Reading Positive Discipline has a feeling

Recently, I took the time to finish reading the book "Positive Discipline", because of work and various trivial things in life, this is the first parenting book that my daughter has read completely since she was five years old, and I feel that I have benefited a lot.

I have to say that raising children is really a very hard job, and disciplining children has always been an eternal topic. There will be a lack of education in any way of disciplining how to discipline. Therefore, the author proposes a need"Positive discipline"。

The so-called positive discipline is not to punish or be arrogant, and to learn to communicate positively with children. Parents should learn to communicate and be a person who truly enters the inner world of their children, and only in this way can they become good teachers and helpful friends to their children. In the growth and education of children, we must be strict and kind, neither overly arrogant nor spoiled.

It is necessary to count the characteristics of children according to their own characteristics, teach them according to their aptitude, and guide them benignly. Love children, but also teach children to behave in the way, and use grace and power to make children grow better.

At the same time, when the child will gradually have his own ideas and want to stick to some things as he grows up, parents should be good at observation and take care of the child's self-esteem in life with empathy. It is often said that if you look at your parents, you can see them by looking at their children. Children are the mirror of their parents, and their words and deeds have a decisive impact on children, because parents are the first teachers of children, and they play an exemplary role in the growth of children.

Therefore, disciplining children requires parents to be cautious in their words and deeds. "Positive Discipline" is a kind of strength, and it is a method that distinguishes it from the methods of scolding and arrogance. Only when parents learn to communicate effectively with their children can they better discipline their children, so that children can improve themselves under the education of their parents and move towards their own direction and goals, and their children will become better and better.

Reading through the whole book gave me the epiphany and awakening that led to the initiation. Reflecting on myself, many of the cases in the book are all about myself. In the process of educating my daughter, I did not have enough understanding of the situation, and often did not understand the situation and deny and angrily reprimanded the child. lack of emotional stability; The tone is stern and tough; Expectations for children are too high; Often quarrel with family members due to differences of opinion, and do not create a gentle and loving environment for children to grow up, resulting in children who are irritable, inferior, and timid.

This book gave me a good educational direction, and it is indeed a book worth reading seriously as a parent. In this regard, it is recommended that friends who have seen this experience, if you have not read this book, you can read it, let us learn to be qualified parents together, and I hope that our children can become better and better in the growth of love. The road is long and the line is coming.