Why did the man who was obsessed with Chinese culture let his son ride a bull to go to kindergarten?

Children are the pearl of parents' palms, and when they reach the age of kindergartenParents want to pick up and drop off cars, but in Chengdu, the way a man sends his son to school is very trendy. Sending my son to kindergarten on a bull ride is a one-hour walk each time.

His name is Li Li, a lover of Chinese cultureHe held a Chinese culture interest class in Chengdu and raised 180 kinds of animals at home. In addition to taking his son to kindergarten every week, he often brought out various animals from the garden for the children who studied Chinese studies with him to ride on them. From the age of 16, Li Li wore a coarse cloth robe and "never took it off".

He likes Chinese culture and thinks that it is necessary to fully integrate into clothing, food, housing and transportation. So, he planted lush plants in the yard, rescued injured animals from the roadside, and turned his home into a courtyard style. In his spare time, he always rides a cow and experiences the slow time of the past.

Last winter, Leary's son started kindergarten. On the first day of entering the park, my wife will drive me to pick me up. Then Li Li had a whim and asked about his son:

Do you want to ride a bull to school? ”Unexpectedly, my son said yes again and again. Li Li was happy, took out a 180-pound buffalo, crossed a rope through the nose of the cow, put a mat on the cow's back, taught his son to ride on the cow's back, brought a shovel, and set off.

Along the way, he chatted with Xiao Min and taught him to read poetry. And the oxen are not idle, and from time to time they stick out their heads and eat the leaves of the trees by the roadside and the weeds on the ground. In this way, the father and son walked for one hour to reach the kindergarten, which is 3 kilometers away from home.

Seeing that his son was happy, Li Li often led a buffalo or a donkey and took his son to kindergarten. Later, the son sometimes offered to ask his father to take him to school, and Li Li understood, "I want to ride a bull, because my mother will only drive him." Although it only takes 40 minutes to reach the place by donkey, the son still likes to ride the buffalo because "the cow is more obedient and walks more steadily".

Just recently, after Li Li's ** who sent his 3-year-old son to kindergarten appeared on the Internet, it immediately caused different statements. A child with a small schoolbag on his back sat on the back of a cow and walked around the city, which made everyone call it "strange" and said that it was a "cow ride". In this regard, the traffic management department said that the "Road Traffic Safety Law" does not stipulate that animals such as horses or cattle cannot be ridden on the road.

If you want to go on the road, it is recommended to take the non-motorized lane, and at the same time the owner should take the lead. In addition, animals are easily frightened, and riding on the road can cause certain traffic safety hazards to cyclists and other traffic participants, and if such behavior is detected, it will be discouraged.

How old is his son, is it really safe to sit on the back of a cow? The cow is the most ruthless and brutal, usually we will compare brute force to the power of the ox, but imagine how great the strength of the cow is? If you accidentally hurt your son on the way to school, who is to blame?

Do you blame yourself or the cow who doesn't understand anything?

Besides, now that his son is still young, he is not too sensible, and when he grows up, he is ridiculed by his classmates for being unconventional, and he seems out of place with other children of the same age? Did the father think about his son?

Besides, this father is obsessed with Chinese studies, and it is not just the practice of bull riding that proves his love for Chinese culture. In addition, he who loves Chinese culture should not impose his ideas on his children. He loves Chinese culture, he can cultivate his son's interest in Chinese culture, and he can tell some small stories of Chinese culture, but it doesn't have to be like this.

You must know that the practice of riding a bull to go to school has nothing to do with the inheritance of Chinese culture. Riding a bull to school does not allow his son to better understand the artistic conception of ancient poems, leaving a little room for his son's imagination, otherwise it will distort his understanding of ancient poems if he does not do well.

The inheritance of Chinese culture is the inheritance of spiritual connotation, not this kind of formalism. No matter how obsessed this father is with Chinese studies, it is just his wishful thinking.

It's really a strange parent doing strange things, has he considered the child's feelings? Does this father want to be an internet celebrity? He wants to win the attention of others, please don't use Guoxue as an excuse, Guoxue said that he would not carry this pot.

Riding a bull to school, I want to laugh when I hear this, and it has nothing to do with Chinese studies. Any traditional thing must take its essence to its dross, either now move and set in this era is inheritance is protection, learn Chinese culture, patriotism, want to know the unity of action, then we have to take into account our modern environment! Do you still take a brush to the exam?

Do you still wear cloth shoes and straw sandals to physical education class? Leave your child in the deep mountains and old forests, read alone, the so-called two ears don't listen to things outside the window, and only read the books of sages?

These are the result of previous ancient environmental constraints. Now that our society has progressed, we have better ways and means to educate and raise children, why should we be nostalgic for the previous way of education?

In ancient times, transportation was backward, and large animals such as horses and cattle could only be used as mopeds, so it would be normal for us to let our children ride cattle to school at this time. But now that the means of transportation in our society are so developed, and the roads are also tailored for motor vehicles, at this time we let our children ride oxen to school, which is tantamount to bringing the clothes made of leaves and bark of primitive society to the present and wearing

So this father let his child ride a bull to school, and the name of the child is that he is obsessed with Chinese studies, but he actually wants to win the attention of others.

I don't know how this child feels, looking at ** also looks like the second or third grade of primary school, the self-esteem of children at this age is particularly sensitive, and he is most afraid of being isolated and ridiculed by his classmates. Riding a bull to school will definitely be ridiculed by other children, so you can imagine how sad this child will be.

I remember that when I was young in elementary school, I was ignorant, and I often isolated my classmates in groups, and the isolated classmates were all alone, often hiding in the corner and not talking, and now I think about how I really shouldn't have been. Children who have been isolated since childhood are estimated to have a certain psychological shadow, which will have an impact on their future personality and their own development. So this father should stop harming his children, if you have to insist on the so-called "unity of knowledge and action", then you can ride a bull to work yourself.

Although the traffic law does not explicitly restrict animals from on the road, there are so many cars coming and going, and the noise of horns and human voices will inevitably make animals go crazy and frightened. Once the cow is frightened, it will run wildly, which makes the child on the back of the cow how dangerous it is, with the father's pull rope ** to control the crazy cow, once strung to the middle of the road left and right, it will inevitably cause a car accident, and finally become harmful to others and themselves, the gains outweigh the losses.

Although I think this kind of thing is strange, but I think that since he does not affect the normal growth of the child, it will not be directly locked to see, such an education method is good or bad, I think parents to be brave innovation or brave in the historical trend, I think it is okay, and I think other people's children ride bulls to school, and then did not have a greater impact on his personal life, and as long as parents have such a wish, intoxicated with Chinese culture, I think children should also be nurtured from an early age.

And what his father said about letting children feel the spirituality from various animals from an early age, because his father not only raised cattle at home, but also raised donkeys, raised all kinds of other strange animals, close to the white race, and then let the children live in such an environment, it is indeed possible for children to have a different growth environment from others, and the growth environment has created a different way of growth, so I think his parents dare to try this, so why not? And now people are becoming more and more homogeneous, there are some new innovations, some new ideas, and it may also bring a new idea to future education, so you can't blindly struggle for such a new and harmless thing, even if you don't understand that it's incompatible with your own worldview, you can't criticize them at will because of this. I always say that when you are a person, do things, and think, you must maintain a rational attitude.

Therefore, we should be more tolerant from the understanding, and he is actually a level of people, then I don't think it's even more surprising, after all, the people in Sichuan are quite tolerant of other people.