How should I choose between love and future?

There are not many boys who can be responsible, there are two kinds: 1: He likes you so much that he wants to marry you because of this child.

2: He's really stupid, the reality tells us that everything that everyone has is not something you can control like that. Is he also a high school 3 student?

If so, please tell him that if you really can, please be able to give you spiritual, financially responsible, and have a healthy baby together when he grows up and matures, so that your child can grow up healthy in a worry-free state. If not, then please give yourself a chance, when will the child have to give birth to the child now, whether it is fair to your parents or myself, please think about your future, do you want to worry about firewood, rice, oil, salt, milk powder, diapers as soon as you get married? Can you afford to face a lot of locks in the future?

Think about it sensibly.

Hello, I think you're still young and too naïve in your thoughts. Nothing can be perfect, and you can't have it both ways. I hope you study hard and repay your parents who worked hard to raise you.

If he loves you, he should understand you and think about you, and if he insists on going his own way, it means that the two of you are not suitable, and he may just be impulsive. To the obedient good girl.

Knock out the kids, you're still young. If he really loves you, he shouldn't lock you up, you don't have the ability to be a mother yet. Let's talk to him. To see if he really loves you.

If it were me, if the future and love conflicted, and the two could only choose one of the two, I would definitely and definitely choose the future, after all, I didn't even have love, and I couldn't even lose the future.

Just kidding, to be serious, you still have to talk about it well, rationally speaking, the future is still preferred.

Why? In today's society, you are really the most reliable one, your love may disappear because your other half changes her mind, but your career will never betray you.

Hope" economic base.

Decide on the superstructure.

This wise quote written in political textbooks can be deeply imprinted in the mind of every adult or minor. Love brain is not advisable in this economic and pragmatic society, not that you can't have love, but I hope to live my life well before that.

Without a good future (economy), your love may stop at the wedding bride price.

Before the dowry, it may also be in chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea.

was so stumbled that there was no scum left. And if every time you think of the beautiful future that you gave up because of your love (that is, your other half), this imbalance and dissatisfaction will accumulate, and when life is not satisfactory, you will remember, and then feel unwilling, complain, and then destroy your love. It's actually a terrible thing.

And how innocent your other half is, you have to bear the consequences of your choices. So if it were me, I would rather love be neatly cut off from the beginning than be twisted and grown in this unbalanced state.

Of course, what I said earlier is the choice of ordinary people, since there are ordinary people in this world, then there are naturally ordinary people. For example, the rich second generation in the TV series, compared to love, the future is fleeting, after all, they are financially responsible enough, love and bread must be more expensive.

Of course, there is another type, that is, people who are born with weak biological needs, and it may be more important to have someone who is with them more than anything else.

So, see what kind of person you belong to, there is no best, only the most suitable, just choose what you love.

This question can be divided into situations, 1 love comes first, and then faces the choice of work. In this case, I still try to maintain love, after all, it is not easy to come by, as long as the two of them work together, there will always be, 2 work first, and then there is love, then you can see who has development prospects and income is more sustainable and high, you can be like who is leaning, 3 There is love, but the work of the two people is completely incompatible, facing too much pressure to survive, this love money is not easy, you can only see the perseverance of the two, as for the trade-offs, it is not good to judge directly, 4 work and career success, but in the face of love, then you can stick to your career, Colleagues develop love, so there are limitations, but there are still efforts, many people are also like this to start a family, so you can't take care of both, you can also give up your career, to find love, you can also stick to your career, until you die, depending on personal choice.

I think we should choose a future, because with a future, there will be better love, and love needs a material foundation.

I will choose the future, because the future is a person's ideal, many times people have their own ideals, and only when they realize their ideals can life be meaningful.

When the future and love conflict, I will choose the future, because with bread, love will come one day.

I will choose love, because I can fight hard at any time in my career, but it is difficult to meet true love.

I will choose the future, first start a business and then start a family, you have a good future, nothing will be missing.

Summary. Kiss, hello Love and future should be able to choose like this: 1. It depends on the age and experience you are in, if you are still young, and the future has a high probability of success, you can choose the future, because opportunities are hard to have, but love is not necessarily true love.

2. If you are not young and want to live with your beloved, you can give up your future and run a common future together. Imagination. Imagine yourself in a year, what kind of life you would like to live in the future, then you choose which.

Kiss, hello Love and future should be able to choose like this: 1. It depends on the age and experience you are in, if you are still young, and the future has a high probability of success, you can choose the future, because opportunities are hard to have, but love is not necessarily true love. 2. If you are not young and want to live with your beloved, you can give up your future and run a common future together.

Imagination. Imagine yourself in a year, what kind of life you would like to live in the future, then you choose which.

Dear, in the face of the future and love, I will firmly choose the future, because the future must belong to me, but love is not necessarily.

The other party said that the choice of the future must be mine, but you may not be mine.

And I can only accompany you more How to get back.

Kiss, you can say something like this: 1. Accept it directly: at this point you can say "thank you for saying this", "thank you for the compliment", or "thank you for seeing this". At the very least, you should give someone a response, at least let others know that you have listened to his or her praise, and thank them for their appreciation.

Kiss, when the other party expresses this, it is generally when the relationship is better. It's okay to say sweet things in response to him.

He said I was only 17 years old.

Kiss, it means that he thinks you are so young, it is the age of struggle.

Dear, it is recommended that you choose your future. In the face of the future and love, I will firmly choose the future, because the future must belong to me, but love is not necessarily.

How should I respond to him saying I'm 17 years old.

Dear, you can reply like this: I always believe that the emperor pays off, so I have been insisting on my own efforts, I look forward to the day when I can reach the top of my life, although I am only 17 years old, but I have very ambitious ambitions!

Dear, you can say that you are 17 years old, but you look more mature than 17 years old. <>

I will choose my future, and I will remember one sentence, never give up my future for the sake of uncertain love.

When you have a bright future, you meet very good people, and you have a lot of opportunities to choose.

But when you give up your future for love, he may feel very moved at first, swearing that he will only be good to you and love you alone in this life, but what about after a long time?

The initial emotion will be slowly consumed by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the tedious and busy life, and he will feel that you are gradually becoming a burden and cannot bear the financial burden for him.

Love is precious, but bread is more important, only with the financial ability to support oneself, you will not be looked down upon by anyone, and you don't have to care about their fingers.

Just imagine, you have a bright future, financial freedom, and want to find someone who is on your level to join hands for a lifetime, wouldn't it be easier?

The love between opponents and people of equal strength will last longer.

Because there is no unequal relationship between them from the beginning, they can look at each other as equals and manage their feelings.

Don't be stupid, don't be willing to be a moth for the sake of empty promised love, and pounce on the fire pit without hesitation.

People must first learn to love themselves, if you don't love yourself, how can you ask others to love you?

The future is bright, it will help you find a more suitable person for you in the future, and love will follow.

With a word, may you and I encourage each other: if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

Hello, I will choose the future. Just imagine if you had no future. Every day is muddy, even if you are given love, can you keep it? For a boy, career is the most important thing.

I choose the future, and with the future, love and bread will meet unexpectedly.

Future and love, I will choose the future.

Because having a future is the foundation of love, love is not as important as a future.

Life is like a coin, there are both positive and negative sides, and there will always be a variety of choices, such as gaining the east corner and losing the mulberry elm, and it is difficult to take care of the fish and the bear's paw. Similarly, in the face of love and future, many people are also facing a huge choice, on the one hand, their life goals, on the other hand, their lovers, but in the end, in the face of future and love, most people will choose the former, what is the reason?

The first one, the reason why I chose the future may be that I feel that the other party can't give me a full sense of security, and I can't let my grandson's future be hindered by love.

Both boys and girls want to have a full sense of security in their relationship, if they take care of each other enough, they must take care of each other, whether it is material or ideal, they will not let each other say that they have gained or lost. Many people choose their future in the end, isn't it a helpless move that the other party can't give them a full sense of security? Although people are real, but if they are given a chance and the other party is not motivated, then why gamble their lives in this relationship?

Second, people are realistic, only a good material foundation will have a better superstructure, even if you lose your love, you will bow your head in front of reality.

Life is faced with a variety of choices, this is the price of growth, after growing up, you need to think a lot about practical problems, after all, the older you get, the heavier the responsibility and responsibility on your shoulders. In the face of love and future, the future was chosen, which is also caused by the actual conditions. People are realistic, and if there is no good material foundation, how can there be a better superstructure?

After two people are together, they need to bear the responsibilities and obligations of the family, and after having children, all aspects of living expenses need huge expenditures. So sometimes, in terms of future and love, if the other party can't give him the corresponding material security, even if he loses his love, he chooses to go to the future, after all, there is no sufficient security, and no one dares to make a bet on his life.

Love is not everything in our lives, some are icing on the cake, and we can take care of ourselves without ourselves. So we choose a lifestyle that suits us, make choices that we don't regret, maybe live our truest self, maybe it's also a worthwhile!

Because love will deteriorate sooner or later, but the future will never become, it will always be its own.

Choose your future and career, if she loves you, she will also respect your choice, otherwise, you will choose love, and you will die in the end.

Without a good future, what do you use to invest in your love, there must be a certain economy behind love.