Golden Wedding chooses Wenli is love, and Sister in law Zhuang is life, how do men choose in reali

In "Golden Wedding", the choice of Wen Li is love, and the choice of Zhuang's sister-in-law is lifeIn reality, men should also choose Sister-in-law Zhuang's character more.

The difference between Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law.

Wen Li is a teacher in the TV series, a person who accepts new ideas, has a good figure, and speaks with more quality. But Wen Li is indeed more hypocritical, she looks down on Sister-in-law Zhuang in her heart, and thinks that Sister-in-law Zhuang speaks vulgarly. Sister-in-law Zhuang belongs to the down-to-earth kind, and her body shape belongs to the kind of tiger's back and bear's waist, but she is very real to people!

How would a man choose in real life?

Wen Li's character is highly educated, but she may not be able to live a relaxed life. Because Wen Li has not suffered much, she will not be careful in terms of money, and she will basically use up the month's expenses in half a month.

Although Sister-in-law Zhuang has no culture, Sister-in-law Zhuang is relatively simple and will not spend too much on dressing up, she will arrange her life in an orderly manner and make a plan in life!

In real life, before marriage, you will hope that you can find a young and beautiful girl with a hot body. But if you get married, you deal with firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, and the days are long-lasting, so I think it's better to marry a wife like Sister-in-law Zhuang.

A woman who can live, just like Zhuang's sister-in-law, dresses up relatively simply, you can try your best, and you basically don't have to worry too much about the family, and you don't need to worry too much about most of the family's relationships. And such popularity is also very good. You won't be delayed in your work because of these trivial things.

But in the end, it still depends on the eye and personal choice, and marries a good figure, the long beauty is so beautiful that the man seems to feel special and has a special face, and others will be particularly envious when they see it. If you marry a tiger, some men still dislike it, but the good thing is that you never worry about your wife having two hearts at home, in short, everyone's views and ideas are different. There's no way to generalize!

In reality, men will choose women who understand life, not many people will choose love, men are not so imaginative, they are more rational and calm, so the women who know life best are the ones who accompany them all their lives.

In reality, most men will choose in life, this is because we have to live for a long time after marriage, and love alone is definitely not enough, so basically we will choose Zhuang's sister-in-law.

It should have something to do with the individual's personality, as long as the two people are suitable together, marriage is a process of two people tolerating and understanding each other, whether it is to choose Wenli or Zhuang's sister-in-law, as long as the two people are in the same boat through thick and thin.

In real life, men generally choose to live. Because love is hard to come by, but real life is at your fingertips.

Wen Li is a good woman in her bones, in Tong Zhi's words: Wen Li is simple and kind. But I really don't like this woman very much.

Wen Li is particularly sensitive and attentive. It felt like she didn't have to think about a lot of things. Every time I see her quarreling with Tong Zi, I really don't know what Tong Zi is wrong, but Wen Li is still there, and she won't think about others at all.

There are few men who can really put up with this kind of woman.

Wen Li is very calculating. As a teacher, she should be educated and educated, but she loves to worry about Zhuang's sister-in-law. I despise the peasants for looking down on them. I feel that although she has never loved the old man, she has taken care of the family of Dazhuang.

It's beautiful and smelly. Before Gai Gai (her granddaughter Waiyunhui) was born, she loved to dress up. When I first got married, I always paid my salary, but I didn't have new clothes or hair, so I had no money to eat. And the Squire often does. Wait until Yanni.

When she grew up, as long as people said that she looked like Yanni's sister, she would die of joy. In fact, every woman is afraid of getting old, and I can understand this. If Wen Li were to stay in the current materialistic era, she would still be young (before the age of 45), maybe she would be really beautiful and well maintained.

Beautiful clothes are definitely much better, all kinds of cosmetics like neroli, Vichy.

Avène, I don't know how many.

Wen Li is not a good wife and mother, but she has also paid a lot for this family.

Wen Li is too literary and coarse, pays too much attention to the foundation of love, puts romance above the true nature of life, is too freewheeling, and has no plan to ignite, so when the original face of life is gradually revealed, Wen Li has a huge psychological gap.

Although Sister-in-law Zhuang is not as beautiful and educated as Wenli, she is not as transparent as Sister-in-law Zhuang in her life. And Sister-in-law Zhuang knows that she must love her children, whether it is a boy or a girl, but Wen Li has a traditional stubborn mind, and has always been obsessed with giving birth to a son and ignoring the psychology of a daughter. At this point, he lost to Sister-in-law Zhuang.

Because Wen Hui Qili has a petty bourgeois temperament and manages her husband very strictly, and Sister-in-law Zhuang is very indulgent to her husband, so Wen Li will lose to Sister-in-law Zhuang.

Although Wen Li is beautiful and educated, she is not as transparent as Sister-in-law Zhuang in some details of life, Wen Li is obsessed with giving birth to a son but ignores her daughter, but Sister-in-law Zhuang understands that her daughter should be carefully cared for. Warmth was given to the children. At this point, Wen Lipi lost to Sister-in-law Zhuang.

In the play, Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law are a pair of enemies, Zhuang's sister-in-law is a child daughter-in-law under an arranged marriage in the countryside, and she grew up to come to the city to marry Da Zhuang, who became a worker, and Wen Li is a woman who accepts new ideas in the new era, and a teacher in a primary school for the children of workers. These two originally had no intersection, but because their husbands were good buddies, the two became neighbors after marriage, and this neighbor was a lifelong neighbor, so the grievances and grievances between the two began! Wen Li can't look down on Sister-in-law Zhuang's roughness, Sister-in-law Zhuang can't look down on Wen Li's hypocrisy, and the two have been entangled for half their lives because of the problem of having children.

Wen Li has always looked down on Sister-in-law Zhuang, so she always avoids her, and Sister-in-law Zhuang doesn't like Wen Li, but the strange thing is that this sister-in-law Zhuang is very good to Wen Li, why is this?

<> first of all, Sister-in-law Zhuang's reasoning. Although Sister-in-law Zhuang is from the countryside, she is a very sensible daughter-in-law. She knew that Tong Zhi was Dazhuang's best buddy, so no matter what, this sister-in-law Zhuang wanted to give Dazhuang face.

And Tong Zhi is not bad, Sister-in-law Zhuang knows that Tong Zhi is good, and she also hopes that Da Zhuang can continue to be buddies with Tong Zhi, so even if Wen Li's temper is very stinky, even if they don't like Wen Li, Sister-in-law Zhuang will still be good to Wen Li for the sake of her husband and her husband's buddies, from this point of view, Sister-in-law Zhuang is stronger than Wen Li!

<> followed by Sister-in-law Zhuang's careful thinking. Sister-in-law Zhuang knows that she is from the countryside, and these city people don't look down on her at all, so she is usually very good to her neighbors, but she also knows that others don't treat her sincerely, but Wen Li is different. Sister-in-law Zhuang can ignore others, but she and Wen Li will never be separated, or because of her husband's relationship.

The most important thing is that Wen Li is different from the people who live here, Wen Li is more high-end and more high-looking, so Sister-in-law Zhuang always imitates Wen Li, even if she doesn't like it in her bones, it has to be about the same face, so she often flatters Wen Li, maybe this is Sister-in-law Zhuang's own vain thoughts!

Finally, Sister-in-law Zhuang is kind-hearted. Although Sister-in-law Zhuang has a big personality, she is indeed a kind person deep down, and Wen Li's relationship with her is so special, so even if Wen Li is very stinky, even if she doesn't like it, her kindness always drives herself to help her! Wen Li was confined, and Sister-in-law Zhuang took her the child's small clothes; Wenli's second child lacked nutrition, and Zhuang's sister-in-law asked someone to find nutritious sheep bones for her; Wen Li was too late to send the child, so Sister-in-law Zhuang took the child and rode away without saying a word; Yanni's first menstrual period Wen Li was not at home, and Sister-in-law Zhuang not only helped but also washed the children's pants!

As long as Sister-in-law Zhuang has the ability, she will definitely think about Wen Li, in fact, in the final analysis, it is because of Sister-in-law Zhuang's simplicity and kindness, such a woman is really cute!

Golden Wedding": Sister-in-law Zhuang can't look down on Wen Li's arrogance, but she is so good to her, this is because Sister-in-law Zhuang has a very friendly personality, and she is usually quite enthusiastic about others, although she doesn't look down on Wen Li on the surface, in fact, she takes care of Wen Li everywhere in her usual life, I think she is actually a kind of person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside.

It shows that Aunt Zhuang is kind-hearted and kind to people, although she doesn't look down on others, but she wants to help others when others are in trouble, and she is not careful, after all, it is not good for neighbors to be stiff.

Because Sister-in-law Zhuang is actually a very kind person, she can't see others suffering. So although Sister-in-law Zhuang and Wen Li have fought all their lives, they are still old friends in the end.

Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law, who didn't deal with each other when they were young, became best friends when they were old. As the saying goes, if you don't fight, you don't know each other, and the neighbors have been going all the way all the way, and the feelings of knowing the roots are solid. When I get old, my vision is different

Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law who were young

Wen Li belongs to a cultural person with a good figure, and Zhuang's sister-in-law is a child daughter-in-law, a typical rural daughter-in-law type. As the saying goes, "It's not that enemies don't get together" Wen Li doesn't look down on Sister-in-law Zhuang, to put it bluntly, it's because Sister-in-law Zhuang gave birth to a son, in fact, she doesn't look down on Sister-in-law Zhuang, she should be a little jealous of Sister-in-law Zhuang in her heart. And Wen Li in Sister-in-law Zhuang is very pretentious, to put it bluntly, she is also a little envious and jealous of her superiority over herself, Wen Li is more educated than Sister-in-law Zhuang and can dress up.

But in the final analysis, the two are still kind people, Wen Li has quality, and Sister-in-law Zhuang is also a reasonable and reasonable person. Although there are all kinds of dissatisfaction with the other party, but when something happens, he still has no hesitation to help. At this point, Sister-in-law Zhuang is much better than Wen Li, Sister-in-law Zhuang values her husband and thinks that Tong Zhiren can also do it.

After all, he is a good brother with his husband, and he more or less loves the house and Wu.

When Wen Li was confined, Sister-in-law Zhuang took out the clothes of her children when they were young and gave them to Wen Li; Wen Li was late for sending the child, and Sister-in-law Zhuang was also eager to help; Wenli's eldest daughter came to the eldest aunt, and it was also Zhuang's sister-in-law who went over to comfort the child and help wash the pants. Wen Liren doesn't have a bad heart, although she looks like a cold type, she is also more realistic to people.

So when you get old, after all, after getting along all your life, everyone knows who is like. And I personally think that Sister-in-law Zhuang has high emotional intelligence, and Wen Li also understands that Sister-in-law Zhuang has no heart, and she is also sincerely good to her! So when you get old, naturally there is no more difficult gossip, the children are married, and they are all full of gray hair, and there is nothing to worry about at all!

In the final analysis, Sister-in-law Zhuang's help to Wen Li's family is not a little bit!

After getting along for a long time, they all know that the other party is a very kind person, and when the child grows up, the old man will become very lonely, and he will slowly become best friends with his old partner.

I think it's probably because they realized that their behavior when they were young was quite naïve, and neither of them had any bad intentions, so they could become best friends.

Because when she was young, Wen Li belonged to everyone's beautiful cultural people, Sister-in-law Zhuang belonged to the kind of old ladies in the countryside who looked down on each other, but her husband and two were good friends, so Sister-in-law Zhuang often helped Wen Li's family, and when she was old, her children were married, and she didn't care about each other, so she took care of each other and chatted.

This is also because the two of them, when they were young, were-for-tat, and when they got old, they found that they were of the same generation, and they could still talk together, and they also had feelings, so they became best friends.

After getting along for a long time, I have feelings, I feel that I am a teacher, Zhuang's sister-in-law is a rural woman, and she is a class higher than her, and she doesn't care about those things when she gets old, and she sees everything.