I m in trouble, dear! Help me figure it out

You just tell him it's okay, and if you don't tell him, he won't know. If you don't talk to him, he thinks you have thoughts about him, so he's too shy to see him. So you tell him that you have always treated him as a big brother and have never wanted to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and besides, you tell him that it is good for him to be your big brother.

If you don't want to be with him.

You're going to reject him outright.

If you are afraid of breaking his heart, don't refuse.

He thought you were interesting to him.

That's why it's entangled.

If he pesters you again, you just tell him.

Let him completely die to you, and he won't pester you.

Make it clear to him first, and put the words there. After that, they will be cold to him, treat him as air, and try to avoid his words when communicating. Let him gradually feel that you hate him.

First of all, you have to be calm, every time you talk to him, you can't have a trace of nostalgia, or can't bear it, you must be resolute. Tell him that we can't and be serious. After a long time, it slowly fades.

Because of his humor, you are willing to play with him but don't like him, since this is the case, don't play with him anymore, so as not to misunderstand, the hair will grow long without cutting, and you will fall in love over time. Gradually distance yourself from him, from someone who loves you!!

Tell him what you really think! Calm down, if he's still a little extreme, then ignore him.

I also encountered this kind of thing two days ago, you told him that if we do boyfriend and girlfriend will not necessarily be together, but will hurt, maybe there will never be contact again in this life, if we.

Be decisive, and it would be good to pass that period.

Pure first love is like this, a little unhappy will be seen as a big thing, and it will be distressed for a long time. Sister is a person who has come over, I believe sister, every girl thinks of the other half as the perfect boy, and wants the other party to be dead to herself, unswerving, but she is vague, she doesn't want to show too white, even if she wants to die, the surface will be cold and indifferent, tepid, this is a typical ice beauty type that is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and when you grow up, you will control your own character, and now you are destined to be troubled in your first love, everyone is like this, no big deal, no need to worry about yourself.

"Pony crossing the river" doesn't try how to know, if he confesses to you again, just accept it, save the entanglement, if you are not sure, and he does not confess, maybe he also wants to be a good friend, then be a good friend. If you are really entangled, explain your thoughts to him, look at his attitude, accept, everyone will be together, if you don't accept, just be friends!

I don't know if you don't have confidence in yourself or in him, since you think, why don't you be brave and take this step, when everyone is wrong, you have been wrong once, do you have to be wrong again and again? Now he is standing in front of the door, and as soon as you push it open, it is a beautiful and sincere beginning.

Your fault is that you don't have faith in this love, you're afraid, you're afraid that if you really can't make it to the end, you won't even have to be a friend, right? Or are you too happy to let go of that bad decision?

Do you know why you're not interested in other boys at all? Because your heart has always been occupied by this boy, although you are always trying to hide your ignorant love at the beginning, but at that time you were completely true.

If I were you, I would definitely give myself a chance to dare to love and hate, at least I don't want to live in contradiction forever, give yourself a chance, give him a chance, if it's really as you said that you won't be together for a long time, then forget it completely, so as not to harm others and yourself, but if you are so timid, it is estimated that if one day he really gets along with someone else, you only have two choices, either forget, or insist, don't you think that your situation will be more difficult than now?

If you want to forget and still think about it now, if you want to be together and have to play the role of a third party, then it will be your biggest regret.

Take a brave step and wish you happiness.

This is that your relationship has not yet reached a stable moment! I know you love it too! I would like to say! Give him a chance! It's like giving yourself a chance! After all, we have loved each other! In the tank!

You haven't met someone who really makes you fall in love yet, and you're not sure if you like it or not, so don't deceive yourself and the person who loves you. Wait...

How so? Feelings need to be maintained by two people, everything must be forward, you have to try, it is not enough to rely on feelings.

Try it before you know the results.

I'm afraid that he will be sad, so I try to maintain the relationship between the two.

You're just getting used to him.