How to come out of the closet with your family

1. Financial independence 2. Before coming out, knock on the side to see the attitude of your family. 3. If you have siblings, go out with your siblings first, they have a higher possibility of acceptance, and they can help you in the future and become a helper to persuade your family. 4. Slowly popularize relevant knowledge to your family.

Personal advice only, take your time, and slowly lay the groundwork. I wish you success in coming out, if your family loves you, I believe they will hope you are happy, will slowly accept it, and become better.

When you decide to come out, you must make sure how much the family can bear it, most of the elders in this society, as well as people of the age of their parents, are unable to accept the matter of coming out, they are relatively conservative, so if you choose to confess to your family, you must ensure their safety, and when you are older, your heart can't bear such a big fright.

There are some things that cannot be hidden, and you can only talk calmly with your family. Tell them what you think and let them understand you.

Confess to your family, in this case, it depends on your family, when he is suitable to communicate with them, when the atmosphere at home is particularly harmonious, and when you are suitable to talk about problems.

You need to explain to your family what you are doing as soon as possible. Because as soon as possible, let the family understand as soon as possible, and then there will be less harm.

I think the first thing to do is to be honest with your family about why you chose this life, or to tell your parents what you think.

It's your "sexual orientation," but it's unacceptable to parents, and it's best to let them down in the fact that you don't have friends of the opposite sex, and maybe it will get better slowly.

Confessing to your family, coming out, I think you are like being honest with your family, chatting with your family more, and then talking about your thoughts, calling the family tree, your confession.

To confess to your family that you like someone else, then take the initiative to tell your family or make them accept.

You talk to them. They may be able to help you.

I don't think I need to talk about it!

The official point is to treat both sexes normally before marriage, and to put it bluntly, it means that if you fall in love, you will fall in love, and the rest will not be discussed, so it should be very clear.

You pay for snacks, small money, small gifts and the like. If you have a more expensive meal in a restaurant, you have to take the initiative to propose the AA system. You are not the second generation of Fu, if she really likes you, she will understand you.

I'm a woman, I think if you eat together, men will definitely spend money, this is polite, but this money I will buy him gifts or give him clothes or other daily things on the holiday, as for snacks and clothes and the like, I won't buy them in front of men, it's really boring to go shopping, but I won't buy it, which saves embarrassment, the happiest thing when falling in love is not the process of spending money, but the fun when the two of them walk or play alone, not necessarily spend money, no matter how long it is, if the woman really wants to live with you, She will take the initiative to save, to help you save money, AA system I always feel weird, not that I don't want to come out, I think a man looks at a woman to pay the bill, it's always not good, in a word, look at what the money is for, eat and play the man's out, what life is trivial, the man needs all the women out.

How so,。。

I don't know what LZ's girlfriend thinks, either.、But I'm also a girl.、I'll tell you about myself if I just want to play with a guy and don't care too much about him.、I don't mind him spending money too much.、Anyway, his money he spends voluntarily.、I won't feel too distressed.

If it's a guy I really love, I don't want him to spend money, because that might mean that his spending on some convenience is reduced, such as food money, but that's something I definitely don't want to see! So I usually don't ask him to buy me things, if the two of them go out to play, it will be AA system, so that he has more face and won't spend too much of his money, I feel more sorry for his body and don't want him to be tired

That's what I do、I don't know what LZ's girlfriend thinks。

I wish LZ happiness

Are you sure she's not using you like a vending machine?

The girl who really loves you is afraid that you will spend money, because she knows how to save a little so that she can live a better life in the future:

A girl who doesn't love you will think you spend too little, because subconsciously she thinks that you spend it's yours and has nothing to do with her.

It may also be that she is really immature, you should occasionally give her some reasoning, joking that we have to save some money to spend, and we still have to save to buy a house! If she understands you, you can progress slowly: if you turn your face directly, then there is no need for this love to continue...

Jokingly, you invite me to dinner or something, now that men and women are equal, I don't know why men and women should be equal in other aspects, and it must be a boy to spend money on love, under the sign of a gentleman.

I wonder if it's too hasty to get married. I think we should spend more time with each other. If you don't get along with each other, you can't see it for three or five years. And don't pay unilaterally, it's too late to regret when the girl doesn't want you.

You tell her tactfully, occasionally tell her your goals and desires, you want to make good money to buy a love home for the two of you, and tell her that you love her, will save as much as possible to meet her requirements, etc., in a touching way, in this way, if she knows that you are so hard, she will definitely feel something!

Your matter is a problem in most young people's love now, but such a problem is not unsolvable, and nothing is a problem with love.

Well, this netizen, I was like this at the beginning, and now it's much better, my girlfriend and I both spend money together, and he's much more frugal now than before, you can sit down and talk, don't hold it to yourself, so that the gap between you will become bigger and bigger because of each expense.

People are different, some girls generally do not spend the man's money before the relationship is determined, after the relationship is confirmed, it means that she loves you, and she will consider your economic situation, after all, two people have to face the future together; Some girls spend money more casually and are used to spending lavishly, and if you don't consider your financial situation, it should be said that she is a little selfish and a little vanity.

Of course, girls will not be polite to spend boys' money, during the relationship, it is generally boys who spend money, girls with plans will spend a little less on you, and girls who are greedy for fun will spend you a little more. Young girls are mostly playful, and when they mature and know how to plan for the future, they will start saving you money.

Isn't it popular now that the AA system is in vogue No matter what, two people should spend about the same amount of money, mainly depending on yourself If you really love her, you won't count so much Once there is an imbalance in love, the mentality will be over The main thing is to look at yourself.

I think that if a girl really loves you, she won't always let you spend more money, and she should spend more when she first met.

After reading the replies of the brothers, sisters, aunts, aunts, uncles and uncles upstairs, I deeply feel that I am also a member of your dearest, but I am so bad, I am really psychologically uncomfortable not to spend money on my girlfriend, I am already addicted, and I have to change it.

It's been half a year, and it's still like this, which means that the woman hasn't realized the direct mistake, maybe it's because you're used to making it like this. If you have to think about buying a house and getting married, then there is no need to worry about it. Let's communicate more between the two of us.

Looking at the girl's character, a mature and sensible girl will save money for her boyfriend. Maybe she's just looking at whether you really love her and whether you're willing to spend money for her. Talk to her, the specific situation is still only known to you, don't hold back your heart that your relationship will have problems.

Today's society is no longer so traditional, you have to accept this society, society will change many of your ideas, as you get older, you will find that it is not so difficult to find the type you like, your thoughts and actions often change the thoughts of lovers, of course, love itself is a process of making up for each other, understanding each other and learning from each other, and sincere communication may become better if there are problems! Have a nice day!

You can talk to her! Sincere communication, exchange ......She'll understand you

If it's such a girl, if you can't accept it, just throw it away, you can face these problems and say your feelings, see if you can solve them face to face, if you can't, you can only endure the pain!

There is not much difference in the heart, but there is a big difference in physiology.