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No marriage will be happy without the blessing of your parents. Our parents have eaten more salt than we have traveled. Therefore, in this life, what they experience will become an experience and summary in their lives. So they look far away. It will also be more thorough than you can see.
One. The two of them get along with each other and are the right match. Two people like it very much, but it should also be suitable for both people, and it is more suitable when the conditions are the same.
The man's parents disagreed. That is, there is no match for you. Her parents don't approve of you being together, how to get along.
Two. It's not that he's not right for you, it's that you're not right for him. That's why it's opposed by parents.
Since this is the case. Then we should think about it, or we have been together for too short. Or we still have a lot of shortcomings and faults, and we are not suitable for them at all.
Three. Don't think you're avoiding his parents' opposition, as long as we love each other, then you're very wrong. We always have to face his parents.
Whether it's getting married, or in the future, we have some things in life that we can't do with our parents. So his parents say a few bad things about you. And he listened.
He'll think you're really out of place. Therefore, a marriage that is not blessed by parents is unhappy. Not happy either.
It's very awkward and awkward to be together. Same as I thought, so be it!
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A marriage that is opposed by the man's family will not be happy.
The man's parents do not agree, it means that they have a lot of opinions about you, and it is not easy to deal with the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and there is a big conflict between you, so the relationship after marriage will not be handled well.
Even if two people are in love, they can't live in a vacuum after marriage, and in the marriage relationship, the families of both parties occupy a very important position.
In married life, love alone is not enough, it is the integration and acceptance of two families that can make each other's lives happier.
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Marriages where the boyfriend's parents don't approve are mostly not happy. The reason why it is said that marriage will not be happy is because the boyfriend's parents have rich life experience, see countless people, and can see through the girl's character cultivation. If you feel that there is a big difference, you will resolutely oppose it.
If a girl can't change herself willingly, she still goes her own way, and continues to indulge her behavior, and her marriage will definitely not be happy.
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Whether the marriage is happy or not is mainly in the husband and wife, and the parents can only say that there will be regrets if they do not agree.
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Whether the marriage that the boyfriend's parents do not support is not whether the parents support it, but whether the two people in the marriage can live a happy life.
The attitude of the parents will change according to the marital status of the younger generation. That is, if the children are happily married, what they once did not support will become supportive.
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It's hard to be happy. A marriage with the support of both families can have harmonious feelings between family members and a happy and long-lasting marriage.
An important indicator of a happy marriage is the harmony between family members.
If the rest of the family does not support the marriage, there can be no harmony between the family members and no happiness in the marriage. Only with the approval and support of family members can the relationship between family members be harmonious and the marriage be happy.
Therefore, family support is very important for a happy and long-lasting marriage.
The disapproval of the man's family is equivalent to antagonizing all his relatives, who do you talk to when you encounter problems in the marriage in the future. His parents' disapproval, equivalent to all his relatives are also not recognized by you, then after the New Year's holiday, although the matter of visiting relatives is omitted, but you have to think rationally, no matter how good love is, there will eventually be a day when it fades and returns to dullness, when your feelings become family affection, his family is always in front of him to say that you are not, can you guarantee that he is still firmly on your side? After all, human nature cannot stand the test.
If the man himself does not have his own opinions, and if his parents do not agree to this marriage, it is meaningless for the woman to insist. After all, in the future, it is necessary for two people to maintain family relationships together.
Yes, if we find a man who has no opinions, then the future will be very sad.
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That's basically difficult, your parents don't agree, even if you and your boyfriend insist on getting married, your married life will be affected, after all, your parents can't get around it. It's best to be blessed.
If you are not satisfied, give up if you don't agree. Really, persistence doesn't necessarily impress them.
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Hello, if your boyfriend's parents don't approve of your marriage, I suggest you ask your boyfriend to convince them with good reasons that they should agree.
Hope mine can help you.
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This situation is solved by two people.
The main focus should be on your boyfriend, and she should try to convince her parents.
If the boyfriend's attitude is tough enough, his parents still have to think about it seriously.
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The man's parents don't agree to your marriage, you better let it go as soon as possible, and it will end up separately in the end.
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A marriage that is not approved by the parents will not be happy for a long time, for the following reasons?
1.There is no way for two people to get married without the consent of their parents. The ultimate destination of love should be marriage, and marriage needs to be blessed by two families.
If the boy's parents don't agree to the relationship, there is no way for both parties to have a full wedding. This is a big regret for both of them, and both parties may also break up because of this regret in the future.
2.Mom and Dad will be more experienced in the matter of feelings, because they have come all the way, so they also have a more accurate understanding of their children's feelings. In fact, the matter of falling in love is also a mystery of the authorities, and the bystanders are clear, maybe the other party's parents have seen the problems between the two people in advance, so they are unwilling to recognize this relationship.
They will look at the relationship between the two children from a more objective point of view, and they can see if the girl is suitable for their son.
Therefore, if the relationship between two people is not supported by both parents, it is necessary to figure out where the problem is, and have a good talk with the parents. Mom and Dad must have their reasons for not agreeing to this relationship, and at this time you can ask your boyfriend why his Mom and Dad are reluctant to agree. If two people really have a problem together, they can try to solve the problem, and if they really can't solve it, they should stop the loss in time.
When you fall in love, you do need an impulsive spirit, but if you want to live for a long time, you should listen to the opinions of the people around you and see how the people around you view the relationship. In the case of their parents' disapproval, it is necessary to convince the parents first, only then can they give some help to the relationship. If you can't even convince your parents, the relationship between two people can only become more fragile, and both parties will be tested greater, and the relationship may really not last long.
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Will a marriage that is not supported by the man's family be happy and long-lasting? I think it's hard to say. There must be a reason why the parents do not agree to love, if it is because of the woman's style or if the consent of the man's parents cannot be obtained elsewhere.
The woman can also try to change her life. Many man's parents have more requirements when choosing a daughter-in-law, and even many parents will have a lot of harsh requirements. In addition to the above, many parents are very concerned about the woman's conditions and the woman's educational background.
If the reason for the opposition of both men and women can be corrected, we can communicate with each other, but as for the love that the man's parents do not agree with, should we insist? This question is still mainly to solve the attitude of the man himself.
But every parent is empathetic, as long as after marriage, the woman tries to communicate with the other party's parents, and honors the man's parents as her own parents, and will one day be influenced. Although many people come over to persuade their parents not to stick to the marriage they don't support, if the relationship between two people is relatively strong. And if you also have a certain emotional foundation, you must stick to it.
Otherwise, it will become a regret between two people for life.
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A marriage that parents do not agree to can last for a long time, and the important thing is how the two people run it. But I personally suggest that your parents disagree, just the current situation, you must learn to actively work hard to deal with the problem, and try to get their approval.
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Important questions, I hope you must judge on a case-by-case basis!
1. Parents found each other's big shortcomings, such as not knowing how to respect elders, short temper, etc. In this case, the parents are really for your good, considering that the other party is not suitable for marriage, then let it go as soon as possible.
2. Parents just hate the poor and love the rich, and don't look at other aspects, or some snobbery just because the other party's work does not meet a high standard (you must know that some parents do not have a correct understanding of whether their children are excellent...).You can analyze this situation for yourself and think about it a little more.
3. Your parents know you very well and care about you and understand you very well. Then after you fall in love, you find that the other person has brought you a bad influence, and see that you have obviously become unhappy. In this case, it is recommended to listen to the parents, this person may not be bad, but it is estimated that it is really not suitable for you.
4. Parents are very arbitrary, they choose the right person for you early, they don't consider your feelings, they feel that they should listen to their arrangements for everything from childhood to adulthood, and they don't contact your lover who doesn't know you, so they directly order you to break up. In this case, you should also have the ability to think for yourself.
In short, most parents really love you, will look at things from your point of view, will respect your ideas, and want you to have a happy marriage.
There is also a small group of parents who are "Yiyantang" and think that they are always right.
A very small number of selfish parents only think about their own interests.
Therefore, as an adult, parents' ideas should be appropriately referenced, and they still have their own ideas and persistence!
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If the marriage that the parents do not agree to, if it is better, capable, and capable, there will still be happiness.
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Generally, it will not stop, after all, if the parents do not agree, they will lose the love and help of their parents.
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As long as the other party is willing to compromise, they will be happy.
Many young people are staring at the pressure of their parents to get married.
Some parents are more stubborn and are always reluctant to admit this marriage.
But some parents can't help their children, so Liang Jianxian will acknowledge this fact.
Once it is acquiesced by both parents, it will be very happy.
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