Is it necessary for a woman to cohabit before marriage, and is it necessary for a woman to live toge

Many people talk about their partners, and they will have a question, that is, should they live with their partners before marriage? In response to this problem, I think there are pros and cons to living together before marriage.

Let's talk about the disadvantages first, I think there are three bad effects of living together before marriage:

1. During the period of cohabitation, unplanned pregnancy may occur, and the harm of unplanned pregnancy to girls is self-evident, because she originally did not plan to have children during this time period, it is possible that her current career is just in its infancy, and it is possible that her current work is very stressful, and she has no ability and no plan to have a baby.

2. If you break up in the future, your future partner may care about your "cohabitation history", which will make you passive when choosing a mate, and you will bear some psychological pressure. At the moment of free love, many people still have a narrow psychology to look at the fact that girls have lived with other boys, and I myself am very opposed. Why is it that a man can cohabit with a girl before marriage, and a girl cannot cohabit with another boy before marriage?

Falling in love itself is something you want to do.

3. Getting along frequently will wear down the intimacy of love, which is not conducive to the construction of the emotional foundation, and getting along intensively will produce a lot of contradictions, if two people don't know how to deal with it, it will accelerate the breakdown of the relationship.

But there are also pros to cohabitation, and overall, I think the pros outweigh the cons.

The necessity of cohabitation lies in the fact that during a relationship, two people often look at each other with a filter, deliberately ignoring each other's shortcomings, and only seeing the shining side of their partner. You can't see the real person.

And living together, you can't hide each other's shortcomings, you can see his life pattern, and know if he is like in ordinary life; When there is a conflict, you will be able to see how he handles the problem and can make an objective judgment.

You can see both his good and bad, and they can run in with each other, although they may break up, it is better than two people who can't get along and divorce after marriage.

I think the real meaning of cohabitation is to test each other's ability to get through the run-in period, too many feelings can't survive the run-in period, and after one or two years of marriage, there will be contradictions in the relationship, and it can't go on.

You don't have to live together, there are many ways to understand each other, and if you are separated and live together, it will make people feel embarrassed in the future.

I think it's necessary, but there are a few things that have already been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the way the two parties squeeze toothpaste is different, one squeezes from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things like sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often being called out by friends to drink and coming back unconscious and incapable of doing anything other than vomiting, are you okay with all of this?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.

Finally, don't let the parents of both sides know that the matter of cohabitation, no matter what, is still more unfriendly to girls, not to mention that it perishes early in the morning, girls are always the disadvantaged group, China's thousands of years of traditions and habits, not overnight, nor can it be changed in time to the 21st century, and the preference for sons over daughters cannot be changed, let alone others.

It is very unnecessary for girls to live together before marriage, and more than 90% of the results of premarital cohabitation are breakups. There is a lack of mystery, and the feeling of being tired of marriage. Girls living together before marriage are inevitably sexual, unmarried pregnancy, unlimited contraceptive abortion, and psychological, physiological, and physical harm.

Girls should have self-respect and self-love and refuse to live together before marriage.

You can live together for a month, and then you won't live together.

Because if you live together for too long, love will die!

Marriage is the grave of love! Living together is almost the same as getting married!

The first three months of love are the honeymoon period, and then the love slowly fades and finally dies!

If you are planning to marry him, you can live together for a short time (within a month) to get to know all his advantages and disadvantages and decide on a trade-off!

Although the phenomenon of girls living together before marriage is very common, it is still necessary to be cautious.

Has he ever asked for this, if he does, refuse him first, depending on his attitude, if his attitude is not good because he has not lived together, then there is no need to deal with it.

Is it necessary for girls to live together before marriage? In today's society, premarital cohabitation is permissible and possible. Do a good job of protection testing. Living together before marriage is a better way for the other person to understand themselves. It will deepen the relationship between each other.

This is all voluntary, deep love, otherwise it will be like this.