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At this time, you can communicate effectively with your wife, ask your wife what she thinks, you must make changes to what your wife cares about, and you can also care more about your wife in your daily life, and create a series of small surprises for your wife during holidays, so as to maintain the relationship between you.

Divorce in marriage is a very serious fighting matter, and it is necessary to respect the choice of the other party, taking into account the emotions and interests of both parties in the marriage, therefore, the following measures are required to save the marriage:

1.Listen carefully to the other person's thoughts and reasons, understand the other person's emotional needs, and communicate, solve and explain problems as much as possible.

2.Aware of her own problems and shortcomings, Yinzi makes corresponding efforts and changes to meet the needs and hopes of the other party.

3.Prove your sincerity and determination through your actions, and rebuild trust and affection through acts of care, compassion and tolerance.

4.Find a marriage specialist or marriage counselor for help to face problems together and improve your relationship.

5.Don't give up easily, treat each other with love and patience, give enough time and space, and make a lasting recovery.

There is no third party, this matter is easy to solve, but she obviously has a third party, and it is estimated that she is also because of that person's rhetoric and comparison with you, which leads to no feelings for you. To be honest, at this level, either she feels sorry for the child and doesn't want the child to have a broken family, or you have enough sincerity to move her (it's basically impossible to change your hand). Otherwise, it's really hard to recover.

The wife wants to divorce, which is the most heart-wrenching thing in many couples' relationships. Although there are times when we think we've poured all our energy and affection into salvaging the relationship, the results can still be disappointing. If we look closely, we can often see that this situation did not form overnight.

The accumulation of conflicts between husband and wife and ignoring each other's feelings and needs eventually led to a rift in the wife's feelings.

If your wife does decide to divorce, then saving her affection is not the only option, nor is it the best option. As people say, time can hurt everything. Sometimes, we need to pause and allow time for our emotions to rest and recover, and then start again to reconnect with each other's hearts.

If you decide to go for a breakup, but still be able to communicate in a respectful and understanding way, it will be more beneficial for your future.

Finally, in the long run, you should be aware of the mistakes in your relationship. Knowing the mistakes you have made, correcting your behaviour and making a commitment will be the key to improving your relationship as a couple. Your wife needs to see your determination and dedication, and you also need to look to the future, determine the route you want to take, and work hard to achieve it.

As long as you are willing to put in the effort, your relationship as a couple has a chance to return to its former good state and even become stronger and more precious.

Legal analysis: If you want to get back your wife who is about to divorce, you must learn to communicate effectively with her, what is effective communication? It means that through these communications, the contradictions between you can be reduced and the feelings between you can be promoted, instead of greetings and unnecessary digressions.

Smile more, hug each other, appreciate each other more, spend more time doing things that the other person likes, help the other person when they need it, praise each other more, smile more, agree more, and do something fun together.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1078:Where the marriage registration authorities ascertain that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt disposition, they shall register and issue a divorce certificate.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

If the couple comes to the step of divorce, it must be because there is really a problem with the two of them, and they have reached an unprecedented height of contradiction, which is difficult to solve for a while, and only divorce seems to be a way out. As everyone knows, some people realize their mistakes after divorce, and only then do they really regret that they failed to cherish each other's lives in the first place. So, if you are divorced, how can the man get his wife back?

Reflect on your own problems.

No matter who filed for divorce first, it was because one party was too far away from the expectations of the other party, or the two went in opposite directions, resulting in the opposite direction, and there was really no way to go hand in hand. At this time, you should reflect on why you behaved so badly in your marriage, making your wife dissatisfied, or even disappointed in you, and finally you can only part ways with you. If you don't know how to redeem, or redeem a failed friend, don't be discouraged, I wrote my successful redemption experience into an article called "Chen Azong's Compound Heart Journey" You can go to see it, and then do it after the reference, it will help you a lot, be a responsible person.

Men must have a certain sense of responsibility, women are inherently emotional, when you have conflicts, men should be responsible to resolve the contradictions, do more for the family, try not to bring the pressure at work home, learn how to self-regulate emotions, be a qualified husband, such a man, can save the divorced wife.

Elevate your charisma.

If your wife still refuses to believe that you don't want to turn back, you might as well give the other party a little calm time to think first, and improve your charm during this time. You can choose to learn a skill that your wife is interested in, and then perform it alone for your wife when the opportunity is right.

If you want to win back your wife, you must let go of your male self-esteem, admit your mistakes and coax them back.

First: Don't forget the original intention.

Now is the time of free love, and since you are together, you must have attracted each other in the first place. Think back to what you relied on to attract each other at the beginning, and then seriously think about what your original intention was when you chose to be together.

Thinking back to the past allows you to find the crucial key points when you are 'second attracted'.

Second: face reality.

Since the fact is that the other party has been chosen, then you should accept the reality, you can neither expect Wu Dalang to become Pan An, nor can you expect Ximen Qing to become Liu Xia Hui. Some facts are already doomed, blindly complaining will not help, it is better to try to face and accept, and then slowly become a habit.

Third: Change yourself.

Changing oneself includes both an outward image and an inner image. In terms of appearance, it doesn't mean you have to go for plastic surgery, but you can wear proper makeup or make yourself look neat and clean.

Fourth: communication.

As the saying goes: husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. A lot of things are not a big deal.

You have to learn to listen a lot when you communicate, and don't hold your words to yourself. Listen and speak well calmly, and on the premise of understanding and tolerance, it will not be difficult for husband and wife to get along.

Of course, if it is a third party who causes a crack in the marriage, you may have to learn to improve your charm and outwit the junior. If you don't have enough ability to recover, you can seek help from the Ace Emotional Agency.

Can a divorce be reversed? "Extramarital affair" divorce can it be reversed?

If a woman is completely dead, then your chances of recovery are very small, but it mainly depends on what is the reason for your divorce? And your wife's character. As for whether you can redeem it? It's up to the two of you.

Give your wife more romance and small surprises, don't think that after many years of marriage, the old husband and wife don't need some little romance and small surprises. A husband and wife for many years, a person who can still give roses to his wife, even if you are not a very romantic person, but you must be a person who knows how to love his wife. Give your wife a little more romance in life, this is the true meaning of saving your wife.

Even if it is a very successful idea, the other party will understand your mind, so that the emotion is slowly cultivated. Weifan Psychological Counseling Center is willing to provide you with professional and effective.

You are a big mistake, you shouldn't divorce your wife, it's normal for couples to beat and scold, but you can't say that the word divorce is too hurtful, these two words can make loving couples become enemies. but eternal enemies. The life of ordinary people is not like in the TV series, they can still talk after divorce and eat together.

This is all in life. I want to open and find a wife.

Yes, take the initiative to find someone, with 100% sincerity. If she's ready to remarry now, forget it! After all, I have accompanied you, I wish her happiness.

It depends on whether your relationship is still there, and if the other party is broken, there is little hope.

Yes, find out why. Good faith.

After the divorce, I found out that I can't live without the other half, and it is really painful to not have the other half, and I worry about this matter every day, and worry about it.

Then it was fine.

Thanks to the Heart Charm Bag.

The wife took the initiative to return to her side, and the two of them lived the happy life they used to live again, and if they had time, the two of them would go to the movies together, or go to the mall together.