What to do if you have poor grades in school and feel guilty

First of all, what is the reason for the poor grades? Is it because you don't work hard, or is it for some other reason?

If you find out the reason, then think about countermeasures, if it is because you don't work hard, then try to work hard, don't change all at once, take your time, start with the subjects you are more interested in, and then only take time to review your favorite subjects every night, and wait until these subjects get good grades, then start to prepare for which subjects you are not interested in, if you have difficulty learning, you can sign up for a tutorial class, or often ask the teacher questions, and slowly wait for your grades to go up little by little, and have a sense of achievement, then you won't feel that studying is a headache and a loss of face, and then the guilt will be solved.

You didn't elaborate on the reason for the poor grades, so I can't prescribe the right medicine, but find the root cause of the poor grades, and then **change, then the guilt will be solved Come on!!

Don't feel guilty just yet, there is a saying at Harvard University that you think it's late when it's actually the earliest. Having guilt indicates that you want to work hard. You can cultivate your interest in playing middle school, such as listening to an English song if you have nothing to do, looking at the ancient literati's embarrassment and death, the oolong incident of history, turning physics experiments into pranks ==, if you have nothing to do, calculate how long you can live...

Then you must study hard, have a good relationship with the teacher, be afraid of problems, and get acquainted with the teacher There are many benefits... Don't be stressful about the exam. The time to play is to do as mentioned above, and the time to study is to study well.

Serious in class, ten times the effort after class. Be sure to pay attention in class. Don't give up because you're not interested, this is China, and no one cares if you dare to be interested.

It doesn't matter if you go to school or not, you have to have an ideal and strive for it, and you don't necessarily have to go to school to succeed. In fact, the grades are too poor, and it is better to go out to work early to learn skills. But if you decide, you have to stick to it.

If you feel guilty, you have to work your own, I believe that there are no stupid people in the world, only lazy worms! I'm sure you're not stupid, and you're not a lazy bug!

Today's children are loved by their parents, but when they encounter some problems, their parents are at a loss. I think about "children don't study well and have self-esteem."

What to do if it's low?"

First, find out why your child is not learning well. Get to know your child. What are the reasons for poor studying? It's because I'm bored and have no interest in learning; Or because of the learning method.

But studying hard is ineffective; or unable to learn effectively because of the influence of the surrounding environment; Or because of poor self-control, I want to learn and play; Or because parents are too strict, resulting in a rebellious mentality. or for other reasons. Find the reason for further problem solving.

The second is to communicate more with childrenChat with your child often, take your child out for a walk, go out to play. Adults nowadays like to hold their phones there, regardless of their children's feelings. Play with your kids instead of always playing with their phones.

When encountering problems, let the children express their opinions and let them dare to show themselves boldly.

Many parents like to compare their children to other people's children. If their child has bad grades, they will say how good the other child's child is. This can cause a lot of harm to the child.

If your child has a bad test score, don't just say why it's so bad or why he doesn't do well, but say, "Mom and Dad believe you can do better on the test and you have to work hard next time!" Adults still like others.

A compliment from a child, let alone a child. When a child makes a mistake, don't just criticize it harshly, but give the child the right guidance instead of criticizing the child's wrong behavior.

Fourth, cultivate children's interests and hobbies. In this era of focusing on academic performance, if children only blindly learn textbook knowledge, there is no good effect, and it will only make children more and more troubled and more closed. Cultivate children's interests and hobbies, so that children can learn to focus, broaden their horizons, and improve their abilities.

To sum up, find out the reasons why your child is not learning well. Communicate more with your child, give them more encouragement and praise, and cultivate your child's hobbies. I hope every child can grow up happily and happily!

Parents should actively enlighten their children, so that their inferiority complex can be reduced, so that children can face the next life positively.

Be sure to adjust your mentality, continue to encourage your child, at this time you don't care too much about his grades, let the child slowly explore their potential.

Parents must encourage their children more, choose to believe in their children, encourage them when they make some achievements, and help them find the right way to learn.