Exotic relationships encounter some problems to solve

First of all, I agree that long-distance relationships can indeed be harder, one gets along day and night, and the other is far away. But even if you get along day and night, there will be a lull period, have you foreseen your lull period according to the actual situation? You take time out to chat with her every day before school, and I think it's a boyfriend who is very responsible and loves her.

I think it's normal for her to fall asleep late at night or text her messages for a long time. At the same time, I don't think you should question her apology and tears, she can not apologize to you or be sloppy at all, what you question is your conscience and morals. While you're under the pressure of a long-distance relationship, she's also under the pressure of a long-distance relationship.

And no one is happy in the face of an angry person, even if your girlfriend has a good attitude, but have you ever thought about the pressure in her heart?

As an international student, I think studying abroad is indeed an opportunity to train people and grow people. You're clinging to your girlfriend every morning in Canada, how do you have time to improve yourself? How can I have time to mature and be strong?

Two people can talk about it, not it's inexhaustible. After you're gone, your girlfriend's focus slowly shifts to herself, and she's going to take care of her life on her own. I give you the following specific advice:

1. Reduce the frequency of chatting with your girlfriend to 2-3 times a week. Say something meaningful that will make you progress together.

2. Read more, actively integrate into the new environment, and hone more to make yourself strong and mature.

3. When you are strong and mature, you can become a beacon of her life and lead her to progress together.

4. It is recommended to apologize to her for your recent absence, and she deserves an apology from you for such immature thoughts. (Speak tactfully, be skillful).

Only when two people are attracted to each other can the relationship last for a long time. Although I can't predict the unfathomable fate, I believe that everyone should be better for themselves and their significant other.

When a boy goes out to study abroad, whether his parents or his girlfriend, he must expect him to be promising, and you have to become a promising.

I'm also in a foreign country, he's in the United States, and now I don't listen to him when I call him, and I don't reply to text messages. What else can you do but be crazy? Slowly I came to the conclusion that there must be one party in love who loves more, and you are that party, of course, I am too.

Personally, I think that long-distance relationships really need people who insist on persistence and are very controlling, and people who are very independent. Or you'll go crazy. We quarreled too many times, he was also a very perfunctory apology, in the end I don't care, the two of them are consumed like this, of course, they will still be sad and sad, but it will not be as deep as before, less input, it is the truth, too devoted, it will only hurt ourselves, and we are in a foreign relationship!

This wound will hurt even more!

Distance produces not beauty, but small three.

Rest assured, you are only 18 years old, your fate has not yet arrived, hehe, it is recommended that you find a boyfriend who suits you, he is not your dish, or don't invest too much, or in the end it is you who hurt the most, now your studies are important... Time will tell.

A lot of times it's just a feeling of happiness; Don't be lost just because you're happy, right.

Distance exists objectively, and only by strengthening communication can the two sides eliminate the strangeness brought by distance. Cultivating a common hobby, literature or ** can be a good topic of conversation. Both parties in love should compare their hearts with each other, and every time they don't reply to each other, they must think of the anxiety when they can't get a reply from the other party.

If there is a conflict or dissatisfaction, it is necessary to make it clear to the other party immediately, and people often choose to be silent when they need words the most, which has become the cause of emotional failure. Finally, both parties need to be clean and self-loving, maintain loyalty to each other, and if they are really tired, break up first and then find fun.

A major principle of long-distance relationship, girls can't do it, and boys can't spend it. When I sat alone on the bus and watched the people coming and going outside the window, when I was huddled alone in the subway and trying to hold my schoolbag to my chest, when a strong wind blew on my way back to the dormitory from the study room. The saddest time was when I felt lonely on my way to school on Sunday.

All I can say is that I have a strong sense of powerlessness and desperately wish that the person I love would be by my side.

Trust each other. I'm going to tell you what happens to me every day, and I hope you can tell me every day of yours. I want to learn about your life and see how you are doing without me by your side.

We have our own circles, and in each other's circles, we are all "celebrities".

Manage your time. I'm busy, and so are you. We support each other's ideals so that one day we can go to the same end.

I think your major is so lofty, and you think my major is so complicated. I'm busy learning English and professional knowledge, and you're busy taking exams and exams. We want to be better people for each other.

Women must be independent, have their own life and career, and have a broad vision, rather than treating their boyfriend as everything. You say I'm a strong and idle person, and I say that the man I love must be the one who stands out. In the process of long-distance love, you must learn to make yourself better, and you can't rely too much on each other.

In a long-distance relationship, you must trust the other person enough, do not suspect that he will do something sorry for you, and keep in touch from time to time.

People who are in a foreign relationship should firmly believe that they love each other sincerely, and they trust each other very much, and only with this belief can they succeed.

I think the most important thing to pay attention to in a long-distance relationship is how to balance your own emotional problems, because your companionship often has no way to let the other party know, and there will be a sense of dissatisfaction in your heart.

We must communicate more, contact more, and have self-control, not follow others as soon as they are seduced, but also trust each other.

Try not to make contradictions, if there are contradictions, they will quarrel, if both parties are unwilling to give in and are not around, it is easy to break up.

You should contact the subject every day, be more mindful, don't be deceived by the subject, and don't be cuckolded by the subject.

I think people in a foreign relationship need to trust each other and not be suspicious of each other, otherwise the long-distance relationship will not come to the end.

I am against exotic love, although it can be very developed now, and you can reach any corner of the world in one day, but there is one biggest thing that I can't accept about exotic love, and that is cultural differences.

Oppose. The most unacceptable thing is that the distance is too far, basically there are few opportunities to be together in a year, and there is no way to have a lot of company and time together.

I'm against it, because it's really hard for people not to be in the same country. The last thing I can accept is that there is less gathering and more separation, which is not conducive to maintaining the relationship.

For foreign love, it can only be said that there is no objection, but it is not particularly supportive, because after all, the space across is relatively large, and it is not a good thing to always live separately in two places.

Don't try to change the other person

For example, if you want to have a group of children and he or she is not interested in them, don't try to change them. Take what they say and make your own decision. For example, if you are in a relationship with a foreigner, you also have to follow their characteristic of "saying ugly things first".

Don't take it for granted according to your own cultural concepts, but make everything clear, explain clearly, understand what the other person wants, and then see if you can meet it. The taboo of falling in love with people from different cultural backgrounds is "two people tacitly". "Subtlety" is not a virtue here, it will only mislead others and oneself.

Don't apologize for the first time you quarrel

It is difficult to avoid quarrels in the early stage of love run-in, once the first quarrel occurs, you must hold it and don't take the initiative to run to the man to apologize. If you feel that you have done something wrong, you may want to admit your mistake to him when he apologizes. In fact, many people will directly decide the outcome for the first time, such as apologizing for the first time, and becoming a passive person after quarreling later.

Just imagine, if this man really doesn't apologize to you first, take this opportunity to break up as soon as possible. A man who finally caught up with you refused to accommodate you at the beginning of the relationship, and your patience with Fengfan will definitely be pitiful in the future. This kind of self-centered man is a lifetime of hard work in love.

Learning to communicate is key

Exotic or long-distance relationships bring not only the distance in time and space, but also the psychological distance that cannot be ignored. The most tormenting thing about the separation of two people is not that they can't see each other often, but that they can't touch real people and can't feel each other's body temperature. Communication is the best way to solve the psychological hollowness and shorten the distance between the two, communication is an art, but also a science, good communication can solve the misunderstanding between the two, and eliminate the lack of security brought by the distance, let the feelings warm up the base, so that the distance becomes a kind of power.

Able to endure loneliness

Choosing a foreign or long-distance relationship is equivalent to choosing loneliness and loneliness, patience with loneliness is something that two people in a foreign or long-distance relationship must face, the days without lovers are always difficult, you hold on, you win, and if you are defeated by time, you will miss that person for the rest of your life. Therefore, you must endure it, hold on a little longer, and the next happy person may be you!