How many times have neighbor children come into my house?

If a neighbor's child enters your home multiple times without invitation or consent, here are some things you can do:

1.Communicate with neighbors: First, you can communicate with neighbors and let them know that their children have entered your home multiple times, and if it is uninvited, you can tactfully remind them that it is inappropriate for your child to enter someone's house without being invited.

2.Set boundaries: You can install fences or security nets on doorways or windows to prevent children from entering. Alternatively, you can put a sign on your door or wall or install a doorbell to remind neighbors not to enter your home without being invited.

3.Work with your neighbors to solve problems: You can work with your neighbors about how to solve the problem of children entering your home at will, for example, by working together to stipulate when children can enter your home, or by making other relevant rules together.

Whatever measures are taken, they should be respectful of neighbors and their children, and inappropriate means such as violence or threats should be avoided. At the same time, it is also important to maintain a good relationship with your neighbors to promote harmony in the community.

Generally speaking, the relationship between us and our neighbors should still be polite and friendly, or that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, so there should be more between neighbors, and everyone can help each other. Especially the children in the family, if they are about the same size as the neighbor's children, they should still be able to become very good friends, and it is normal for the children of both parties to hang out at home.

But I think that children can enter other people's houses casually, I think that the first thing should be to let someone else have in the house, or to ask for the consent of others, or to play in the area of defense prescribed by others, such as the general living room or the child's room, and in a more private place like an adult's room, try to go less or ask the owner's permission to enter.

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You can choose to let your child hang out with him when he comes to play at your house, so that he will gradually develop a habit of not coming to your house to play.

I think you can close the door of your house, and when the child comes, no one will walk away on their own.

At this time, you can let the child refuse, do not play with this child, so that the neighbor's child will not come.

Introduction: The neighbor's children always love to come to your house to play, which means that the environment of your home is better, and the interaction between children and children is also a good thing, there is no need to interfere with the children too much, do not come to your house. Of course, if you really don't want him to come, you can just tell your child that there is something in your house and let him go home first.

When I was young, I especially liked to go to other people's homes to play, or asked children to go to our house to play, at that time parents actually didn't like it very much, but the child he must like to be lively, and slowly brought more and more children to the house at that time Parents will feel particularly uncomfortable after seeing it, because my mother likes to be clean, especially like quiet, and then I like to check the household registration, so always ask some other questions to discuss, and after hearing it, it is particularly uncomfortable, And then let those friends go home first, and then we choose to go out to play, of course, to know that interpersonal skills are an essential ability in the process of children's growth, if the child always comes to your house to play with your children is actually a good choice, there is no need to intervene too much, if you don't want him to be in your house, you can let them come to the door to play, but if it is within your world.

At the same time, you can also let the child go and say to the little friend, you can say that next time we play, we can play outside, otherwise it will disturb my mother's rest, or disturb my father's rest, most children, he doesn't actually want to be in your house, but there is a child in your family, that child is more, and then he likes it, so parents must find the right way to guide them and not interfere too much. Interpersonal skills are an indispensable ability in the process of children's growth, if the child is not interpersonal children's language skills are poor, the child will certainly not be able to integrate well into the collective life, and there is no way to take good care of himself when he grows up.

When your child comes to the house, you can tell him that his child has not completed his homework, so he is not allowed to go out to play.

You can choose to refuse outright, or you can choose to let your child go out with the neighbor's child, or you can leave the choice to the child and let the child choose.

At this time, you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also tell the other party what is in your heart, and you should express your true words.

Some parents like to take their children to the east and west without anything, and take their children to the door aimlessly, which is not good for the children. First of all, too many visits are not good for children's health: children at this age are curious and active, and their ability to resist diseases is low, and they like to scratch and touch everywhere, and they are easy to be infected with various respiratory tract, digestive tract diseases and various infectious diseases.

It can be said that the more opportunities there are, the more likely it is that the child will suffer from various diseases.

It can make children develop unstable personality and bad habits of going around: once this kind of child is asked to stay at home, it is not easy to concentrate on sitting down and doing one thing, and the child cannot develop the habit of focusing and doing things seriously. Many parents are unaware of this, and when their children like to go to other people's homes all day long and do not want to stay at home, they blame their children for not thinking that it is due to their own responsibilities.

It is easy to get involved in some bad things: children at this age are very imitative, and they seem to understand many things, such as taking children out without choice, talking about them with friends in front of children, or out of some of their own needs such as asking for help, giving gifts, pulling family routines, playing cards, etc., so that children are exposed to some bad things from an early age, which is extremely detrimental to the growth of children.

Parents should enable their children to grow up in a healthy, civilized and meaningful environment, strive to eliminate some factors that are unfavorable to their children's growth, and create a good living environment so that children can grow up healthily.

Also, because the child is small and ignorant, it may cause unnecessary trouble to the neighbor's house if it is placed at the neighbor's house. Especially when the neighbor has a child of about the same age, it is more likely to have conflicts, and it is even worse to cause harm and fighting. It would be even worse if it further caused contradictions between the two families.

However, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and when the relationship between friends and neighbors is good, it is okay to occasionally ask neighbors to take care of them.

Sometimes the relationship between children is good, and you will be welcomed when you go to the home of your classmates, but if the parents don't like it, it may affect the relationship between the children. As for relatives' homes, try not to stay overnight without disturbing, one considers whether it is convenient for relatives to stay at home, and the other considers whether there will be quarrels with relatives' children, and the fight will affect the relationship.

If you let your child do this often, it will make your child develop such a habit, which may lead to very serious safety problems later on, and may even have traffickers take the child away.

This is because if the child goes to the neighbor's house or the same school alone, it is likely to be dangerous, and then the child will be disliked or disliked by others.

Because sometimes they don't know the true qualities of some of their neighbors and classmates, children are relatively young, and if you go to these places alone, you may get some harm.

In this case, I feel that I should communicate with my neighbors, communicate with them, bring some fruit, and often go to my neighbors to sit down and explain the situationLife is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, I guess no one wants to.

However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home? I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest?

Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it. There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people.

Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, regret the hail of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always bring emotions on your face, a sunny and a cloudy, a bad one, a bad one, a bad one, a bad one, in front of colleagues to say that it is wrong, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, leaders do not trust you, such days can be called good days.

This is normal, and your child can not play with her child, this is everyone's freedom. Is there no other child except this neighbor, and if there is no neighbor's child, there is no human being, there is always a solution. Do you know that the way of others is the way of others?

I think the main reason for this neighbor is that his mother, yes, the child is small, he doesn't understand anything, and he doesn't know moderation like adults, but the family's guidance and education of the child is absolutely effective. I think that usually this neighbor is very accustomed to his children, so that he repeatedly meets the child's requirements without considering other factors, and at this time, the fault is no longer the child, but the child's mother, and the ignorant is not the child, but also the child's mother. It's really hard to say that you are in a state of distress and you live together, but it is not necessary to keep yourself in a state of distress.

She is not sensible, and she keeps doing it, and she doesn't realize that she is doing it wrong, so you have to say it to express your dissatisfaction. For example, when your child is often on his back, you can say, "It's time for your little brother to go to bed, so you can come back tomorrow to play." If he reminds him, it's time for you to go home and eat, and then come back to play.

You said this on your own initiative, and I think she would have thought about it, she had already caused you inconvenience by doing so. If you don't say it's not okay, you can only continue to endure it yourself.

Nowadays, everyone's residential houses live in cities. There will be upstairs and downstairs, sometimes the neighbor's house is very noisy, it will also affect the people downstairs, for the vast majority of us living in the city, in daily life will be more or less affected by some noise, and the vast majority of these noises are generated by the upstairs neighbor's house, then, when the noise of the neighbor's house affects their own life, I often take the following ways and methods to communicate with the upstairs neighbor, or take the following methods to deal with it.

First of all, if the noise of the upstairs neighbor's house is not very large, and this noise only occurs occasionally, then in this case, I will still be more understanding and tolerant, after all, in daily life, no one can avoid creating all kinds of noise, since the sales difference choose to live in the city in this aspect of life should have a more tolerant attitude, the other party may just be unintentional, there is no need to worry about such a trivial matter, which affects the relationship between neighbors. It's just that the gains outweigh the losses.

But if the upstairs neighbor's noise is particularly loud, then in this case, I will take the initiative to find the upstairs neighbor, in a gentle tone to the upstairs neighbor put forward their own suggestions, hoping that the upstairs neighbor can control the noise as much as possible, if in this polite communication, the other party is still deaf, then in this case, I will call the property of my own community, by the property side to communicate and mediate, if the property can not be solved or there is no property in the community, then in this case, I will ask the community neighborhood committee to come forward, if it is difficult for the community neighborhood committee to really solve this problem, then for me, I can only make two choices, if I can mediate, that is naturally the best way to solve the problem. If you really can't bear the burning bucket chain, you can only completely solve the problem by choosing to change the environment again. In general, young couples with children will be a little noisy, after all, it is understandable that children have a little noise when they are not sleeping at night, after all, there will be children in every family with children, so it is understandable.