be solved, husband and wife, good to get together and disperse, keep people can not keep their hearts, life is more boring.

If you think about whether you have given her enough care and love in your usual life, if she feels warm and happy in her heart, she will not get divorced. Just looking at the divorce is just that you are in a bad relationship, and you can't be sure that there are people outside.

It stands to reason that you have passed the seven-year itch, and you have already run in what you should run, and you know each other very well.

And you also have two children, which is the happiest family of four.

It mainly depends on how much you usually care about your wife and whether you take into account her feelings. How your life is going, if you have enough food and clothing, it shouldn't be a big problem. Have a good chat with your wife and see what she is dissatisfied with about you.

Not necessarily, it may be that I really can't stand it, let's meet and talk about it. If mine is helpful to you, oh! Thank you

I've been with my wife for eleven years, and now I'm going to divorce, is there someone outside, you should think about whether it's your own reason, don't think about other people's reasons first, there must be a reason for divorce after such a long time.

Personally, I think that in this case, the probability of a woman having someone outside is still very high, otherwise she may not necessarily have to divorce you!

According to what you said, most of your wife has a lover outside, and you have to think about what to do next, whether you should let it go. Or continue to insist and see if you can save your wife's heart.

Personally, I don't think so.

You have lived with your wife for 11 years.

She is now suddenly getting a divorce.

You can communicate with her calmly.

If you are usually nice to her.

And didn't do anything to be sorry for her.

That could be her problem.

It is recommended that you talk calmly and face to face, marriage is not child's play, especially for the sake of children.

Rational face, don't be impulsive, recommend the "Heart Sutra" can be recited often, there is no Puxian Bodhisattva in the south.

If there is someone, you should be able to feel it.

Summary. Hello, my wife and I haven't been together for 20 years and want to divorce, what should I do? In such a situation, the husband and wife have not lived together for more than 20 years, and in such a situation, they can directly submit materials to prove that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down and apply to the court for divorce.

or if both parties agree to divorce, they may go to the marriage registration office to go through the formalities for divorce.

My wife and I haven't been together for 20 years and want to get a divorce.

Hello, my wife and I haven't been together for 20 years and want to divorce, what should I do? In such a situation, the husband and wife have not lived together for more than 20 years, and in such a situation, they can directly submit materials to prove that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down and apply to the court for divorce. or if both parties agree to divorce, they may go to the marriage registration office to go through the formalities for divorce.

The process of divorce by mutual agreement is as follows: 1. The parties apply; 2. Preliminary examination by the marriage registration authority; 3. Issue the "Receipt of Acceptance of Divorce Registration Application" and apply for the issuance of a divorce certificate upon the expiration of the divorce cooling-off period; 5. Examination by the marriage registration authority; 6. Registration and issuance of divorce certificate.

Hello, my wife and I haven't been together for 20 years and want to divorce, what should I do? In such a situation, the husband and wife have not lived together for more than 20 years, and in such a situation, they can directly submit materials to prove that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down and apply to the court for divorce. or if both parties agree to divorce, they may go to the marriage registration office to go through the formalities for divorce.

The materials required for divorce by agreement are as follows: 1. The ID cards and household registration books of both parties, note that the word "married" should be displayed in the marital status column of the household registration book. 2. Original Marriage Certificate; 3. Signed and confirmed Divorce Agreement; 4. Two personal bareheaded photos in the near future.

Summary. Good afternoon, your wife suddenly said this doesn't mean that there are people outside her, do you recall, have you had any conflicts recently? Did you have a quarrel?

If there is a constant quarrel, she may be very angry, and she may say this sentence. If there is no contradiction, she suddenly said so, it must be something else.

Good afternoon, your wife suddenly said this doesn't mean that there are people outside her, do you recall, have you had any conflicts recently? Did you have a quarrel? If there is a constant quarrel, she may be very angry, and she may say this sentence.

If there is no contradiction, she suddenly said so, it must be something else.

Generally, women file for divorce because they have accumulated a lot of disappointment in their marriage, and women generally do not mention divorce easily.

Do you and your wife quarrel a lot?

There were no quarrels. Saying I don't care enough about her and understand her.

Oh, say that you don't care enough about her, then you can have more relations with her in the future, she just said angry words, I want to give you a reminder, remind you, warn, it means that I want you to pay more attention to care about her in the future.

Women generally pay more attention to the sense of ceremony, pay more attention to details, usually in some major festivals, such as 520, Qixi Festival, 38 Festival, you send her a red envelope, she will also be very happy, or buy her a gift.

Usually communicate with her more, and usually care about her.

Usually I also say some softening words and nice words first, coaxing her, and women generally coax her.

My wife has to divorce me, is there someone outside?

If the wife files for divorce, then it means that the wife is very disappointed in her husband, and she is also very dissatisfied with her marriage. Of course, it may also mean that the wife has a third party outside and does not want to continue living with her husband, in short, there are many reasons why the wife files for divorce, and some wives will even want to divorce for some trivial things. In fact, divorce is not so simple, the husband and wife have to be considerate of each other together, and they can't talk about divorce at every turn, and the husband can coax the wife who wants to divorce more, maybe they will give up the idea of divorce.

Summary. Someone else's wife is divorced because of you, and if so, you should be held responsible.

I've been with someone else's wife for several years, but I haven't found out until someone else's wife has a child after the divorce.

Hello, you didn't make it clear, have your child?

Hello. Hello, please be more complete, okay?

Someone else's wife is divorced because of you, and if so, you should be held responsible.

That is, I met a woman on the Internet, she was not divorced when I first met, we were together, and then we lived together for several years, but the other party has never been found, and I went to the court to sue for divorce on the one I knew, and sued many times, sued for divorce in August last year, and then we had children this year, is this illegal?

Hello, the two of you are not married, it is not a crime of bigamy, not to mention that the other party is divorced.

I'm a southerner, and there are a lot of relatives and friends around me who are in a state of divorce, I don't know if the landlord is a ** person, but I will probably talk about my view on marriage, two people need to achieve each other together, so she doesn't have to be with you, not necessarily because you are not good, maybe you are not as important to her as you imagined, so he may divorce you at the beginning and then be with you, he may remember your old love, etc., including children, these factors are possible, but in the end why choose to leave, because she may not see a point in you that she really wants to see, he may be with you for the second time with a filter, but after being together, he finds that it is different from what he imagined, so I suggest that you look for questions from yourself, such as whether you have done some body management, whether you care more about her, whether there is some atmosphere creation, your own change or self-improvement, etc. You may have to find the reason for yourself.

Of course, what I just said is non-material, I don't know if the landlord's family situation is, so what, I can't give too much advice, but I think that since a girl can be with you, and then leave is definitely not because of the material, if she must be gone because of the material, if it is not because of the material, I think this relationship still has room for redemption, at this time I suggest you consider it from your own point of view, is it not that you have a lot of shortcomings for example, If a boy is with a girl, the boy has been improving himself, and he is very funny in talking, has body management, and can take care of people, then why do you think a girl should leave him? It must be because of a bad personality, then you change your personality, **it's not easy to change**, maybe in the end you are still not with him, but these changes you make with him will definitely bring more security and responsibility to the next one, and it is also an improvement for yourself.

In my opinion, since you have already had a divorced wife, although he came back to you for a year, it is only out of memory, or considering the problem of children, if you still love the other person, you will actively make efforts to continue to remarry your wife.

You're desperate anyway, and you're going to be done.

Legal analysis: If the husband and wife are not together for two years, it is not considered a divorce, but the husband and wife can apply for divorce.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.