What kind of person is the person who likes to open the yellow cavity?

People who like to open a yellow cavity are generally more male, and then she is more aggressive, and then lives in a more open-minded, more atmospheric family Well, among classmates, friends and colleagues, he is also a more extroverted person, only a more extroverted person, he will say some yellow tones, say some yellow jokes, and then he is really anti-inflammatory, others pay attention to him, or cause others to pay attention to him, this kind of person actually looks more outgoing, extroverted. But he still has a little inferiority complex in his heart, he is a pass, a yellow joke, he wants to attract the attention of others, and then he is interested in him! He may still be a relatively introverted person in his bones, so he can't judge what kind of person a person will be by looking at the appearance of some people, or by looking at what some people say?

Maybe his external performance is completely opposite to his inner expression, he may be a particularly withdrawn person in his bones, this is very possible, he mainly wants to attract the attention of others, and then thinks these words are more interesting, in fact, he himself doesn't know what will happen, everyone has their own way of getting along with others.

Men love to talk about pornography, the first reason, and the most likely reason, is incompetence.

That's right, it's as simple and crude as that - incompetence.

But there are many kinds of incompetence, let me explain them one by one:

The first type of incompetence is the incompetence of interpersonal communication.

Do you think about it, when do men usually talk to you about pornography?

It may be that you are attending a dinner, and some of the men present are talking about yellow jokes;

It may be that this man is communicating with you, and he is talking about yellow jokes as he speaks.

In these cases, you tend to have a less close relationship with him, most likely just a nodding acquaintance or just a colleague.

Then, he tries to establish a connection with you, but he doesn't know what really works to communicate, so he talks about pornography.

Because in a man's heart, saying that yellow jokes are not something that ordinary people can say, he feels that after saying yellow jokes, your relationship will become intimate.

But they don't know that good friends do say pornographic jokes among themselves, but it doesn't mean that they become good friends when they say pornographic jokes!

Therefore, some men like to talk about pornographic jokes, in fact, because they have nothing to say in their stomachs, and they don't know how to interact with others, and they often face very embarrassing scenes.

In order not to be cold, they brought out all the yellow jokes they knew - in their opinion, yellow jokes are essentially jokes, which can make everyone laugh, as long as they can make you laugh, even if they are familiar with you!

The second type of incompetence is the incompetence of life.

Some men love to talk about pornographic jokes, purely with bad tastes and bad intentions, they know that telling pornographic jokes will embarrass girls, but they just want to talk about it.

Because they especially like to see the embarrassed and resistant expressions of girls after hearing the yellow jokes, because they will feel that they have controlled this girl and determined this girl's thoughts.

This kind of thinking is roughly equivalent to: I'm just going to block you so that you'll remember me. 」

Think about it, how much failure is this person's life, so that you need to pin your sense of accomplishment on this kind of?

This kind of person is often not satisfactory in life or career, and usually does not get much attention from others, so he needs such a way to show his ability.

Maybe you will say, no, sometimes we go to dinner, some very successful and rich bosses will also say pornographic jokes, is their life considered a failure?

Of course, making a lot of money is not a failure, but if he makes a lot of money, he has to toss the girls around him in this way, which shows that in addition to making money, there is nothing to envy in his life.

Every time I meet this kind of person, I actually pity them - you can't be a good person, what's the use of making so much money?

I want to be with you.

If you want to sleep, you will open the yellow cavity.

The second reason why men say yellow jokes is temptation.

This can be divided into two situations

The first situation is to want to upgrade the relationship with you.

As I said before, the interaction between men and women should be upgraded step by step, and if it is an ordinary friend, it must go to the level of intimate friends and ambiguity.

But the question is, how can you get from ordinary friends.

Generally, people who have no bottom line, unless they have a good relationship with people, and it is very offensive to open a yellow tone in the case of a general relationship, so there is room to be a person, the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, and the society is not so simple.

Generally, people who open yellow tongues are either very familiar with the yellow tongue jokes, or they are people who have no bottom line, it is uncivilized behavior to open yellow tongues when you meet people, and you will be thought by others that you have no bottom line, so you still have to chat well when you meet people.

Look at who you are with, if it is a particularly intimate friend who opens a yellow tongue, there is nothing wrong with it, if you open it with anyone, it means that this person is not very good, at least a little rude, disrespectful, because you open with anyone, you don't know whether the other party is disgusted or not, so it's okay for friends to open, but you can't catch who to open with whom, then it's impolite.

Maybe this kind of person divides people. Be more open to people you know. I don't say that to people I don't know. But if I talk to anyone, then I think he is a shameless person. Everything has to have a degree.

It's not serious, and the quality in some aspects is relatively low