How do I know if my boyfriend really wants to marry me?

In the world of feelings, loving someone should mean wanting to have a future. The more people love you, the more they will want to marry you and live together for the rest of their lives. Any love that is not aimed at marriage is actually a hooligan, if a person is with you and has never thought of marrying you, then you should recognize it as soon as possible.

So how do we know if my boyfriend really wants to marry me?

1.See if he has you in his life plan.

When a man really loves you and wants to marry you, he must have you in his future plans, such as when to meet his parents, when to have children, how to have several children in the future, how to share the housework, and decide when to buy your first house and first car with you. Even if he has a personal plan, he will try his best to take into account the choices of both parties, rather than insisting on it and just thinking about it. Having said that, I would like to remind the girls not only to listen to the men's promises for the future, but also to see if these plans are actually being prepared.

2.In terms of money, you don't feel care.

In fact, two people live together for food, drink, clothing, water, and electricity. These things cost money. From these small details, it is completely possible to see whether a man is defensive towards you or not.

There was a husband and wife, the woman once said that the man loved her very much, but there was one thing, he wanted to divide all the water and electricity bills equally. The woman was surprised. Since the two of them are going to get married in the future, is it the same whether you call me or you call me me now?

This is our common deposit. So the woman suggested that we put the money together and not count so clearly whether we were buying clothes and eating, so that both of us would feel better and not quarrel so much. The man only verbally promised to be a good person, but he did not hesitate to act.

Every time he was paid, he always used the excuse that he didn't have much money, but he didn't put the money together. Later they really broke up. If a man doesn't want to marry you, then he certainly doesn't want to pay his sunk costs.

3.Be tolerant and accommodate those little tempers of yours.

This is the most important point, and one of the few examples I have given. In fact, if he treats you as his future wife, he won't find fault with you. When only one man thinks the woman is okay?

She won't marry her until things get better. If there is any suspicion or resentment, you will not get married. So if your boyfriend keeps telling you that it's bad here and there, you never think that she just wants to make you better, he really just doesn't like you.

But a man is usually a person who is not too shy to say goodbye, so when you can't stand to take the initiative to leave him, he will consume you. In such a situation, what should I do if I get married? Remember my words, men are sensual creatures and will only marry you if they love you very much.

First, ask him if he loves you or not. second, whether he is willing to hand over the salary card to you; Third, did he show you to meet your parents? Fourth, whether he would like to go home with you to meet your parents; Fifth, whether he is willing to bring you into his circle of friends, if he is yes to these, you can marry with confidence.

If you want to know if your boyfriend really marries you, it depends on whether your boyfriend has introduced you to his family and friends, whether he has integrated you into his life, whether he is willing to spend money for you, does not want to treat you badly, and whether he usually thinks of you for the first time, takes you with him in everything, whether he will tell you his mobile phone password, bank card password, or even give you his salary card, these details can see whether your boyfriend really wants to marry you.

See if he talks to you about getting married, or asks you what you want when you get married, and what kind of attitude he has when you talk to him about getting married. Did he take you to meet his parents and friends.

You have to observe from the little things of your boyfriend, whether he will introduce you to his relatives and friends, whether you are in his future plans, and whether he will think of you in everything he does.

You can ask your boyfriend directly, or you can prepare for marriage in advance, and you can find an opportunity to test your boyfriend.

It depends on whether he is willing to spend money on you, if you talk to a friend of the opposite sex, if he will be jealous, and if you tell him, he will remember. As long as he is genuine about you, you can feel it.

It depends on whether he is willing to introduce his family to you, if not, it means that he has no plans to get married for the time being.

If your boyfriend is very good to you and spoils you, then it means that he really wants to marry you.

Is it spoiled you, everything is centered on you, he will not be angry no matter how you do it (except for insulting personality and hurting self-esteem), you must make a fuss before marriage, quarrel to see if you can accept it when he is most angry, see if this rubber band will break, break just and get the answer you want, no break means that he has a conscience and a bottom line, you can rest assured to marry him.

Question: Hello, what should I do if my family does not agree to marry my boyfriend due to ethnic issues?

I'm from Iran, I'm studying in China, my boyfriend is Han Chinese, my parents don't agree with me being with him, I guess the language, beliefs, and customs are different, so what else should I do?

There are also many transnational marriages, and it mainly depends on whether the two of you really love each other.

You are welcome to stay and develop in China.

Question: After all, my parents are very important to me, and I don't want to make them sad, and I don't want to start my marriage without their blessing. But I also love my object, he is an honest man, he is very good to me, I don't want him to be sad, and I don't want my parents to be sad. Now caught between them, torn between them, really overwhelmed.

The answer may be that the parents do not know much about China, so they invite their parents to visit China and let their boyfriends accompany them to build a relationship. China is developing fast and is the safest country in the world, and you will be very happy to live here with people who love you.

You can tell him directly that he wants to get married, and go to register tomorrow to get the marriage certificate, and see what your boyfriend says. If you agree to get the license, it means that you really want to marry you, if you find various reasons to shirk, then there is a problem, maybe he is not willing to marry you, and now he just wants you to accompany him, or you are just his spare tire, he is not sincere, you can seriously consider whether to continue with him. If you want me to say, you can break up directly when you meet such a person, there is no need to waste your feelings on such a person, you will meet someone who is sincere to you in the future.

Judging from the details of daily life, see if he remembers some of your daily ramblings and whether he follows your opinions first in the decision of some things. There is no long mention of your family and ask about your family's health.

The man who wants to marry you will think of you everywhere, will be considerate of you, and will not force you to do something you are not willing to do. During the relationship, this guy will give you a lot of security, will not make you sad, will not make you doubt, such a boy generally wants to live with you for the rest of his life and wants to marry you.

It's really hard to say, because some boys will behave very well when they get along, you can occasionally find fault with him to see if he will change, and send a little tantrum to him to see if he can tolerate it

If he wants to marry you, he is really rushing to get married, and the words of the object are for the future, such as considering the long-term situation, the economic problems in the reality of the two people, the problems of work and life, and the general direction of settling down in the future.

You just tell your boyfriend directly that the child of so-and-so family is very cute, and he wants to have such a cute child in the future. If your boyfriend responds to you, it means that your boyfriend wants to marry you, and if your boyfriend does not respond to you, it means that he doesn't want to marry you yet.

If a man really wants to marry you, he will first tell his relatives and friends generously. And tell the people around you about your advantages, so that the people around you can accept you and like you. Then ask for your opinion, take you to meet his friends, take you to meet his family, and will take care of you, so that you have more opportunities to show yourself and let his family and friends recognize you.

A man who can't do it, he is with you, and he must not aim for a lifetime.

Whether your boyfriend wants to marry you depends on you, whether his future plans involve you, and if all the plans for his life, such as children and the elderly, involve you, he just wants to marry you.

When you are in love, your boyfriend's attitude towards you determines everything, and the person who wants to marry you will care about your feelings very much, work hard to make money, and may not be romantic, but will care about your emotions and work hard to change yourself, so that you feel that he is a person worthy of being entrusted for life.

I feel that you can think about it from a different angle, don't think about whether he wants to marry you, whether you want to marry you, but you can think about whether you want to marry him, do you feel that he is good to you, so good that you want to marry him, in love, it is recommended that girls not be so active, and let men take more initiative is conducive to the relationship between you.

You've been in a relationship for more than three years, and your boyfriend has never mentioned marriage to you, which means that your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you at all.

Because after three years of getting along, you have a certain understanding of each other's personal situation and family background, and you have reached the age where you can get married.

When you are in a relationship, when you think that you and your boyfriend are more suitable, your boyfriend will take the initiative to invite you to their house and want to introduce you to his parents, so that you can see that your boyfriend really wants to marry you.

Do you think that in this state, the boy likes to make you public and introduce you to his friends in the relationship.

Is it possible to bravely take you to meet his parents, and then take the initiative to meet your parents?

Is it in your words to make some plans for your future life or days?

See if he has the kind of idea that wants to protect you, if he wants to play casually with you, then the two of you only have to eat, drink and have fun all day long, and once you encounter some conflicts, you will not solve them head-on. If the guy really wants to settle the conflict with you, then he may really want to marry you.

If you want love to have a result in the end, then you must let the other party have a commitment to you, and you should have your own idea for the future life, so only in this way will the two of them have goals.

If you have entered the society, and now your boyfriend in love will take the initiative to mention to you that he will go home for the New Year or his relatives, or his family knows you and meets you, and often chats with him when they talk about it, and you are in the future plan, which proves that he wants to marry you.

If the boyfriend regards himself as a marriage partner, he will definitely take himself to meet his parents, and if the boyfriend regards himself as a marriage partner, he will definitely give everything for himself to consider his feelings and thoughts, will respect himself, and will not easily hurt himself.

When you are in a relationship, if your boyfriend keeps asking to see your parents or takes the initiative to introduce you to his family, it means that he really wants to marry you.

If you want to know if your boyfriend really wants to marry a girlfriend, you can judge it by your boyfriend's daily performance. As the saying goes:When you are in love, does your boyfriend respond to everything, and everything has been settled.

If the boyfriend really wants to marry his girlfriend, he will put the marriage in place. First of all, the boyfriend will set his girlfriend in his future plans and work hard to give his girlfriend a better life; Secondly, the boyfriend will do his best to improve his economic income and provide good living conditions for his girlfriend; Finally, the boyfriend will have plans to propose to his girlfriend.

1.Is it included in future plans?

If the boyfriend really wants to marry his girlfriend, he will include her in his future plans. Because the development direction of a relationship is very important, if the boyfriend includes his girlfriend in his future, it means that the girlfriend is very important in the boyfriend's heart, indicating that the boyfriend wants to have a future with his girlfriend in addition to falling in love. Therefore, if you want to see if your boyfriend wants to marry a girlfriend, you have to see if he has included his girlfriend in his future plans.

2.Are you trying to create the conditions?

For boys, if they really want to marry their girlfriends, they will work very hard for a certain period of time, just to create good conditions for their girlfriends. It is precisely because his boyfriend wants to marry his girlfriend that he will work hard to make money, on the one hand, to prepare for his future marriage; On the other hand, I want my girlfriend to have a high quality of life after marriage. Therefore, boys will try to create conditions.

3.Are you planning to propose?

If the boyfriend really wants to marry his girlfriend, after a period of love, the boyfriend will have the intention of proposing. After all, when a boy wants to marry a girl, he will propose to the girl first. On the occasion of the proposal, the boyfriend will carefully select the exquisite ring for his girlfriend and set up the proposal venue in advance, just to prepare an unexpected surprise for his girlfriend.

At a certain time, your boyfriend will invite friends and relatives to witness the process of proposing to her and share the joy of getting married.