How can we admit our ordinariness and accept the fact that we are just an ordinary person?

I always remember the moving scene in "The Life of the Disgusted Pine Nut" - the pine nut who has gone through the vicissitudes of life sits quietly in the sunset, looks into the distance, and says melancholy: Who didn't think that he would be a golden life when he was a child.

But the cruelty is most of us, and what will be greeted will be an ordinary life.

Acknowledging the ordinariness is becoming more and more difficult to accept in today's society that promotes elite culture, and we painfully refuse to face up to our ordinary, who wants to admit that we are ordinary people from the bottom of our hearts? Who doesn't want to live the peak life of marrying Bai Fumei and becoming a CEO.

But most of us are looking at the transparent ceiling above our heads. In this life, we may not be able to muster the courage to reach out to our hearts. <>

First of all, I don't think it's a bad thing to be an ordinary person. The vast majority of people in the world are ordinary people who live ordinary lives and do ordinary things, and because we are ordinary people, we become bigger. Push the boundaries of space.

I think people have to be confident. Although we are ordinary people at heart, our goal must not stop at this level.

We can accept the facts, but we can't settle for the status quo, let alone succumb to it. The ultimate goal has to be to keep going!

Secondly, there are too many stages and stages in life, frustration, pain, happiness, surprises, ......It's good to have expectations, but you can't rush to success, let go of your impetuousness and stand firm. , little by little, take the good road!

Don't be disappointed in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself and hate yourself, you don't need to talk about achieving your goals.

You have to see yourself as an undiscovered treasure that you too can become extraordinary as long as you keep learning and don't pass up any opportunities!

Finally, so friends, never be defeated by today, because you never know what will happen tomorrow. It is because of the unknown that this is beautiful!

You can compare with the excellent people around you, and then you can also read more celebrity biographies, and compare with them to know how mediocre and ordinary you are.

Although we are ordinary people, we cannot be mediocre. Although you are an ordinary person, there are many people who do extraordinary things. It doesn't mean that everyone has to achieve something.

Everyone's conditions are different. Just try to be a good person. In short, you have to be a kind person, but kindness also needs to protect yourself.

In short, we can't be bullied, and we must also protect our personal safety.

In fact, the answer to this has been given in Pu Shu's "Ordinary Road", don't fantasize, don't always think that the god of luck will come to you. Be true to your ordinariness, and one day you will find that your ordinariness is extraordinary.

Look at yourself and determine your limits. Review the past growth experience, find your strengths, combine your own cognition, explore the highest ability to position, and set the right mentality.

I think we should maintain a normal mentality, and we should also improve our abilities in a down-to-earth manner, and don't care too much about the opinions of others, and we should also be an ordinary person in a down-to-earth manner, and don't have a certain amount of vanity.

Get out and take a look, and you'll find that there are plenty of other great people around. I am indeed very ordinary, and it is not difficult to accept the fact that ordinary people are ordinary people.

Look at your role in society. Put your achievements in the market, if you don't make a great contribution to society, then you are an ordinary person.

I finally accepted my ordinariness.

In the past, I could still use the excuse that I didn't do my best to achieve such results and results, and continue to live carefree and get by, until I worked hard, and I was even annoyed with the ignorant self who didn't do my best and didn't have the courage to take the first step.

I have seen too many people who are either talented, or have extraordinary backgrounds, or have clear goals, or have finally achieved something after years of perseverance, but I still can't find the goal and direction of struggle.

Although some people say, it's okay, don't panic, everyone is like this, but this is not the case. I've passed the gullible, the school bully, I go home to play, but I pick up the lights at night to read the nonsense.

Maybe it's too much to fall behind, maybe it's too anxious, and in the end the whole person is only left with anxiety and powerlessness.

Don't envy the success of others, the tears and sweat behind them are unimaginable.

If you don't have the courage to do anything and the courage to start from scratch, then try to accept your mediocre self, don't be ambitious, but don't give up on yourself.

People who know that they are turtles and want to rest halfway, let alone win against rabbits in this life, you may not be able to reach the end.

Well, not from the perspective of professional psychology, but from personal experience, I had a very similar question a few years ago. In fact, a lot of truth is understood, for example, outstanding people, outstanding people, people standing at the top of the pyramid have always been only a few, my talent and hard work are not enough, and the ethereal luck has not been revealed, especially the personality and hobbies are also very in line with the mainstream, so there is a high probability that he is an ordinary person. But almost everyone has more or less imagined that they are special, that they are the "son of luck" and "the chosen daughter" are the protagonists of the story, the more real and frequent the fantasy, the more uncomfortable it is after discovering the difference between reality and fantasy, especially after work, I realize the limitations of my ability, and look at the mediocre things I do, others may easily do it perfectly, this gap is really difficult to adjust.

Personally, I thought about it later: if you can't accept it, then don't accept it. If you can't control yourself from wanting to, then what?

In my own life, it's not wrong that I'm the protagonist, so why do I have to accept that I'm an ordinary person? There are many people like me in the world, so what? Are they really ordinary?

Not necessarily, right? As long as I am not actively imitating or following, then I am not imitating and conforming. My ability is limited, and the energy and effort I put in are general, so isn't it normal to do things as well as people who are talented, capable, or hard-working?

I'm not a koi, so I'm not as lucky as a koi, isn't that normal? The most important thing is that although these are normal, I still feel unhappy and even anxious about it, and sometimes I will work hard for a while, maybe there is gain, maybe not, then I will be happy, if there is no gain, I will be annoyed and angry, or I will try hard again or try, and then repeat the cycle until I am not happy to try hard or try, isn't it normal? Wouldn't ordinary people be happy if they worked hard or tried but didn't get anything?

Wouldn't it? As long as it is within the scope of social rules, because I can't accept my ordinary, I have been in a state of wanting to accept my fate and unwilling for a long time, what's wrong? Isn't life still going by day by day?

Asking this question shows that you have realized that you are an ordinary person and are just looking for a reason to convince yourself. I don't think there's anything wrong with being ordinary, but it's a happy thing. Why?

In those humble days, you worry about your ordinariness. But waking up on a day that is as rough and plain as quicksand, even abrasive, opens the curtains, feels the mood of the sky, cooks for yourself, and the gurgling and bubbling sound in the pot is not just fireworks in the world, it is happiness, those stars who live in the spotlight, they go shopping, eat, buy clothes, travel ......There may be people who pay attention anytime and anywhere, and even have to secretly fall in love, and they will envy you at some point, envying you, an ordinary person, for living a life where you can cry and laugh at any time. In fact, all living beings are ordinary, and everyone in the town is unique.

In everyone's ordinary life, there is always a combination of wind and rain, can live a tolerant and open-minded heart, resolve hardships and hardships, maintain a detached and sober heart, life is the most suitable attitude, direction and confidence, this world, free and easy, sad for life, more profound.

Time will tell us that simplicity is like, the longest; Ordinary and most comfortable in the company; Knowing you, the warmest. Take care of love, watch this journey with love, and don't leave regrets in life. Encounters are just the beginning; Watch and be able to accompany you for a lifetime.

Cherish those who love you and those you love!

Ordinary life is not lacking in fatigue, ordinary life is inevitably sad, we will not be tired because of life, give up the pursuit and responsibility of the family. It doesn't matter if we're tired or bitter, we should still do it, or we should do it, life is like that.

In fact, the day everyone is born, they are basically stereotyped, you are an ordinary person, or an outstanding person. Now exist in the world of the rich, capable people. They are all self-made.

Most of them rely on the relationship on the back of the Lord to achieve some status. So I was born ordinary, and I will accept it silently.

Ordinary is not mediocre, everyone must learn to accept their ordinary.

Many people have a misconception about the ordinary, believing that ordinary people must be mediocre.

Ordinary is different from mediocrity, which is a kind of self-depravity, but also a life of complete self-indulgence.

And ordinariness is to begin to realize that we may be just an ordinary ordinary person, with an ordinary IQ and an ordinary family background. Ordinary is to tell us that we may be just one of thousands of ordinary people.

Recognizing our ordinariness, we don't consume ourselves too much. I once had a student talk to me who once thought he was a very good person, but he found that he couldn't do it in real life.

And to ask him at a deeper level why he feels this way, maybe he realizes that he used to be very good, but now he is not good, so he is very sad.

But what he didn't know was that he just changed the environment, all of them were high-level talents, and everyone was very powerful, but it was precisely this kind of power that let us know that we didn't grow up to prove that we were very good, let alone to prove that we were better than others.

Growing up is accepting that we are an ordinary person and that our worst enemy is ourselves. If a person is growing up, just to prove that he is very good, such a life process will make him unhappy for the rest of his life, because he has been comparing himself with others all his life.

Ordinary is to see one's own opinions, and to understand that there are always people outside the world in life, and there are heavens outside the sky. What we need is to let go of our own comparison and get to know ourselves anew.

A true master knows that the so-called self is also adjusted according to the environment.

The most important thing for us is to accept our ordinariness and our limitations, so that you can return to yourself and reshape yourself.

Ordinary people are the most ordinary and the greatest, so I think I should be such an ordinary person. Love life, love life, love work, I think that's enough.

I am an ordinary person, and the vast majority of people in the world are ordinary people, so what can I not accept!

I accept that I am an ordinary person through my own personal efforts and improve my overall quality, so that my life can be happier and more satisfying.

First of all, the world is so big, there are so many people, there are too many ordinary people, and this society is made up of too many ordinary people.

In fact, people are tired because there are too many things to pursue, and people always rush to them, but they forget that people's simplest happiness may be around. Maybe it's the hot kang head of the wife and children, maybe it's a delicious meal, or maybe it's a touch of warm sunshine in winter.

In fact, why not!

In fact, each of us will be an ordinary person, the key is to adjust our mentality and learn to face all this calmly.

is an ordinary person, and if you want to position yourself clearly, you don't need to be ambitious.

Everyone is an ordinary person and does not necessarily become a great man, so we must learn to accept it.

More than 80% of the world are ordinary people, and even many geniuses will feel that they are ordinary people, which is just a state of mind, not a state.

I can accept my own ordinariness and ordinariness.

When I was younger, I felt different, I felt that I was the only one in the world, I felt that I could enjoy the best things of this time, whether it was when I was in school or as a teenager, I felt that I had ambition in my heart, and I felt that there were thousands of ravines for me to volatilize and conquer the world. Until I entered the society, I knew that I didn't want to do family affairs, nor did I have a winter background, and I didn't have amazing memories, I was just an ordinary person who sold here, I had to run around for a few taels of silver, I had to bow my head and bend over, I had to learn to forbear, and I had to learn to look at other people's faces.

Sometimes I wake up from dreams often. Remembering that he was once a teenager, he set the ideal point, and felt that Junji himself was too ordinary. Or maybe I was too naïve at the time, I thought about some very unrealistic questions, but in reality, the ensuing life made me cancel too much naivety, and became more mature and smooth.

Gradually accept your ordinariness. But that doesn't mean succumbing to the ordinary. We must work harder to live our lives more diligently, so that we can be happier.

Therefore, it is not a good thing to accept your ordinariness, at least you will not be too persistent and depressed.