Can a husband and wife be friends after a divorce?

Husbands and wives can't be friends after divorce, because since they are divorced, there is nothing to talk about, and if they are reluctant to be friends, they will only make themselves think of this sad thing.

After the divorce of the husband and wife, in fact, some can also be friends, because the two people have completely let go of the relationship.

No, because such a relationship is awkward, it is best that two people should be silently blessed after separation.

When many people get married, they think that love can last for a long time, or they are each other for the rest of their lives, but you must know that in fact, feelings are uncontrollable things, so many times, there is no way to feel the end or continuation of the relationship.

In life, can two people who have been divorced continue to be friends? Let's take a look at what they say.

1. Mr. Chen: After the divorce, I can't be friends.

My wife and I had a pretty good relationship before the divorce, but over time, with the messy trivial things in life, the relationship between the two of us encountered problems, in fact, at first I felt that these were not very unavoidable things, but still did not let each other be able to get through these sadness, so I chose to divorce without thinking about it, in fact, it was also after a long time of compromise between the two parties, and found that there was no effect, so such a decision was made.

The two of us have never been in touch since the divorce, and there is nothing worth talking about on both sides, if Danfan can have feelings to be friends, how can he get divorced, so our only tacit understanding is that the two sides will not have anything to do with each other, and they are completely strangers.

2. Ms. Li If it weren't for the children, there really wouldn't be any need to connect.

It's been two years since I divorced my ex-husband, and we haven't cut off contact during this time, because we have children, in fact, I know very well in my heart, because of children, we should not be able to break contact in this life, because from time to time children need to see their parents, in fact, now we also have our own lives, if there are no children, or not contact, it's okay for everyone.

3. Mr. Zhu Actually, as long as it does not disturb the other party's life, it is okay to contact.

My ex-wife and I divorced because of some small problems, both of us may not know how to understand each other at the time, we both have grievances in our hearts, so the two of us actually piled up the contradictions in our hearts, and in the last outbreak, we couldn't take it, in fact, after we divorced, the two of us have been in contact, I'm worried about whether she is doing well, she should also care about me, in fact, divorce doesn't matter, if the relationship is there, I still hope to have a good result.

Of course, you can be friends after divorce, two people divorce for various reasons, but after all, there is a good moment, each other's understanding of each other is still a little more than other people, from another point of view, it is not the relationship between husband and wife to get along or better communication, but also what friends say can express everything that cannot be said when they are husband and wife, and eliminate the separation that is not said when they are husband and wife. If people with children get along with each other after divorce, communicating with each other is very helpful to the growth of children, and both parties can choose to remarry if they do not remarry, which is also the best buffer treatment for divorced couples with children. There are many examples of such remarriages.

This is also the best ending.

I've always admired people who can be friends after a breakup, and it's even more free to be friends after a divorce.

It is said that a hundred years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation can be cultivated to sleep together, and it is destined to be destined to become a husband and wife.

In any case, the person who accompanied him to the marriage hall is the one who has experienced happiness.

In the midst of marriage, you must cherish the time you can spend together, so that when you leave, you can calmly say goodbye to your past feelings.

Regardless of whether they can be friends or not, at the very least, the most beautiful years, we have held hands together!

To this question, I dare say that few people will answer it happily: after divorce, goodbye is also a friend. In fact, I haven't met a few people who can be friends with their original partners after the divorce.

Even many fashion men and women who think they are very avant-garde are vague in the face of this problem, and they can't do the self-proclaimed "lovers, goodbye" as free and easy. After all, divorce is not a pleasant thing. There was a famous quote that lifted women up:

Behind a successful man, there is a successful woman. The subtext of this sentence is that a man cannot achieve success without a successful woman. I have always thought that this sentence summed up very correctly, like the great *** quotes, can be enshrined as a classic.

But if you put this sentence in another role: behind a successful woman, there is a man who breaks her heart. The same can be a classic.

These ancestral classic assertions repeatedly tell us that men and women can become friends, but once they walk into the siege hand in hand, and then divorce and get out of the siege, goodbye cannot be friends. In fact, it is not uncommon for divorce to become enemies.

In the divorce story, although the protagonist's reasons for divorce are different, in the final analysis, it is all about the relationship that is difficult to continue. Since both parties are hurt by love, and they are so hurt that they can only forget a period of pain with the helpless ending of divorce, how can they be friends when they say goodbye? In many classic romance movies, you can often see such a bridge:

After the divorce, the hero and heroine, many years later, met unintentionally, and then went to a Western restaurant for a candlelight dinner like an old friend, and then looked at each other affectionately, how much hatred and hatred melted into naught at that moment. Such shots often make us feel emotional, and have some illusions: after divorce, we can still be very good friends when we meet each other again.

Many beautiful situations, but back to reality, we often find it difficult to find that kind of romance and expectations. There is a text message like this: marriage is a mistake, divorce is enlightenment, divorce and marriage are obsessive.

Although it is ridiculous, it also reflects the helplessness of many urban people about real marriage. Less than half a year after a friend of mine got divorced, he got married again. He jokingly told me in **

Friends said frankly: Husband and wife can't do it, can they still be friends? Is it still necessary to be friends after a divorce?

In the emotional stories I have written in the past, many divorced men and women are also asking me: Can they still be friends after divorce? An interesting phenomenon is that friends who are in love, or unmarried boyfriends and girlfriends, when answering this question, are mostly very chic, and generally answer like this:

Since you can't grow old and hold hands for a lifetime, then divorce, and everyone will still be friends after the divorce. I had more contact with men and women inside and outside the besieged city, and I summed up a rule myself: after the answer, if you are friends after the divorce, you must not be married; Rather, it is a married man and a woman who have been wounded in the siege.

To make such a summary, I also think it is absolute. But the reality has always made me think: outside the siege.

No. Now I think that for the sake of peace in the small world of the two of you, you must send his ill-intentioned ex-wife into the eighteenth layer of hell, and use your happiness to tell her that it is impossible to break up with you, in this case, I will not talk about what his ex-wife thinks, but you must maintain a sense of crisis at all times, if necessary, you can find a good time with your husband to tell each other your thoughts on this matter, a really smart woman knows how to protect her happiness from being threatened, But this way should be adapted to local conditions, every man is different, and you and him can enter the palace of marriage together, I believe you understand how to get along with your husband. Happiness is not something that can be waited for, you need to work your own!

There are very few couples who can be friends after divorce, after all, there are many reasons for the divorce of husband and wife, and there are all kinds of contradictions.

Rhetorical question. If you can be friends, why can't you be husband and wife?

When the relationship between husband and wife is torn to divorce. How deep are the wounds on both sides? Even children, families and husbands and wives can be abandoned for many years. To be friends again?

Divorce is a painful and unacceptable option for many people.

Of course, do meet and greet friends, probably.

Hardly, there are no issues of principle, and it is impossible to divorce, and what is divorce if you can be friends. Divorced couples with children may have some contact with the issue of children, and later have a new family, and gradually drift apart.

Theoretically, it is completely possible, but in practice, it is difficult to do. Because after the divorce of the husband and wife, they will definitely start their own families, even if the two are friends, but what will the other two people think, it is better to be a stranger.

Couples can still be friends after divorce, but this kind of getting along is a bit awkward. If both parties feel that there is nothing, then there is no problem at all.

It's basically impossible! Will two people be separated when they get to the point of being friends? Therefore, freezing three feet is not a day's cold. The idea that you can be friends after a divorce is just a beautiful fantasy!

Husbands and wives are divorced, each has a family, and generally does not become friends. This is also for the sake of the harmony of the current couple. No more contact with your ex, less trouble.

It depends on your situation, if two people divorce peacefully, they can definitely be friends, after all, they used to be husband and wife. But if you fight to the death and get divorced by the court, you will definitely not be able to be friends.

Now many people are still friends after divorce, because after all, they have loved each other, there are always some people who understand each other, and some people who are looking for friends again will also tell their ex-wives and ex-husbands!

If you don't get married again, it's okay, if you are all married, I personally think it's best to have less relationships, which is not good for both families

This looks at people, I think it depends on the reason for divorce, it's good to get together and disperse, it's okay to be friends, if there are some special reasons and make enemies, then it's not necessary, it's troublesome to meet, why bother.

Couples can be friends after divorce, but of course they will not be close friends.

Divorce without a common language, can you be friends without a common language?

This is all different from person to person, some people may be friends, some people may be enemies, it depends on how your marriage relationship is, and the situation of your daily life.

Most couples will not be friends after divorce, and some of them are still in constant contact, after all, some of them often go back to see their children and take their children out to play, but there are very few such things.

It's better not to.

Because it hurts to see it.

Unless you don't get a divorce.

Of course!

But most couples are strangers after divorce, like enemies!

If you think about it, it must be a bad relationship to get divorced? The divorce property is divided in half, do you say that they will not become friends? Unless the wife does not fight or grab, and breaks up peacefully...

1. The economic problem is lacking dust.

In married life, many women are often in an economically disadvantaged position, not as rich as men, but are required to take on the same responsibilities as men to raise children and support families. Many women are worried about high housing prices, burden-bearing mortgages, and children's education, diet, and nutrition costs. Divorce also involves the spouses' property, including a house, car, household registration, taxes, and various stresses.

Many couples will bow to financial pressure, even if the marriage is unhappy, but if they are divorced, it will be more difficult to raise the family alone.

2. The problem of face and children.

Chinese attach great importance to face, and family ugliness is something that ordinary people do not want to mention, so many couples would rather break their teeth and swallow blood than easily choose divorce after the relationship breaks down. Because after two people get married, it is not only a problem for two people, but also a problem for two families. After the divorce, the husband and wife cannot face their parents, their respective relatives, relatives and friends, and outsiders pointing fingers behind their backs.

Many couples choose to be together for the sake of face, and they also choose to be together for the sake of their children. They are afraid that after the divorce, the children will have no father and no mother; They want to give better care to their children and protect their children's growth.

Because many divorced couples are not enemies, it happens that they are not suitable to live together only because of emotional discord and other reasons, but when friends still don't ask questions.

It's just that there is no love, it doesn't mean that you will resent each other, it doesn't mean that you can't be friends, and there is family affection.