Why are we narrow minded from an early age? Why are some people narrow minded?

There are subjective reasons for narrow-mindedness, as well as objective reasons. Since childhood, the family has doted on him, and he has developed selfishness and willfulness. People without a pattern will not be able to achieve great things and have no good future.

There are too many changes in society, the personnel are uneven, everyone has it, the bad guys teach us the reality of our elders, so that we often receive education passively, to ourselves, not by nature, and the environment is like this, no one wants to be hurt, since you don't want to, you have to protect yourself, the so-called narrow-mindedness is also a way to protect yourself.

Narrow-minded people are related to the nature of the heart, and narrow-minded people, especially men, are small-minded, and they will take care of everything and turn their heads towards things.

Narrow-minded is often used to paraphrase narrow. The mountains here are treacherous, with only a narrow winding trail leading to the top. Describe the open-mindedness and lack of knowledge; There are limitations.

1.The width is small. For a servant shot, from the top in and out, often the small cover, stormy rain, screen left and right, mud narrow, self-throwing, take off the hakama and untie the shoes, wading to the ankle.

Dongguan Hanji Yin Xing Liang Nayun Biography "Initial entry, the entrance of the cave respects the beam narrowly, and enters, about a few miles, suddenly encounters a stone room, can be two zhang high, often drooping liquid.

Tang · Lu Guangwei · Wu Diji "Gu old school halls are narrow, and they are repentant and new. Ming · Li Dongyang · Reconstruct the gorge mouth composed of peaks on both sides of the Chaling Prefecture Xueji, so narrow. Xu Chi · The Story of the Three Gorges

2.The range is small. In fact, the meaning of chastity is by no means so narrow.

Zou Taofen · "Chastity" was quite narrow and ...... about the subject matter for a whileThinking that it must be taken directly from the reality of the Anti-Japanese War, this can be said to be a prison. Guo Moruo · Boiling Soup: Literary and Artistic Trends since the Anti-Japanese War" And this kind of revolutionary utilitarianism is extensive, not narrow-minded. Qin Mu · The Long River Wave Collection Preface

3.The mind, strength, and knowledge are not grand and broad. If it is narrow and small, it will be broad.

Xunzi Self-cultivation "Yuan Bin is clean and clean, which is narrow and cannot be budded. Tang · Han Yu · Answer Li Xiucai's book "The husband is noble and noble, and he uses narrow-mindedness to tend to the times. Qing · Yao Shijun · Raozhou Zhouci drank alone and sang after getting drunk" Zhou Qi felt that Huang Weimin was a bit stubborn and narrow-minded.

Chen Qianyun · Chapter 6 of The Wind and Smoke in the Valley.

Last night I posted an article "To Forgive or Not to Forgive", which told a story that I felt unforgivable and explained the reasons for being unforgivable.

A Jane friend commented: "Some things can be forgiven, and some things that break through the bottom line and involve a person's character cannot be forgiven." On the other hand, if you can't forgive others, you will only suffer yourself. ”

Thank you Jian for reminding me, I woke up the dreamer with a word, I was narrow-minded!

What is the result of not forgiving?

It is anger in the chest and hatred in the heart. It's trouble, it's pain. It's the food that doesn't know the taste, it's the pillow that can't sleep, it's the mountain that makes the silver itself, and it's the pain that makes itself.

In real life, women are easily angry (not to discuss men), at home, outside, it is inevitable that they will encounter something later, they can't think about it, and they sulk.

Stinginess hurts, and atmosphere hurts the body.

Anger is to punish oneself for the mistakes of others, and everyone understands this truth, but sometimes they can't help themselves.

A few years ago, I felt unwell and went to see a Chinese medicine doctor. While waiting for the number to be called, an eldest sister next to me started chatting. She said that when she was young, she couldn't think about it, she always loved to get angry, and she fell into a bad situation.

The eldest sister is very good-looking and soft-spoken, and if she can say this to me, I think, maybe she thinks that it is okay to talk to strangers, maybe she has experienced illness, she really sees everything openly, and looks down on it.

How harmful is anger?

Momentarily. The main hazards of anger are as follows:

Being angry is the least cost-effective, and there are all kinds of disadvantages and no benefits, so don't be angry, and be forgiving and forgiving. For the harm of others to themselves, we must also learn to think openly, learn to let go, and learn to forgive, of course, this is not easy.

I replied to Jian You today that from not forgiving to forgiveness, there is a let go in between, and tolerance and letting go will always be a compulsory lesson in life.

Hugo said: The noblest revenge is tolerance.

The Buddha said, "If you don't forgive sentient beings, if you don't forgive sentient beings, you're suffering yourself."

Shakespeare said in The Merchant of Venice:

Tolerance is like a drizzle from heaven that moistens the earth. It blesses the tolerant as well as the tolerated.

If you look at it lightly and think about it, you actually forgive, tolerate, and let go.

Forgiving others, forgiving others, the biggest beneficiary is actually ourselves. If you let go of others, you will also let go of yourself.

Don't take everything too seriously, laugh and don't speak, it's open-minded, pain is silent, it's wisdom.

Take a step back and let the distractions be calm.

Only when there is no fetters of troubles in the heart can we be relaxed and free, and only when we face the sea in our hearts can we see the spring flowers blooming.

Life is a practice, may women love themselves and never get angry.

Forgive everything that can be forgiven, let go of everything that is unforgivable, have a good life, and enjoy the joy!

Narrow-mindedness refers to a narrow-minded personality with a small amount of energy.

Narrow-mindedness is often manifested in the inability to tolerate discussions and criticisms that are unfavorable to oneself, let alone the slightest grievance and unintentional injury, otherwise they will be calculating and resentful; Narrow-mindedness is also often manifested in stinginess and stinginess, and it is impossible to suffer losses, otherwise the psychology will be unbalanced, and they will try to make up for the "damaged" interests.

Narrow-mindedness is usually evident in interpersonal interactions involving self-esteem and gains and losses: either they have been slighted and scorned, or they have been ridiculed and teased, or they have been blamed and criticized, or they have been misunderstood and wronged, or they have been ridiculed and ridiculed, or they have suffered losses or losses in interests, or they have suffered a blow to their reputations and cannot get out of ......powerWhether these situations occur intentionally, unintentionally, or even with good intentions, whether they are inevitable, understandable, reasonable, accidental, or purely joking, the narrow-mindedness and small energy of the narrow-minded will be revealed anytime and anywhere, making people feel difficult to get along with.

In this world, there are too many people who can read the wind and snow, but they can't get out of the vicissitudes of life. can't get out of envy, jealousy and hatred, small belly chicken intestines, people who once thought they would join hands for a lifetime, they scattered as they walked; I once thought that the unforgettable pain faded when I looked at it. However, it is impossible to forget.

Everyone has at least one selfless infatuation in their life, there is no luxury, no one is right or wrong, and there is no blame for the deep affection. Look at each other, know each other; Turn around, no regrets. Mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, cherishing gathering and dispersing, a season of flowers, warm to tears.

Perhaps, a casual laugh will be a brilliant life's waiting; Perhaps, a casual look back will haunt the heartache of a lifetime. The wind rises, the sound comes; Fate is born, and each other stays. One flower is one world, one leaf is one Bodhi.

1) Narrow, which is not wide.

Sentence formation: It's a narrow alley.

2) Lack of broad-mindedness, strength, knowledge, etc. (2016 People's Education Edition 7th Grade Volume 1 Annotation).

Sentence formation: Don't deal with narrow-minded people like him.

Narrowness is a Chinese word, pronounced xiá ài, which means not broad, and is more extended to mean that the mind, strength, and insight are not grand and broad or very limited. From "Dongguan Hanji: Yin Xing Biography".

1) Narrow, which is not wide. Sentence formation: It's a narrow alley.

2) (mind, energy, knowledge, etc.) confined to a small area; Not broad; Not grandiose. (2016 People's Education Edition 7th Grade Volume 1 Annotation) Sentence: Don't deal with narrow-minded people like him.

1.The width is small.

Dongguan Hanji Yin Xing Biography": "For a period of door servant shooting, from the top in and out, often the small cover, stormy storm, screen left and right, mud and narrow, self-throwing under the car, take off the hakama and untie the shoes, wading to the ankle. ”

Ming Li Dongyang's "Reconstruction of Chaling Prefecture Studies": "The old halls and halls are narrow, and the old materials are expanded and new. ”

Xu Chi's "Three Gorges Chronicle": "The mouth of the gorge composed of peaks on both sides of the strait is so narrow. ”

2.The range is small.

Zou Taofen's "Chastity": "In fact, the meaning of chastity is by no means so narrow. ”

Guo Moruo's "Boiling Soup: Literary and Artistic Trends since the Anti-Japanese War": "Regarding the subject matter, it was quite narrow and ...... for a whilethought that it had to be directly taken from the reality of the Anti-Japanese War, which can be said to be a prison. ”

Qin Mu's "Preface": "And this kind of revolutionary utilitarianism is extensive, not narrow. ”

3.The mind, strength, and knowledge are not grand and broad.

Xunzi Self-cultivation": "Narrow and small, then broad. ”

Tang Hanyu's "Reply to Li Xiu's Confession to Reform and Dig Talents": "Yuan Bin's line is clean and clean, and it is narrow and cannot be tolerated. ”

Qing Yao Shijun's "Raozhou Zhouci Sings After Drinking Alone and Getting Drunk": "The husband is noble and noble, and he tends to be narrow and trendy. ”

Chapter 6 of Chen Qianyun's "Wind and Smoke in the Valley": "Zhou Qi felt that Huang Weimin was a bit stubborn and narrow-minded. ”