Why do some people not live together before they get married?

Because of the urging of his parents, he married the object with whom he did not have a deep relationship, and such a marriage lacked enough understanding, and there would be many potential hidden dangers. Weiwei and Xiao Guo are college classmates and fellow villagers, after graduation, most of the classmates chose to go back to their hometowns, and they both chose to stay and work hard, in a strange city, two familiar people soon came together. Xiao Guo was born in the countryside to conservative parents, and in his hometown, many of his peers were already married when he was in college.

Once his parents took the opportunity to say that they were going to send some special products to Xiao Guo, but after arriving, they had to see Weiwei. Weiwei met her parents very passively, and after the parents of both sides got in touch, they took the initiative to discuss the marriage, and Weiwei felt that she was not ready. The days of working hard outside are very hard, compared to working day and night, narrow rental housing, going back to the hometown to get married is indeed a good choice, both parents bought a wedding house for them, plus dowry and bride price, slightly feel very happy.

But the two did not live together before marriage, and many differences were slowly revealed after marriage, such as Xiao Guo always snoring loudly when he sleeps, and always smokes in the room. If there is a chance to do it all over again, Weiwei will definitely choose to understand more during the love period, and the most feared thing in marriage is disappointment and regret.

Why do some people not live together before they get married? Under normal circumstances, it should not be successful before marriage, and if there is no protection before marriage, cohabitation may cause some harm to both men and women, especially girls.

Because the marriage partner is different from the lover.

Lovers can say at any time that the marriage partner has to be married.

Before getting married, I personally think that there is no need to live together, although many couples think that before getting married, two people living together can understand each other very well, so that each other can really feel the days of two people living together, and test whether two people are really suitable for marriage together in the future and live together for a lifetime, but I personally think that if it is just for these, it is still a little hasty to choose to live together before marriage.

Even before two people get married, they should have a full understanding of each other, even if two people do not live together, then two people can understand each other's personality and whether they are really suitable for each other in the process of getting along in daily life, but if two people really choose to live together, then I personally think that there will be more problems, because when two people choose to live together before marriage, first of all, such an impact is not very good, and the parents of both parties are likely to be unacceptable. After all, our parents tend to have more traditional ideas.

On the other hand, if two people choose to live together before getting married, but in the end the two people do not come together, then the relationship is relatively harmful to the two people, especially for the woman, perhaps the impact and damage of this relationship to themselves is more far-reaching, and even will cause them to no longer believe in feelings, no longer have the idea of wanting to get married, so for young people now, I personally think that there is no need to live together before marriage, just use more timeIt is enough for two people to understand each other and communicate with each other.

There is no need to live together before marriage, there are no conditions, housing can be together.

Premarital cohabitation, as the name suggests, is a sexual relationship in which a man and a woman live together openly or secretly in the name of husband and wife before marriage. The goal of the two parties is to get married, so it means "trial marriage".

Premarital cohabitation is a relatively new model of marriage that gives couples the opportunity to get to know each other better before they get married, and thus better determine whether they are suitable for marriage. It can also give couples the opportunity to resolve some family issues before they get married, thus reducing the problems that may arise after marriage.

However, before deciding to live together before marriage, there are two things that must be taken seriously:

First, this kind of relationship is not protected by law in our country, and the current law does not interfere with the cohabitation of both parties without a spouse, and the cohabitation of one or both spouses is an illegal act, and if the circumstances are serious, it will constitute the crime of bigamy and be punished by law.

The second is trial marriage, can marriage really be tested? The fact is that cohabitation and marriage are two completely different psychological states, and marriage cannot be tried. Either get married logically, or break up miserably. The latter is not unlikely.

So, strictly speaking, there is no need to live together before marriage.

Considering that it is the characteristics of women who are most hurt by the tragic breakup after premarital cohabitation, it is recommended that women should focus on figuring out five questions before premarital cohabitation

Clause. 1. Whether the boyfriend is reliable in conduct. Those who are unreliable or suspicious cannot live together before marriage;

Clause. 2. Is the love cycle with your boyfriend long enough, if it has not reached at least one spring, summer, autumn and winter, it means that you don't know each other carefully enough, and you can't or need to postpone premarital cohabitation;

Clause. 3. At least one of the two people with the boyfriend has the financial strength to maintain the living expenses of cohabitation before marriage, and those who do not have sufficient financial strength cannot live together before marriage;

Clause. Fourth, it is not appropriate for two people to live together before marriage if their "three views" are inconsistent;

Clause. 5. It is not appropriate for both men and women to live together before marriage if they are patient with their respective shortcomings and are not tolerant.

The reason why they cannot live alone before marriage is that living alone violates traditional Chinese values, may affect their family image, and is regarded by society as bad behavior and moral standards between unmarried couples.

If a man and a woman start living alone, it can lead to a range of family and social problems, such as irresponsible sexual behaviour or risks to the future of the family.