How to educate the child in the 5th grade, and how to educate the child in the 5th grade

I also grew up as a child like him, very rebellious, thinking that only I was right, and I didn't listen to anyone else's words, but as I grew up, I gradually became sensible, I remember one time, I secretly didn't go to class for a few days, but the family didn't know, but then it was discovered, they didn't let me go to school in a fit of anger, and locked me up at home every day, let me do everything, let me stay like that for two months, and then I slowly made a lot of noise at the beginning to let them let me go to school, That's when I realized how good it was to go to school! How much fun it is to live every day! Later, I slowly learned to start studying hard!

So I think that educating a child should not rely on beating and scolding (sometimes it is necessary), but also take some other methods to make him realize for himself, so that it can be effective, and you can also take him to some villages, so that he can play a trick and smash the pretense.

Tell him: If you correct all the above mistakes, you will give him a bonus of 1,000 yuan.

If the above methods do not work, you can try the following methods: (need to be used in the town): let him take weekly, winter, summer or any vacation, lock him in the room, let him think about what he has done, and then ask him to write more than 200 tests and follow them.

If it doesn't work, I can't do it.

Note: In the second method, when writing the check, ask him to write down what he did wrong and what to do in the future.

If he has a specialty, then observe carefully, in fact, I am also a middle school student, I used to always love to run Internet cafes, do not like to study, sometimes I don't go home all night, but now I am admitted to a key middle school, why is this? If your child is not good at that subject, then you can give up on that subject, and finally, when you take the middle school entrance examination, you can be directly admitted as a special student, [I am like this, hehe} But if not, then there is nothing I can do.

His specialty... Dig it out.

The fifth grade is a very important year for children in primary school, and this year is accompanied by rebellion and impetuousness, and the acceleration of self-development.

of the year. First, help your child go from "let me learn" to "I want to learn."

the leap; Secondly, the premise of educating children is to understand them first; Third, fathers cannot be absent from home education.

Fourth, parents can't give up on self-growth; Fifth, teach children to learn to socialize.

I would like to recommend a book by Hunan Education Publishing House "It's just right to love you like this, my fifth-grade child", I hope it will be useful to you!

1. Parents should learn to communicate patiently with their children, fundamentally enter the child's heart, understand the child's inner world, think about the problem from the child's perspective to a certain extent, and at the same time show enough respect to the child and learn to listen to the child's opinions.

2. Parents should not interfere too much in their children's learning life, sometimes parents will feel that their children will affect their learning by doing so, but this may be the only little interest of their children in addition to learning. Teacher Wang believes that parents can properly participate in their children's interests and lives, such as playing games with children, communicating idols in children's hearts, etc., Xiang Tsai enters the child's heart in this way, and maybe the parent-child relationship will get along more harmoniously.

3. Parents should keep trying new ways of education. As children grow older, their personalities are also changing subtly. For example, when children are young, they like to listen to their parents' arrangements, but when they grow up, they want their parents to listen to their opinions and sock banquet ideas.

In the process of education, as long as parents find that a certain education method does not work, they should change their strategies according to the actual situation.

4. Constantly motivate your child and give him motivation and confidence to learn. Do not abuse, insult, or blow your child because of your child's poor grades, and lose your temper with your child, causing him to lack confidence and interest in learning, so that he is tired of learning and his grades are getting worse and worse. Even if your child's grades are bad again, you should give him a positive evaluation to encourage him to continue to struggle and burn his learning spirit.

5. Cultivate good study habits in children. Parents should be good at using various opportunities to let their children know the importance of study habits. Parents should pay more attention to their children's learning, do not ignore them, do not blame their children's bad study habits, and should guide them to correct and re-establish their confidence in good study habits.

6. Exercising children's self-reliance is a neglected corner of family education. A person's growth is bumpy, the child will encounter this or that problem in his growth, and parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, so parents should cultivate their children's independence and autonomy, and guide their children to do more housework within their ability.

7. Parents should take time to get in touch with their children as much as possible in the current society, and the pressure of competition for work is high, but they should not let their children go freely, every day after work, parents should take some time to do activities with their children, such as: reading and discussing together, shopping together, and talking with friends together. It is important to provide children with opportunities for a variety of experiences, and to expose them to as many things as possible.

1. Give your child a choice. Allowing children and adolescents to do things according to their own interests is crucial and is one of the best ways to help them succeed. If you make your child feel that she has a choice to learn Latin dance or do aerobics, she will work harder to do the one she chooses.

2. Accept him as he is now. If you are only interested in whether your child is the best reciter in the class, then you are expecting too much. Every child develops and becomes a talent according to his own rate.

Comparing your child to other children will make him feel or be honest that if he fails to learn and do things according to a particular norm, he is a failure.

3. Find out if there are any difficulties hidden in the dark. Have you ever asked your child why he or she is suddenly reluctant to sign up for group activities or do homework? Perhaps he will speak his mind with your understanding - he has been oppressed by the bad boy of the shirt, and he hates his teachers.

If the child becomes less and less motivated, there is usually a valid reason for him.

4. State your reasons. What would you do if you didn't expect your child to give up his electronic organ education, since you had no doubt that it would be good for him? No matter what you do, you are not allowed to yell at your child or berate him hysterically.

Since it hasn't been more than ten minutes since he yelled, he stopped listening to what you had been saying.

5. Attach great importance to the efficacy of praise. Compliments must be problem-oriented. You just say, "Very well done," and he will understand that you are not really noticing what I am doing.

1. Children are generally around 10 years old, children's self-awareness begins to rise, they strongly need the respect of their parents, and they need their parents to treat them as big children. However, many parents do not understand the psychology of their children, and still treat their children as children, so children in this period often deliberately oppose their parents because they do not get the respect and understanding of their parents. Parents don't think that their children deliberately go against you, it's just Nai Lingzao's simple disobedient behavior, in fact, there is a deep reason behind the child's desire for your understanding and your respect.

2. Self-consciousness is in the formative period, they have their own views and opinions on things, and they always stubbornly believe that they are right. However, due to the lack of life and social experience, children's views and opinions are often incomplete or wrong, so the gap between ideals and reality will also make children's emotions and emotions change greatly.

3. Find out the reasons for your child's emotional changes. Children's worries are not just about toys, clothes, hairstyles, or extracurricular reading materials, they need the understanding and respect of their parents. When the child truly understands and respects, all the negative and rebellious emotions he pretends to have will disappear.

4. Allow children to express their emotions moderately. In the face of the sadness or weakness shown by the child, parents must not scold, but let the child vent the depression in his heart to the fullest, as long as the child has vented enough, he will naturally restore the balance of his mood.

5. Cultivate children's ability to control their emotions. With negative emotions, it doesn't matter, say it and see if there is a way for your parents. The beauty of this method is that it allows children to express their emotions without hurting others, and at the same time to vent these negative emotions in an appropriate way.