What are the dangers of having a glass heart ?

Babies with "glass hearts" are easily depressed and may suffer from depression in the long run; And this is also not good for the formation of the baby's character, and it is even more unfavorable for the baby's social communication, because too much "glass heart" will make people misunderstand the baby, so the "glass heart" is very harmful to the baby.

There are many harms, because they can't stand the criticism of others, the baby is prone to low self-esteem, sadness, psychological breakdown, which in turn leads to depression and even suicide.

It will make the baby's psychological tolerance very weak, and it will also make the baby's self-care ability very poor, and it is also not conducive to the development of the baby's character, and it will also lead to the baby's sense of dependence is very strong.

Extremely sensitive, not conducive to making friends, prone to psychological problems, and too dependent on parents to take care of themselves.

Children have a "glass heart", how should parents deal with it?

4 ways to make your child stronger, you can try:

1. Selective praise.

Seeing their children's progress, parents often blurt out: You are awesome! How clever! Children are accustomed to hearing compliments from their parents, but this praise is too vague, and parents try to praise their children for specific behaviors, rather than using general words such as "you are awesome", "you are so smart", etc.

The child's concentration has improved, and parents can praise the child: "I just like the way you focus", and the child won the first place, and praise the child: "Your efforts have paid off." "Praise specific aspects, the more specific the praise, the more the child will be able to reinforce the behavior habits in this area.

2. Channel children's negative emotions.

Children are accustomed to choosing to cry to vent negative emotions, parents should help children find the right way to channel negative emotions, such as letting children sing a song or laugh a few times, etc.

Crying to vent negative emotions is not because the child is really weak, but because he does not understand other ways to vent his emotions.

3. Guide children through stories.

Many parents don't know how to help their children get out of the strange circle of glass hearts, and in the process of educating their children, they can choose to use storytelling to actively guide them.

In the story, how to deal with the problems encountered by the protagonist, the child will also learn to deal with the problems like the protagonist.

Therefore, when the child has a glass heart, parents can selectively choose the appropriate picture book story for the child to read.

4. Let children face failure correctly.

Victory and defeat are the norm of life, so let children learn to face failure calmly, don't lose the courage to try because of a failure, and don't deny their efforts because of a failure.

In short, in the face of a glass-hearted child, parents should not be in a hurry to reprimand, parents need to understand why the child is crying? Many children may just be treated unfairly, but in fact, there are many ways to vent negative emotions, and you don't necessarily have to choose to cry.

Parents will tell their children the right way, let the noisy children choose independently, children's glass heart is not a trivial matter, parents should actively intervene to avoid greater impact on the future.

Children with a glass heart are very sensitive and defensive in their hearts. They are particularly concerned about what the outside world thinks of them. They are especially happy when others praise him or win a game, but once they hear criticism, they become very sensitive.

As soon as someone accidentally touches a child's glass heart, their bad temper will explode immediately, usually manifesting as crying or irritability, making it difficult to control their emotions. So when a child has a "glass heart", how should parents deal with it?

Parents should take their children to participate in some group activities, let them have more contact with other children, play games and competitions together, let children know that victory or defeat is common, and do not be discouraged or arrogant. If you want to become a "Victorious General", you not only need 100% effort, but you also need good opportunities. When children see more people and experience more things, they gradually become brave and strong and don't care too much about winning or losing.

Children grow up after experiencing setbacks. Children have a glass heart, which has a lot to do with their character, but as long as parents can guide them in a targeted manner, it will slowly get better.

Parents should encourage their children early to boost their self-confidence. Most children with high self-esteem lack self-confidence and are very sensitive. They care about what others say about them.

If they have a little negative opinion of him, he will resent it and will always think about it. Therefore, when a child does not have self-confidence and encounters difficulties, he should mainly encourage more and criticize less, and then calmly reason with him. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses and can't do it well.

There are some things that are not done well now, we should take our time, step by step, practice will make the future perfect.

Parents should not spoil their children excessively and should appropriately say "no" to their children's excessive demands; Parents should let their children walk appropriately and let them do some difficult things to develop their children's self-confidence; Let the children learn to think about the mountain hall while playing games. When parents help their children solve problems together, children's confidence and sense of accomplishment will naturally develop. The reason why children have a glass heart usually comes from families who dot on their children.

Parents educate their children from an early age to praise blindly. No matter how small it is, parents give it full praise. As a result, the children gradually form a heart of glass.

Therefore, parents should not spoil their children excessively.

Parents should take their children out to see the world more, so that after they experience some setbacks, they will naturally be able to exercise a strong chaotic hall to dig out a thick heart, which needs to be cultivated step by step, and cannot be rushed.

For such children, first of all, it is necessary to be inclusive of sleepy acres. Lead by example in life, so that children can feel warmth and love. Timely encouragement and teaching by word and deed are of great help to children, so that children can fully show their personal advantages, recognize the problems in all aspects of life, and effectively play their strengths and do a good job of self-protection.

If the child has a glass heart, parents should often encourage the child to enhance the child's self-confidence, but also to create a harmonious and friendly family for the child, do not spoil the child too much, and pay attention to the way of speaking, do not beat or scold the child, or say some insulting language.

Be sure to encourage your child, sometimes don't be overprotective, learn to soothe your child's emotions, and sometimes make your child feel very secure.

If the child cries when the glass heart does not move, parents should cultivate a sense of security in time, channel emotions, communicate in a timely manner, and provide psychological counseling according to the situation. Parents need to pay attention to this phenomenon in their children so as not to affect their children's mental health.

1. Cultivate a sense of security: It is possible that children usually grow up in the absence of parents, and become psychologically insecure, and may lack a sense of security when encountering a new environment or difficulties. Parents need to have enough patience, accompany their children more, comfort their children, and let their children have the psychology of being born like a strong person, so as to alleviate the symptoms of children's crying at every turn;

2. Channeling emotions: Children with more delicate minds are under more pressure after encountering things, so they cry at every turn. It is suggested that parents should give their children more encouragement and let them learn the correct way to express their emotions;

3. Communication: If the child usually cries when the glass heart does not move, it may be due to the lack of communication between the parents and the child, or the reprimand of the child in the process of communication, the child may have a more fearful psychology and will express his emotions in the way of crying. It is recommended to reason with the child with an optimistic and positive attitude, understand the child's demands, interact with the child, and promote the growth of the child's character;

4. Psychological counseling: long-term psychological abnormalities may cause children to have autism, depression and other related diseases, and it is necessary to take the child to the hospital for further treatment to determine whether the child has early psychological disorders. It is necessary to give behavioral cognition** to let children get out of the fragile psychology.

Children are psychologically fragile and cannot afford to criticize, which may be due to the following reasons:

1: Family environment: The home environment can have an impact on a child's mental health. If parents spoil their children too much, are overly protective, and do not give their children proper criticism and feedback, it may lead to children being unable to bear in the face of frustration and criticism.

2: Education system: The current education system pays too much attention to grades and evaluations, often only focusing on results, ignoring children's personalities and characteristics, which will cause psychological pressure on children and be overly sensitive to criticism.

3: Social networks: The popularity and use of modern social networks makes children more vulnerable to negative evaluations and online violence, which negatively affects their psyche.

4: Children's psychological problems: Children may face some internal child psychological problems, such as anxiety, depression, etc., which can cause children to be allergic to criticism and frustration. Solutions to this problem include:

1: Parents and teachers should guide children to establish correct self-awareness and mental health concepts, and help children establish a positive attitude.

2: In the process of education, pay attention to the personality and characteristics of children, do not pay too much attention to grades and evaluation, and emphasize self-development and growth.

3: Strengthen children's self-protection awareness and self-confidence, educate children to face criticism and setbacks correctly, and help them become stronger and more confident.

4: Reduce the amount of time your child spends using social networks, monitor your child's online behavior, and prevent your child from being attacked by negative comments and online violence. In short, the problem of children's psychological fragility needs to be addressed by parents and educators.

Starting from cultivating children's mental health, strengthening the education system, and guiding children to face setbacks and criticisms correctly, we gradually help children build strong psychological resilience and self-confidence.

I see what you mean, children do sometimes have a bit of a glass heart, and are easily affected by small things and get angry. I feel that as adults, we can guide them in the following ways.

First of all, it is necessary to create a warm and remorseful and safe environment for children. Children are emotionally susceptible to external influences, and if they feel loved and supported by family and friends, it will be easier for them to eliminate some of the emotional well-being troubles. So, we can encourage them with warm words and tell them that we all love them, whether they are angry or not.

Secondly, it is necessary to educate children to learn to control their emotions. Sometimes, children will lose their temper because of some small things, and then we can sit down with them and have a good chat. We can make them understand that being angry doesn't solve the problem, it makes them feel more uncomfortable.

We can tell them that learning to control their emotions and seeking better solutions will make them happier.

Also, teach your child to be friendly with others. Sometimes, children get angry because of disputes with their children. We can tell them that being friendly with others will not only solve problems, but will also allow them to have more friends.

We can give them some practical examples of the importance of getting along with each other.

Finally, it is necessary to establish correct values for children. We can tell them that anger is not a good way to solve problems, but that solving problems through rational friendship is the right thing to do. We can start from our own experiences and tell them that we were angry at the same time, but later found that the best solution can be found through communication with others.

In conclusion, guiding children to learn to control their emotions and be friendly with others is a gradual process that requires patience and care. By creating a warm environment for them, educating them to control their emotions, guiding them to be friendly with others, and establishing positive values, we can help them overcome the problems of the glass heart and grow into stronger, more understanding people.