How can you forget what you can t forget

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, if you really can't let go of him (her), then don't let it go, after all, you have worked hard to love, and this relationship will not change all of a sudden, unless you immediately like someone else, but is it possible? So, why do you have to forget everything and let go of everything. It only makes you more miserable, doesn't it, you can keep him or her quietly, and you can also go back to the sweetness you once had, and be happy, isn't it?

    It's going to be hard at first. But, over time, you'll realize that that's all there was to it. So, why forget, why leave, if he (she) doesn't care about you, then even if you go to the ends of the earth, even if you live a decadent life all day long, he still won't remember you, why let the pain have a reason to torture yourself As the saying goes, God closes a door on this side, and he will definitely open a window for you on the other side, go out, there is a sea and sky in front of you, if you continue to be so uncomfortable, so sad, then there is only one possibility in your life, that is, pain, why not let go of this knot To find 10,000 possibilities in your life (I still remember that I didn't know what happiness was at the time, but now I'm living a pretty happy life, because at least I can still see him, although he already has someone else, so what, as long as you're happy, anything) Believe me, he (she) is still wonderful without you - ps I think it's still very good to have friends by my side After all, friendship is more valuable than love The above is my experience I hope you can take a look Thank you [This answer is ° exclusive, and all plagiarists found will be reported]

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars. When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy. Don't think about deliberately forgetting someone, so that it is not easy to forget, and don't feel annoyed when you think of someone, but you should laugh it off, and over time, you will not sigh at your own success when you think of someone.

    It's not so easy to forget someone in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most it's just to reduce the number of times you think of someone, that's all, so when you think of someone, you can miss it to the fullest, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore. In addition, you can also find something you like to do, make yourself happy, and let your mind go free. Learn to give up Maybe we can live easier and happier!

    Learn to give up the moment the tears fall, turn around and leave, and leave a simple figure! Learn to give up, bury the pain in your heart, and leave the best memories that once belonged to each other! So I chose to leave!

    When I'm lonely, I won't hide in a forgotten corner, learn to be free in forgetting, and be the same person

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's hard to try to forget love.

    It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

    Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's impossible to forget someone you love for a short time.

    Of course, it also depends on how you deal with it.

    And don't deliberately forget her, because that will backfire.

    Like some people say they don't care, but they care in their hearts.

    I can't forget it after a long time, and I'm very sensitive to her things.

    If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus.

    Turn your attention to something else, so you can slowly forget and indulge in it.

    I don't know if it's feasible for you, right? But you can give it a try.

    The end of every relationship is the beginning of the next.

    Everyone has their own way of healing.

    Injuries are nothing, memories are the most painful injuries.

    Go ahead and find that way for you.

    Leave a smile between love and pain.

    But it takes a second to fall in love with someone.

    And it takes a lifetime to forget a person.

    It also depends on how deep your love is.

    If you are deep, you may not forget it for a while.

    But this kind of thing is not urgent, take your time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

    I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

    So, I got better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's so difficult, it's really hard Since you can't forget, try to remember it with all your might, sometimes you will find that the memory is gradually blurred, and then look at the many people around you who live very hard, they are all trying to live, and what right do you have to give up if you don't work hard

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. Don't push yourself too hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent?

    Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life. People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily.

    Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you.

    It's really about fate between people. Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?

    To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down! No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally wishing you well.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time is the most unforgiving, and everything will be diluted with the passage of time. Don't always think about how I can forget it, in fact, the more people want to forget something, the more they are entangled in it. On the contrary, when you don't think about it, you forget it.

    2: It can be replaced by other activities. For example, reading books, listening to **, chatting with friends and family, and talking about the heart can achieve the purpose of temporary forgetting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's easy to forget things Just divert your attention, don't focus on it, especially at night when you are sleeping, it is easy to think about things, so fall asleep as soon as possible. Fill each day with joy and soon you'll forget.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you care about that thing, that thing is important to you, then you will never forget it. Why forget those things? Even if it was an unpleasant thing, it made a lot of sense to you.

    Don't forget something that's important to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The reason why people are unhappy is that they pursue the wrong things.

    If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you. Listen to songs, chat, watch jokes, shift your mind, and remember what to remember.

    Forget what you should forget.

    Change can change.

    Accept what the unwise can change.

    Time will prove that those unforgettable things we once thought would disappear.

    Pain is inevitable and will pass, believe me and smile and wish you happiness.

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