How to chat with strangers in a short period of time

Prepare me for rambling:

The more popular the topic, the better: how do I get into it? First of all, how do you have to say hello, hi, hello The most common thing is to chat about the atmosphere, such as "It's been good to be sunbathed recently" "It's hot like a sauna today", speaking of which, you can also talk about skin care and sunscreen with girls (provided that you are a woman) and then talk about where you want to go, such as "What are you going to do" Of course, this is a good topic, but not the best topic, because there are very few people who may think you are nosy, so it depends on the object; It's okay to praise each other, although I personally don't like to be praised or praised by others, but you are sincere, it doesn't hurt to praise them, of course, to praise the other party itself, is to praise their clothing, but also pay attention, for example, "your tee looks good" is incorrect, you should say "your tee fits well!"

But no matter what kind of opening remarks you make, usually when you speak, it's good to break the embarrassment, and others will definitely talk to you. At this time, you can talk about some other places: if you are interested in the entertainment industry, jokes, the Internet, etc., you can start from these places, of course, it is better to understand each other's preferences The hotter the topic, the more sure you are It is really "mouse-eyed", you can talk about when you met, tell each other what you thought at the time, and if you met through friends, you will talk about friends, such as "How did you meet?"

Talk about yourself: Of course, don't boast about yourself when you first meet you, some grades, jobs, and academic qualifications (are you an adult?) Needless to say!

Because that person may not be able to do well in the exam, or the experience is not as lucky as you, you say this, even if it is unintentional, the displeasure of others will irrationally affect your image "I live in , and I have to get up at 5 o'clock every day to go to school and work What about you? That's fine, don't worry about a little bit of privacy, sometimes it's okay to get a proper understanding. And some complaints, others don't understand, can't resonate with words, such as "our teacher is so annoying (if you are not in the same class)", don't say it, because others don't know your teacher at all, talking about this will not resonate, and spitting out bitterness like this is to put pressure on others all day long, besides, what do you think about others when you say this?

Actually, it's not hard to talk to strangers for a while, because it's a short time! Of course, if you are interested in making friends with that person, it doesn't hurt to save it for next time, so many "short times" accumulate together, and your friendship will be strengthened Hehe.

Well, let's talk about gas, work, life, happy things, and H1N1 flu, whatever topic comes to mind, just chat with friends.