How to forget that injury, how can I forget the injury?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-01
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's a question that doesn't need to be forgotten at all. Because the problem that everyone knows, the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget. It's like looking forward to the New Year when I was a child. The year always comes late. But now it's been a year.

    In my opinion. First, you have to know why you love. Love what? You have to liberate yourself from the bottom of your heart. .You yourself have to deeply understand that your love is meaningless and meaningless, and when your heart is opened, it will naturally not be so uncomfortable.

    Let's dig a little deeper. Why do you say a person is worthy of your love? Is it because it's too handsome?

    It's because of the very figure. Hey. (for women's figures).

    Or. Well! That little thing at night.

    But. None of this is love, are they? .

    Love is something that's hard to parse. I don't dare to get an axe. I can only say that I understand love, which makes people feel like they want to be attached. The source here is the care, love and happiness that the other half gives to him.

    And the landlord. What do you love?

    He's handsome? How many years later do you think this handsome is useful?

    He's good to you? No, I see that such a man has hurt you repeatedly, and I can only see that he is not responsible for you.

    He's very ?!. that sideWhen you get to a certain age, it fades away, and I don't think you're because of that.

    In fact, I also understand that when two people have a relationship, it is very difficult to express these in words.

    I used to realize it very deeply. It's just a habit. Get used to thinking about her. Wait a minute.

    You only have to really figure it out, and figure it out, he is not worthy of your love. He doesn't deserve to think about him at all.

    You know, this person doesn't need to forget, just hide in your heart, take it out and think about it, you understand the past. What silly!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Five years ago. Well! It's okay, everything will be fine.

    Don't think about it. Live without heart or lungs.

    Smile more. It's going to be better.

    Or fill your life a little.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Sing Andy Lau's "Forget Love Water" Give me a glass of mineral water, so that I don't cry all night.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    To paraphrase a recent buzzword, "Love that doesn't want to get married is a hooligan".

    Change the environment, talk loudly, laugh loudly, cry loudly, you will find your alter ego, I hope you will not be entangled here in the future, uh, like a wandering ghost.

    Echo Canyon.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In addition, don't deliberately forget, deliberately remember, you look at Yao Chen's attitude towards divorce, "everything is back to the past".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Since you have tried your best to cherish it, but you still can't get back what you have lost, then you should learn to give up. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really love, it is impossible to forget, it will only slowly fade with time, it only takes a second to love someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget, "forcing yourself to deliberately forget the result will only deepen his memory, and miss him more and more" There are always some times of loss or low tide in life, that proves that you have really loved It is better to face the reality, looking for new feelings will make you slowly forget, the previous injury, time just let your memory talk slowly, not forget.

    Love has penetrated deep into the soul, forgetting is difficult, it is better to forget what should be forgotten, to keep it reluctant to the soul, the harm is inevitable, it is not easy to give up, but the result of continuing is doomed.

    If you want to forget, you have to die for this love.

    To forget this word is to lose one's heart.

    Dead heart is the beginning of forgetting, heartbreak.

    The pain is numb, and slowly talk about it over time, maybe when you meet true love and fate, your heart will be reborn like a phoenix in the fire.

    If you escape for a while, you can't hide for a lifetime.

    Signed.

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  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now, in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to abandon a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship, every experience, everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think about the scars, because the more you want to forget, the more you remember them, as long as you don't think about sad things in your heart, the memory will be blurred! If you want to be happy, find your good friends who can't be in a good place, play with them, be happy, and slowly erase that memory! Come on, believe in yourself!

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