Affection or interest, interest or emotion?

Feelings and interests are inseparable.

Just imagine, a love will be entangled with feelings and interests, if feelings can overcome interests, then many people will not be troubled by lack of money and poor conditions now.

As a simple example, if your uncle is the mayor of Beijing, and you are a college student who has just graduated, he will only help you arrange a job in the name of feelings, and then the feelings and interests will be very clear.

Heavy feelings are only a friend, friends are a lifetime, and interests have always existed, but will not follow people for a lifetime, when feelings and interests contradict, in order to see a person's personality, but in today's such a realistic society, feelings seem so humble, there are two sentences to say: "people have no feelings pig and dog is not as good." "Man dies for money, and birds die for food."

No one can say these things clearly, everything has to be done. The most important thing is to keep your mind flat and straight.

There are many things that can be observed about a person, but there are no people who don't value feelings and interests.

He is willing to lose his own interests for the sake of his friends, which shows that he values feelings, and if he doesn't value feelings and interests, then why does he live for?

If he can put aside his own interests in order to have a concern about the people around him. Then he is an emotional person, if he is forced to do so. It's also hard to tell.

If it is for their own interests, the six relatives will not recognize it. If you hurt your friends, you are a profit-oriented person.

So this thing will not be able to understand until you get along for a long time.

If you don't value feelings and interests.

Then this person has no thoughts, and belongs to the kind of people who are not sophisticated.

Is your question too absolute? People are more or less profit-oriented.

I saw a ** on Douyin today, which roughly means that successful people must be people who value their interests, and if they are too emotional, there must be no big way out. Seeing this**, it actually touched me a lot, because I am a person who is too emotional, that is, a person who is too face-conscious. I am embarrassed to reject many things, I especially like to please others, and I always think too much about other people's feelings.

In the past, my colleague asked me to help, such as sending her to the bank to run errands. No matter how busy I am, I won't refuse. In the past, when my friends borrowed 2000 like me, even if they were shy in their pockets, they would slap their swollen faces and become fat.

In the past, even if the bonus points were less, I would not fight for what I deserved.

All of the above, in fact, only consider the problem from an emotional point of view, and always think about maintaining their useless face. From another perspective, if I think about it from the perspective of interests, I believe I will have another choice.

My colleague asked me to take her to the bank, but in fact, the time spent was the cost; A friend came to borrow money, but he didn't pay it back in time afterwards, which is also a loss of interest; Not fighting for the money you deserve is also a real loss of money. Therefore, he will not protect his own interests at all, no wonder he has been spinning in the poor nest.

Change yourself while it's still too late!