Why do you stop liking the person you once loved?

Young and ignorant, I felt that the distance between me and the other party was too big, and then I delayed for many years and returned to the original point. Now he's stuck to me like a dad.

Suspicious of each other, no support, insecure, the man's mother is a treasure man, mentally unsupported, not to mention money, tired of a word,

After the breakup, I also loved her for many years, until I saw an article about her, which said something like this, and I still remember it deeply, [You said you regret it, I think it should be hateful, I still pretend not to know after so many years of love, I still don't feel pain when you are so painful, people who don't love you won't look back at you, we're not wrong, it's over].

I'm in love with my friend.

We got together in 2006, and about half a year later he had a woman outside and beat me. A few months later, he had another woman, who was his friend's wife, and he stole my money to give to that woman, and now it is in the national karaoke.

Junior high school alumni, high school slowly familiar, the morning of the college entrance examination results came out, we finally met, very happy, in the afternoon the results were announced (because he didn't do well) he suddenly cooled down, he was in a bad mood, he didn't pay much attention to me, has been with his family and other classmates to chat QQ, and then when he contacted him, he wanted me to fill in the school where he was, I wanted to go to the provincial capital city of the double first-class university, he asked me to take the car to see him in the future, and suddenly this time disappointed, I suddenly realized that sometimes disappointment and dislike are all momentary things.

If you are together, you will gather, if you are not together, you will be scattered, you will not complain, you will not keep it, you will never keep it!

Busy all day, all kinds of busy. Although he is really busy, he used to be able to spare ten minutes to look at you, but then the time became less and less. Since he's so busy, I should be sensible enough to keep him busy. So, you're busy with yours, I'm over mine.

Because in the process of getting along, I found that the other party did not love me as much as I loved him.

On every special day, there is no special person.

Insomnia after a breakup. In the middle of the night, I beat him in a daze. He said I'm going to sleep goodbye. I said I couldn't sleep. He said you were so selfish. Come to your senses. I feel chilling. ‍‍

One day he and another friend went to Danyang to get glasses, which was normal because Danyang glasses were cheap. And then that night he texted me to give up or something, saying that he didn't love me. I was so stupid and naïve that he wouldn't pay attention to you or something.

Later, after a long time, I learned that he went to Danyang to see her that day, and she went to school in Danyang. ‍‍

Because I found that he had a lot of shortcomings in getting along, I didn't love him anymore.

I was busy in the kitchen, accidentally broke a bowl, screamed, and he didn't react at all when he was playing with his mobile phone on the sofa in the living room.

He broke my heart! No matter how deep my love is, I can't stand his ruthlessness, and I decided to let it go! It's so tired and painful! No amount of effort can get him true to me.

is neither a deliberately created contradiction in idol dramas, nor is it a cruel reality. But suddenly one day I found that two people who were originally very close to each other gradually lost their common language! In fact, I envy those couples who are separated because of misunderstandings, or mistakes in relationships, or because of some practical reasons, at least if one of the two is willing to turn back, maybe there will be a possibility of starting over!

The most terrifying thing is that because of the passage of time, the feelings of two people disappear like a tacit understanding! ‍‍

It's because there are a lot of things that happened to each of us that we didn't have time to participate in, and it just so happened that at that moment, someone else took that place, they worked overtime together, got off work together, had dinner together, prepared company events together, and even celebrated their birthdays together! And where was I then? I may be working overtime, having dinner with my own colleagues, or celebrating my birthday in the company of my colleagues and friends! ‍‍

I lived with him and one night I went to the toilet and saw three cockroaches and was terrified and ran back to the bedroom to ask him to help me get rid of them. He was asleep, and when he woke up, he said to me impatiently: You better go home!

I lay down without saying anything and cried all night. From that moment on, I gave up on him. ‍‍

At 10 o'clock in the evening, I just got out of class, called him **, he seemed to be sleeping, picked up ** and found that it was me, and then hung up directly, and turned off. ‍‍

In order to see him for the New Year, I bought a station ticket and stood in a crowded carriage for 26 hours to see him. During the Chinese New Year, I accidentally found a text message he sent to EX, one of which was: My biggest wish for the New Year is to wish you happiness.

The heart that had been tired for a long time that day was suddenly relieved, and I decided to give up for the first time. ‍‍

And with his first Valentine's Day, when I was still a high school student and didn't have much money, he told me that he didn't have money to buy me gifts, and I was very understanding at the time and didn't care about gifts. Then told me that he bought a big box of Dove chocolates for him because she loves chocolate. ‍‍

The sudden loss of love from someone you once loved is a challenge and test for everyone, and it can bring a lot of sadness, loss, and pain. Here are some suggestions to help you better face and deal with this situation:

1.Accept reality: First of all, you need to accept the reality that the other person no longer loves you, don't have illusions or expectations, and don't try to force the other person back.

You need to understand that love is a matter for both parties, and if the other person no longer loves you, then you can't force the other person to change the situation.

2.Respect the other person's decision: Although it is difficult to accept, you need to respect the other person's decision, do not blame or blame the other person, and do not try to pursue the person who no longer loves you. You need to learn to let go and find your own happiness.

3.Stay calm: There may be a lot of emotions and impulses when facing this situation, but you need to stay calm and not make hasty decisions or actions. You can ease your mood and stress by communicating with friends, family, or professionals.

4.Self-growth: In this process, you can devote time and energy to your own growth and development, improve your abilities and qualities, and enhance your self-confidence and self-esteem.

You can try new things, make friends, travel, etc., to broaden your horizons and experiences.

5.Find new love: Although it may take some time, you can try to find new love and find someone who truly loves you and cherishes you. You need to believe that no matter what happens, life will go on and you will find your own happiness again.

In short, the person you once loved suddenly stopped loving, which may bring a lot of pain and challenges, but you need to accept the reality, respect the other person's decision, stay calm, grow yourself, and find new love. Believe in yourself and everything will be fine.

The answer to this question varies from person to person as everyone's emotional response is different. However, generally speaking, if a woman used to love a man very much, but the man is usually not very impatient with her, the woman may feel some loss and sadness.

However, men's reactions can also vary depending on their personality and experiences. Some men may be surprised or confused, while others may feel some loss or dissatisfaction. However, regardless of the man's reaction, this emotional response is normal because everyone has their own emotional needs and reactions.

The most important thing is that both men and women should be respectful and understanding in their relationships, and do their best to meet each other's needs and expectations. If you find yourself feeling dissatisfied or lost in a relationship, the best way to do this is to be honest with the other person, identify the problem, and find a solution.

If I really love this person from the bottom of my heart, then I don't care about her past. Because I love this person, I love her present, and the past has passed, and I can't turn the past things out again.

Of course, if I don't particularly like this person from the bottom of my heart, I will definitely care about her past, even if he has a little bad past, it may motivate me'Decide if you're still with her now.

This kind of thinking is the concrete expression of loving someone and not loving someone.

This is mainly because loving someone is often desperate, some people say that when they are in love, people's IQ is zero, and this is the truth. Although others are opposed, but because you love her, you can't listen to any opinions of others, even if this person has an unbearable past, you don't care, even if it's your own parents, some people would rather turn against their parents, but also insist on their love.

On the contrary, if you don't love someone, no matter how much others think two people are suitable for being together, he won't choose. And will turn over some things from the person's past as a reason why you don't want to be with him.