How to save the relationship after divorce, and how to save it after divorce

The cooling-off period for divorce can be used to save the relationship, starting from the reason for the divorce.

There must be a certain reason why the two decided to go into the divorce window of the Civil Affairs Bureau. This reason may be an inconsistency in lifestyle, an inconsistency in the three views, or it may just be a trivial matter of housework. Whatever the reason, there is always a solution.

Either one person compromises, or both sides compromise. Escaping cannot solve the problem, only by having the courage to face it and find a way to solve the problem can the relationship between husband and wife be stable and long-lasting.

1. After the divorce, don't worry about Lu Tezhi's recovery, but should give the other party a little time, probably pointing out that Liang divorced because of impulsiveness at that time, so give the other party time, and also give yourself time to calm down, and consider whether there is a need for reunion between the two.

2. There must be a reason for the divorce, so you must calm down and think about the contradiction between the two.

3. Of course, you should also ask yourself, you have to ask yourself whether it is necessary to continue this relationship, if it hurts a lot, it is better to let go, so that you can fulfill the other party and fulfill yourself.

4. If you want to start all over again with your ex, you must go step by step, pursue the other party again, and make the other party feel that when you are back in love, if the other party has feelings for you, and when you see that you have changed so much now, you may also choose to forgive yourself, and then you will choose to remarry.

In the event of a divorce, the Civil Code provides a 30-day cooling-off period for both parties. Pre-litigation mediation can also be used to see if it can be recovered.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code [Divorce by Litigation] Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1077:[Cooling-off Period for Divorce]Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.

Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

The Civil Code came into force on January 1, 2021.

If you still have questions about this issue, it is recommended that you organize the relevant information and communicate with a professional in detail.