What should I do if I regret it after a few months of breakup? I regret finding out that she is true

You're not the first man to think like this, many men find that the woman is their true love after breaking up, that is to say, their ex is their true love. Because many people will feel regret after the breakup, this breakup should be your initiative to break up, or the other party told you to break up, but you easily agreed to others, so there will be such a situation, in fact, I think for the current situation, if you find that she is true love, you can go back to her to continue the pursuit, he is like this, although the success rate is not very high, not as high as at the beginning, But I think if you continue to pursue it, you may be able to move her.

If you feel sorry, then quickly go to him to understand, hurry up and communicate with him, if you sit at home and wait, it will not be recovered. Be sure to show your sincerity in words or deeds.

Don't regret it, she's already found a new one, you're just a spare tire, refuse to be a licking dog.

Then try to redeem it! It's not easy to meet a person you really love in life, try to redeem it if you can, and if you can't get it back, you won't regret it, and you can do your best.

You regret it, does the other party still have feelings for you, and the other party is not sad, then you can show sincerity to chase her.

Admit your mistakes and start over

If this is the case, in fact, there are many cases, and only after the breakup do you really recognize a certain person, so it is not regretful to say this.

I can only say that I didn't cherish it at the beginning, and I regretted it! It doesn't help! What are you doing......Do you have to lose it before you think about how good the girl was at the beginning? All I can say is resignation!

After the breakup, after a period of time, I feel very regretful, at this time, I should ask myself if I really love her, and if the answer is yes, then be brave once and pursue her again. It is normal for couples to break up and merge, sometimes the two of them propose to break up because of a little thing, and they may feel comfortable at the time, but they begin to regret it afterwards, and then they begin to annoy themselves.

If you say that you have encountered such a thing, you will not immediately go to your ex-girlfriend to get back together after you regret it, but reflect on it and think about it carefully, don't say that you regret it today and go to her, and you will quarrel and break up tomorrow. If that's the case, then you're emotional**.

First, reflect on yourself as the reason for your breakup

There must be a reason for the two to break up, some because the two don't love each other, some because of the opposition of their parents at home, and some are just willful, and they don't control their emotions when they quarrel, and the breakup is the angry words spoken by the two.

If you regret it after a period of breakup, it is recommended that you think about the reason why you broke up with her first and see if you did something wrong. If it's your fault that caused the breakup, then you should think about how to correct your mistakes and have a good talk with her after you have figured everything out.

Second, consider whether you regret it because you still love her

After the two separate, there are many people who will be uncomfortable at the beginning, after all, the two will get used to it after being together for a long time, and if they break up all at once, they really need to adapt for a long time. So if you regret it after you break up, then you should think about why you regret it, whether it's because you're not used to it or because you love her very much, if it's the former, you should go out for a trip, relax, and start your life again when you come back.

3. Finally, if you find that you still love her after the breakup, then be brave enough to pursue love again

If you regret breaking up with her because you find out that you love her very much, then be brave once, pursue her again with your own actions, and don't let yourself regret it again.

You should improve your charm, take the initiative to chat with each other, and also take the initiative to contact each other, invite each other to hang out, and find a suitable opportunity to propose reunion with each other.

I think the best thing to do is to forget about this relationship quickly, because good horses don't eat back grass, and only by letting go of the past can we find a better one.

This situation shows that you are still in love with your ex and should hurry up to find your ex to get back together.

Take the initiative to mention that you regret breaking up and regret that you have to apologize to the other party first, change yourself, and chase each other again, many people regret why they were so impulsive at that time after breaking up with each other, after breaking up, they feel that they still like each other very much, and want to continue to fall in love with each other, but because of face and embarrassed to find each other to get back together, it forms a very tangled thing, so today let's take a look at the regret after breaking up with your girlfriend for two months, what should I do?

1.Reflect on yourself.

First, reflect on yourself, see what you did wrong, and think about the root cause of the breakup. Is it their own fault, or the other person's fault, or is there something wrong with both of them. It is necessary to introspect and introspect, it is the best thing that has gone wrong, and after reflecting on the root cause, we must also consider how to effectively avoid such mistakes.

If you can't find a suitable solution, it will be difficult to convince the other party to get back together, and even if you reluctantly get back together, you may break up again because of the same problems. When there is a breakup, it must mean that there is a problem, otherwise there will be no breakup, most of the breakups are not for no reason, there must be a reason, there must be a breakup, there must be a problem between the two.

2.Think about whether your regret is because you are unwilling or still love.

Many people regret after a breakup not because they still love them, but because they are unwilling. I wasted a few years of my youth, spent countless time and energy, and maybe had material things, but in the end I didn't get anything, how can I be willing? I am unwilling to let myself regret it, I don't want to let go, and I have to find a balance from this relationship.

And then in order to redeem and lower yourself, pay more, but finally return to the road of breaking up, or one day suddenly don't understand why you are embarrassed by yourself, is it really worth it? It's really not worth it to regret it for the sake of unwillingness, and then to redeem it. Because most of the time, doing so will only make you more unwilling later.

3.Closer to ambiguity.

It's not a wise idea to take the time to come up with compounding. So try to get closer to each other first, increase interaction, and wait for the relationship between the two to naturally warm up again. However, it should be noted that before you are officially reunited, no matter how ambiguous you are, you must maintain the boundaries of friends, once you have no sense of boundaries and act as lovers as friends, it will violate each other and be irresponsible for yourself, and the impact of confusing the concept of blurred boundaries on the establishment of intimate relationships is fatal, and the most common consequence is to be each other's spare tires.

Relationships can become ambiguous after increasing interactions, but remember to stop there.

In the face of this situation, you should reflect on your behavior, you should also make yourself better, you should also communicate with your girlfriend, take the initiative to give your girlfriend some steps, and you should also take the initiative to apologize.

You can try to win your girlfriend's forgiveness, or apologize to your girlfriend, and you can also try to save the relationship.

At this time, you must take the initiative to redeem the other party, let the other party understand your thoughts, and don't be impulsive when you encounter things.

You can see if your girlfriend has a boyfriend, and if not, you can try to redeem it.

If you really really like it, and the other party also has this meaning. And you also feel that the other person is worthy of you to turn back, then you might as well be bold and love again. If in this relationship, you are not always happy, you have not gotten better, and you are always in internal friction, then you should stop the loss in time?

Many girls are very sad after breaking up with their boyfriends, and they can't help but want to cry every time they think of their boyfriends. Some girls can't help but feel sad when they encounter rainy weather or touch past memories. Today, I'm going to tell you about how sad I am after a breakup, so what should I do?

1. Learn to control time.

What I want to tell you is that I am very sad after a breakup, because I may not be used to living alone for a while. The best way to tell you is to learn to control the time, to arrange your own time very full, so that you will no longer have free time to think about anything irrelevant things, girls must not be overly decadent after the breakup, more importantly, to work hard for their careers, so that girls can become better and better, if a boy leaves you, it proves that you are not suitable.

Second, time is the best medicine.

What I want to tell you is that people who are generally obsessed with forgetting are defective personalities, and although they say that they have lost it, they still want to have it. Those people secretly kept their memories in their minds. Although you are still sad and miss him after the breakup, it is recommended that what you should do at this time is to continue to enrich yourself, so that you can make yourself better and better.

Some people are very worried about themselves, what to do if they never forget, telling you that it is actually impossible, time is the best medicine, everything can not withstand the fading of time, so you have to learn to forget slowly.

3. Don't go to him.

What I want to tell you is that you must not go to him, because since the two of you are separated, it must be inappropriate in some way. It is not recommended that girls take the initiative too much, if the girl goes to the boy after the breakup, it will make the boy feel that the girl can't do without him, so even if you get back together, the boy will not cherish it too much. People who like you are reluctant to leave you, and if your boyfriend likes you very much, he will come to you even after the breakup.

I mustered up the courage and took the initiative to send a message to ask for reunion, but unfortunately the message was always lost, and finally receiving a reply also revealed his impatience, which made me very anxious. I didn't believe that the 2-year relationship was gone, so I frantically searched all corners to find proof of his love, with all kinds of patchwork clues and words, looking for his theories, and making him admit that he still loved me.

However, he became even more impatient, and the two of us had a big quarrel and broke up, and he even blocked me and cut off contact with me. I was really sad, in a very bad state, and thought about self-harm, but I didn't expect him to care about me at all, without any pity and response. Mr. Xu Chuan, why is it that the more I try to get back together, the more indifferent his response becomes, what can I do to save this relationship?

Xu Chuan: This lady, I can understand your sadness and pain very well, you took the initiative to get back together, lowered your profile and made all kinds of efforts, but he rejected you; You search for evidence of his love for you and make him confess his love for you, while he becomes more irritable and disgusted. In the action of this reunited relationship, I think you may have overlooked two important factors.

First, love is subtle warmth, don't have too strong a sense of purpose.

Indeed proposed to reunite, although it is simple and direct, and the sincere attitude can be learned, but yesterday it was still a state of breakup, and today it is going to be reunited, and there is no excessive emotion in the middle, which will inevitably make the other party have the association of returning to the past. Although there was sweetness in the past, conflicts and quarrels were the reasons for the breakup. He doesn't see the possibility of getting along well because of your changes, and getting back together means returning to the pain of contradictions and quarrels, and naturally discouraged.

Rashly proposing a reunion without excessive emotion will also make people feel that all your current efforts are an illusion created for the sake of reunion, which will make people hesitate and dare not agree immediately, and the success rate of reunion will be very low.

My suggestion is that love is a warm current, to "dive into the night with the wind, moisturizing things silently", after you get in touch again, you must master the rhythm of active contact, in the bits and pieces of getting along, let him feel your changes, such as your growth, your sincerity, your efforts, so that your distance is gradually narrowed, and it is possible to embark on the road of reunion.

Breaking up means that fate is over, and there is no fate! You can try to do something you like to do and forget about it: such as listening to **, going to travel ......Wait; Make your life fuller.

Zhang Ailing once said that to forget someone, you only need two things, time and new love.

When the time is long enough, when the new love you meet is good enough, this new love can completely squeeze out the person who originally lived in your heart, transfer your former affection, dilute his former back, and let go and get out of the past.

So cheer up! If you find a better one, you can let go of old loves.

You can try to respond, see the other person's attitude, and open up if it's worth it, and don't leave yourself with regrets.

It's been more than three months since you broke up, and what to do with him is your own problem, since you broke up, you choose to break up completely, forget about it completely, and think about him when you get married, thinking that he will affect your life.

Just try to forget slowly, life is still your own.

Do people still love you?

If people don't love it, don't force yourself. It's just your thoughts, it's worthless.

If someone still loves you, then contact him.