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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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Take good care of it, and it won't make Daiyu uneasy and cry. Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.
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Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.
Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.
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Lin DaiyuWhat is truly lovedXue Baochai
Lin Daiyu is a classic Chinese masterpiece "Dream of the Red Chamber".
The heroine, the twelve hairpins of Jinling.
The head, Jia's mother's granddaughter, Jia Baoyu's aunt, cousin, lover, Jiafu is commonly known as Miss Lin.
She was born with a beautiful appearance, but she was frail and sickly since she was a child, her parents died, she was adopted by Jiafu, and she was sent under the fence since she was a child, creating a perverse and sensitive character; She is intelligent by nature, extremely poetic and known as a talented woman. She and Jia Baoyu were childhood sweethearts and confidants of each other, but the two did not become married, and finally died in tears on the wedding night of Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai.
Lin Daiyu is a beautiful and talented girl. Her parents died in her early years, her family was in the middle of the road, she was lonely, and she went to Jiafu to live a life under the fence. But she was lonely and self-professed, in that feudal family with indifferent interpersonal relationships, Qu Gao was widowed, and only Jia Baoyu became her only Zheng Xi's bosom friend, so she entrusted her hope and life to her love for Jia Baoyu.
Lin Daiyu is a beautiful and talented du
Girlish. In her early years, her parents died, her family was in the middle of the road, and she was lonely and bitter, and she went back to Jiafu to live a life under the fence. >>>More
1. Wood and Stone Alliance.
Lin Daiyu's predecessor was a Zhuzhu fairy grass on the bank of the Western Spirit River, and Jia Baoyu's predecessor was the Tiantian Stone, that is, the Shenying attendant. The attendants of Shenying irrigated the Zhuzhu grass with nectar every day, so that the fairy grass was not only nourished by the essence of heaven and earth, but also nourished by rain and dew, so they took off the wood of the grass fetus and cultivated it into a female body. Later, the Shenying waiter went down to earth to make a calendar, and the Zhuzhu Xiancao decided to also go down to earth as a person, and repay the nectar grace of the Shenying waiter with the tears of his life. >>>More
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It should have been 6 years old when she entered Rongfu Because Jia Yucun once said that Daiyu was 5 years old Baoyu asked her about studying She said that she had been reading for a year and she had to know a few words I think when she arrived at Rongfu, she would be almost 6 years old When she died Baoyu was 1 year older than Daiyu Baoyu was 19 years old when she was a monk and became a relative for 2 years 2 years ago, Baoyu was 17 years old, and Daiyu died It was 16 years old From Daiyu entered Rongfu until Xiangpinyu died, it was 10 years According to 120 inferences.
What kind of person is Daiyu in my heart? She doesn't understand some intrigues in secular society at all, she doesn't know all of them, she is just naïve. In fact, Dream of Red Mansions represents Cao Xueqin's point of view, and the person Cao Xueqin admires the most is with the most primitive, the most innocent part of our human beings, without any pollution. >>>More