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Relationships that are supported by parents are not necessarily happy, and relationships that are opposed by parents are not necessarily unhappy. Life is in your own hands.
The parents' objections may not be justified, but they must not be bad-hearted. They've been through life, they've had more experience than you, they're not your enemy, don't always think about tearing your face.
Parents don't support it, and it can only be said that most of them are unhappy. First of all, our parents have more experience than us, they are the most aware of the meaning of marriage in a long life, and they have experienced it year after year, they know more about the desirability of reality than us, and they have a more long-term vision of people, and we can't feel it when we are experiencing love, we only have the sweetness of love in our eyes, and we are fearless about marriage, so every word that parents say as outsiders is of great reference significance.
Of course, there are also parents who want to climb high branches, blindly only care about money, and have never considered whether all aspects of the family are matched, and you don't care if you are in a weak position in marriage, so the key is your own considerations, but the point that parents disagree with must be handled carefully and carefully, and seriously consider it, which must be not wrong.
No matter who you choose, you can't guarantee happiness, the most important thing is what you want, and then you can afford the consequences, emotional things are actually quite complicated, liking is important, but family factors are actually very important.
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A relationship that is not approved by parents is not necessarily unhappy, but there are relatively few such feelings that are relatively happy. Because parents are still very important in a relationship.
You can give an example, for example, two people have reached the time to talk about marriage, so if the parents do not agree, then do you insist on whether the two people are married? So that's the first obstacle, which is that if parents hinder their children at this time, it's not going to be good.
The second is actually a relationship, if there is no parental blessing, it will not be very good, for example, at this time you are equivalent to choosing the other party between your parents and lovers. After you get married, basically you will have less contact with your parents, and your relationship with your parents will become worse and worse. So that's a problem as well.
And as you go, your child's relationship with their parents will get worse and worse.
And another thing is that after all, parents have lived at such an age, and they have their own control over some things. Therefore, parents know what kind of people are better and what kind of people are bad, and if parents blindly disagree with a relationship, most of them still think that this environment is not suitable for you.
Therefore, if the parents do not agree with the relationship, it is best to think about it yourself, it is possible that the relationship is really inappropriate. So if you really don't feel good about this relationship, then you can quit as soon as possible.
But if the relationship is really good, and you are ready for it, and you will not regret it no matter what happens in the future, then you can continue to work hard to fight for it, or bring your significant other to your parents and let them know that your choice is right.
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The probability of happiness is not large, but it can still be happy for a long time, and whether the man's family supports this marriage has a very important impact on whether the marriage can be happy and long-lasting.
This is the case for several reasons:
1: A marriage supported by the family can have harmonious feelings between family members and a happy and long-lasting marriage. An important indicator of a happy marriage is the harmony between family members.
If the rest of the family does not support the marriage, there can be no harmony between the family members and no happiness in the marriage. Only with the approval and support of family members can the relationship between family members be harmonious and the marriage be happy. Therefore, family support is very important for a happy and long-lasting marriage.
2. For the woman, she must marry into the man's family, so the support of the man's family is very important. Another way to get married is to get married. This means that after marriage, the woman will marry into the man's family and live with the man's family.
In this way, it is very important to ...... whether the man's family members support the marriageOnly under the premise of the support of the man's family, can the woman be recognized and supported after marrying into the man's family, and the family members can get along harmoniously with each other, and the married life can be happy and long-lasting.
3. Marriage is actually a matter of two families. Therefore, the support of the family is very important. On the surface, marriage is a matter of two people.
But in essence, marriage is really a matter of two families. Both parents, and even other members of both families, can have a very big impact on married life. Therefore, only with the support of the family can the marriage be truly happy and long-lasting.
4. The relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law is very important for the stability of marriage. The attitude of both parents is very important for both couples after marriage. Father-in-law, mother-in-law, parents-in-law, if these four old people support this marriage and are satisfied with their son-in-law and daughter-in-law, then, after marriage, the relationship between family members can be harmonious, and the marriage can be happy and long-lasting.
Because after marriage, the woman has to marry into the man's family and live with her in-laws, so the approval and support of her in-laws will have a very important impact on the happiness of the marriage. Because of this, the support of the man's family is very important for the happiness of the marriage to last.
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Marriages that parents do not agree to will not be happy, and most of the marriages that parents oppose are because two people are not in the right household, and parents are generally very cautious in order to let their children marry into a good family. When the parents strongly oppose the marriage, it is likely that the two people are not suitable, and if the two parties do not get the blessing of the parents at this time, then even if the two people are forced to be together, they will receive a lot of blessings. Therefore, if the parents are opposed, they generally need to face more difficulties and feel unhappy.
However, there are also some couples who, after getting married, prove themselves through their own efforts and are also very filial to their parents, so it is also very correct to let their parents accept such a choice in the end.
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I don't think most of you will be happy, because most of you need to get married with the consent of your parents or many people need to live with your parents, so it is difficult to be happy if your parents don't agree.
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This matter still depends on yourself, if your parents don't agree to love, if the man will love you and take care of you, then you will still be happy, if the man marries you, he will not love you as much as he did when he was in love, at this time he knows the truth that his parents disagree, so both sides must understand each other, so it will be happier.
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It's not entirely certain that you're unhappy, but it's hard to be happy for the most part. Because if both of you insist, if both parents don't agree, no one will bless you. You will encounter a lot of trouble, at least the conflict with your parents will make you feel very uncomfortable.
After a long time like this, the two of you may also find each other's shortcomings at that time, as your parents said, you will be angry, and it is very likely that you will even have conflicts and divorce.
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Parents with traditional thinking will think that their daughter should find a son-in-law who is the right person, including his family, finance, and education. They will think that a man who does not have a stable job and a large financial income will not be able to give you happiness, and at the same time, they do not want to see you suffer with others, at this time, you should try to make your parents understand your boyfriend, so that they can see that you are gradually developing in a better direction, from your boyfriend's words and deeds or from your future planning. Parents in any way they love you, of course, they will trust you more, you have to try to communicate with them patiently, and use some love deeds between you to influence them.
2. Always respect your parents.
Parents are the ones who raised you from childhood to adulthood, no matter what they say that makes you think they are very unreasonable, you should love them and not make them angry. In addition to this, you have to make your boyfriend treat them as if they were his own parents, and despite the strict demands of the parents, the boyfriend should not lose respect for them because of this. Whether it's your parents or your boyfriend, they love you, so they will slowly understand each other and give in to each other.
3. Support your boyfriend, believe in him, and work hard with him.
A man, for a woman who is willing to work hard with him, support him, and believe in him, he will be very grateful to you and love you even more if he succeeds in the future. While having your trust, he will also be more motivated and motivated.
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The most feared thing in the relationship between two people is that the parents do not agree or even say that they have an opposing opinion, then it is a pain for the two people, even if the parents do not agree, as long as the hearts of the two people have been together, then they can be happy, and they will also move the parents, after all, whose parents want their children to be happy.
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I think that the love that the parents do not agree with is very likely to be unhappy, because the parents are still very important to their marriage, if they can agree or can help, the marriage will be very happy and stupid, but if they are regurgitated, then maybe the marriage will not be too happy.
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Not necessarily. But the father and mother are still more accurate, and most marriages that parents do not agree with will not be happy, but if you love each other, then you should insist on the idea of self-defeat!
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Parents must have more life experience than children, and they are more knowledgeable when they see Yinwanling. They are very insightful about marriage, and they will not harm their own children. A marriage that is agreed to by the parents is not necessarily a good karma. But the marriage that the parents oppose must not be a good marriage.
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The love that parents don't agree to is only endless quarrels in the end.
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Parents are thinking about the future of their ability, don't go against their parents, and understand their parents' good intentions.
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Can the love that parents disagree with be happy for a long time? I think parents do not agree with the love should not be long, all marriages can be long-lasting with the blessing of parents, parents do not agree with the meaning of parents, after all, parents have walked the road is much longer than the road you walked, they have rich experience, so they can give you a staff advice, if they do not bless you that they see the place that is not suitable for you, do not have a willful line can stay for a while, understand more and then make up your mind.
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Your parents are parents and not gods, how can he know whether your love is right or wrong, he just opposes.
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When it comes to love, each of us is very much looking forward to it, because we all know that love is happy and very sweet.
Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people want to be with the person they like. In order to be able to be with the person they like, many people are very positive and independent, they will take the initiative to care about each other and love each other, because they hope that through their own initiative and initiative, they will eventually be able to let themselves be with the person they like, and they will also be able to have happiness and sweetness.
But we see that although two people like each other and love is very sweet, sometimes their love is not approved by their parents, so some people want to know if you will choose to break up with each other because of the partner's family reasons?
Maybe for a small number of people, they do like this, because they want their love to be happy and very sweet, so they care about each other. Of course, they also hope that their care and love for each other can be approved by their families. If their love is not approved by their families, how can it be that their love will have a lot of resistance?
It will even make them choose to break up in the end.
But we still have a lot of people who love each other. Although their initial love may not be favored by their parents, and even many parents do not agree that they are together, they will still insist on being with each other, and they will try to convince their parents, and they will be more serious and strive to be together. In fact, for parents, what they are most concerned about is whether their children can get each other's care and love.
So we see that although there are some young people, they will eventually choose to break up with each other because their parents do not agree.
But we see that for more young people, they know that it is not so easy to meet someone they like, so they cherish each other very much, love each other, and they also try to convince their parents. Because for parents, they actually hope that their children can really find the person who cares and loves her.
Therefore, as long as the two young people can better care for and love each other, they will eventually let their parents agree to be together, so that in the end their love, you will be recognized by your parents, and they and the person they like can have their own happiness and sweet love.
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