Infinite decadence, decadence only makes oneself feel nihilistic

Hey! Dude, why are you so pessimistic! Have you heard of 360 lines, and the line is out of the champion!!

Don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged! In life, there are always unsatisfactory places, don't always think "you can't do it" You have to firmly believe that you can, others have experience, they are also from inexperienced to experienced, everyone's life is to rely on their own hard work, how can there be a thing to sit back and enjoy! Don't pay attention to other people's words, do what you want to do, what you should do.

Do your best, plan for your future, work hard, know no! You have to believe in yourself, who said that you must have experience to be good, you can do well without experience, as long as you work hard. It doesn't matter if you don't have a house or a car, one day you will exchange them for them through your own efforts, or the same sentence, "It's not a big deal, as long as you work hard!"

If you don't have a good mouth, that's because you're not optimistic enough, you have to deal with people more and contact them more, which will improve your communication skills, and at the same time, your mouth will slip away!

Dude, you have to believe in yourself, know no, don't care what others say, whether you can do it yourself is the most important thing. I'm supporting you, come on! I'm optimistic about you! (*Hee-hee.......)Hope this helps!!

- I have tens of millions of people at home, and I'm still on the construction site I don't have to worry about food and clothing, but I always feel that I can make money and use it smoothly My parents also encourage me to do it myself, of course, it doesn't matter, you can't get into the construction site much, and the current society is about relationships, and people who don't have the ability must have relationships.

I found a pattern, that is, a lot of thoughts and worries are idle. Maybe I'm really a person who can't be idle all the time. The time when I had nothing to do at home during the winter vacation except eating, sleeping, or playing with my phone only made me feel more nihilistic and empty, and I didn't do anything all day, without a sense of accomplishment, although I felt relaxed, but I didn't feel much happy.

On the contrary, if you do something you like, you will be very happy, that kind of happiness is not the kind of happiness of eating something delicious or buying new clothes or watching an interesting drama, that kind of happiness can only be short-term happiness, and after a period of time, you will still feel very empty in your heart.

But if it's doing something you love, that happiness is a kind of satisfaction that comes from the bottom of your heart. For example, I like to cook, and the happiness of satisfaction after learning a new way to make a delicacy and successfully experimenting, such as the happiness of quiet inner peace when practicing calligraphy while listening to the light **, such as the happiness of accomplishment when I newly learned how to play and sing a ukulele score, and the excitement and happiness when I started writing seriously for the first time today when I have always wanted to write something but was plagued by procrastination. In today's mobile phone, we are often accustomed to seeking a source of happiness from the mobile phone when we are bored, but we often fall into a short-term happiness trap such as looking at the short**, we feel very happy at the time, but put down the mobile phone and fall into their own real world is more and more empty.

Because that kind of happiness is not your own happiness after all. Only by taking action and feeling your own value and existence can you feel the joy that comes from the heart.

It is worrying to see a person become decadent and lose faith in life. Here are some suggestions to help you deal with this situation:

Listen and understand: Give the person ample space to listen and understand his feelings and experiences. Don't belittle his feelings, but try to understand the dilemmas and challenges he faces from his perspective.

Encourage professional help: If the person's condition becomes serious or lasts for a long time, encourage him to seek professional help, such as a counselor or doctor. Professional help can provide more in-depth support and guidance.

Provide practical help: If possible, provide practical help, such as helping him find a suitable job opportunity, learn a new skill, provide financial support, or refer him to the right resources.

Create a positive environment: Create a positive environment where he feels supported and encouraged. Encourage him to engage in active activities, develop hobbies, and keep in touch with friends and family.

Motivation and Goal Setting: Help him regain his goals and motivation in life, set small but achievable goals, and motivate him to work towards them. Encourage him to keep working hard and remind him of the progress he has made.

Seek social support: Encourage him to interact with a supportive social circle, participate in community events, or join a supportive group. Social support can help him feel more like a sense of belonging and support.

Most importantly, respect the person's personal decisions and boundaries. If he is unwilling to accept help or change, do not force him. Do your best to be supportive, but at the same time, take care of your emotions and health.

Life is really very simple, facing our own rugged and wonderful life, sometimes, we may have to wander between giving and taking, precipitating in joy and sorrow. When you feel that the human feelings are cool and the world is cold, then, try to change the way of life, we can't change the environment, but we can change ourselves, we can't change the past, but we can grasp the present, we can't do everything well, but we can do everything we can't choose the appearance, but we can show a smile and properly regulate our emotions, and we can have a good mood every day.

The Buddha said: Life pays attention to quality, and the Dharma is clear: the enlightened person becomes heaven and earth.

Wise men are persistently asking: Why decorate life? Campbell said

We can't correct this world of suffering, but we can choose to live happily, and we can't stop a bird from flying overhead, but we can stop a bird from nesting overhead. Although there are countless unsatisfactory human existence, we still have to continue to live, to live the meaning of life, which requires cherishing life, treating people well, understanding life I don't know life, because life has countless ones, and the true meaning of life is only one, that is--as long as you stick to your life, I believe that there will be countless beauty that you have not found in front of you.

To religiously seek, after all, everyone has only one life. Life is like a staircase with no end in sight. In an essay, the famous Danish literary critic Brandtis made this analogy about the course of human life:

There is a tall tower that everyone must climb, and it is no more than a hundred ......This is everyone's fate. If he reaches the predestined level of Huidan, the ladder disappears from under his feet, as if it were the cover of the trap, and he disappears. It's just that he didn't know if it was level 20 or level 64, and what he did know was that one of the steps of the stairs would disappear from his feet.

Life is like a ladder, and the ladder is also life. Someone had the courage to climb, and he succeeded. Someone gave up halfway, and he failed.

The life of a successful person is full of brilliance. The loser's life is overshadowed. In fact, as long as we are willing to work hard to overcome the difficulties and obstacles in the climb, resolutely march, explore, smile forward, and laugh to the end, you are still successful.

k He was beaten ... MD, what a birdman, if you don't want to live, go die, it's annoying to watch.

Song: Decadence.

Close your eyes and don't look at anyone.

It was raining and weeping.

Let the wind blow and your hair fly.

Let the mood soak up the dust, too.

Love is hard to retreat, so tired.

You're tired, I'm decadent.

I used to think love was beautiful.

But tried it is bitter.

Love who hates whom. My heart is speechless.

Love is a beauty that cannot be fatalized.

Love is decadent and I'm a little decadent.

No matter who it is, I don't love anyone anymore.

It's decadent, I'm a little tired.

I am no longer beautiful, my heart is like water.

The night is decadent.

Fatigue that is powerless to fight.

Who will bring you comfort.

Lonely people can't shed tears.

They hide their sorrow in the night.

Squandering the taste of loneliness.

The world is always so absolute.

Don't think too much about right and wrong.

The more you love, the more tired you get.

The more I thought about it, the more heartbroken I felt.

Anyone can expect to be a little drunk.

The emptiness of the interlaced cups and shadows is even more haggard.

They lost their guard in the night.

If you can't resist it, you will regret it.

Once you were afraid of the darkness of the night.

Break free from loneliness, loss and tears.

Will it collapse.

First of all, I admire the landlord's style!

It's true, I think I'll be able to become a poetry writer in time!

Remember: You don't live for pain!

Don't add to your own worries for others or anything else!

Life is just a few decades, live every day happily, and want to open up everything!

No one knows if they will succeed after hard work!

But there is still a struggle, no one will succeed as soon as they come up!

The most important thing for you at the moment is to stand your ground. Work well and get acquainted with social experience!

Often go out on the streets, and look at it from society, news, television, newspapers, etc. Increase your knowledge! Learn about society**!

Then make your own break and understand what business you should do, what store to open, and how to do it!!

If someone despises you and looks down on you, you treat them as if they were barking!

Take your time and don't panic!

The road is tortuous, and the future may not be bright!

But people live for a better survival, so they must struggle!

It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen!

It depends on the luck of the landlord in this life!

Where there is money, there is everything, sports cars. Villa, prestige! will win the respect of others!!

I often wonder when I became so insecure.

Afraid of the night, there is a huge loneliness that fills the heart.

Actually, I know what I need is very simple, and maybe you too.

A confidant, or a lover. Don't want to ask for too much, a hug when you need it.

When you are at a loss, a smile.

But in this society, how many people are willing to enter a person's inner world?

is undoubtedly a few words of greeting, and then embarked on his own life trajectory.

I can only rely on myself, but I can't keep up my spirit.

But if you don't give yourself a fulcrum, how can you wait for the right person to rely on you?

I hope you can cheer up and not wear out your value.

Maybe it's for you, and it's for me.

I wish you happiness

History can never be changed.

Let him pass the past.

Avoiding difficulties is a negative attitude towards life, which can only make people constantly degenerate. Therefore, we need to face up to reality and look for our true ideals --- make our lives more meaningful!

Time is like a song, life is like a dream! In the long history, life seems to be very short, only a few decades in a hurry. Life is like climbing a mountain, climbing to the top will inevitably experience troughs, and only by facing it calmly can we take every step of life.

No one is perfect, and everyone is constantly enriching and improving themselves in continuous gains and losses. Being at the crossroads of life should not wander and complain, as well as self-blame, it is good to be able to self-reflect and find out your own shortcomings and shortcomings, but since you find out, you should work hard and pay for it, so as to make up for and improve your life! If you can recognize your shortcomings, then work for them!

Tolerant and confident in the face of setbacks, when you are tired, you must know how to rest in time, and then continue on the road, and learn to be calm, calm and rational when you are confused and helpless. In this way, your life will be "thorns and flowers on the same road, bumps and laughter on the same song." "Believe in yourself, the road is under your feet, it's up to you how you go!

Bless you!

No! You are not decadent, to be precise, you have grown, this question that makes you think deeply just proves that you have encountered normal little troubles in your growth.

In fact, sometimes, when we face loss, we must have a kind of "loss will have gain" bearing and courage, sometimes, it is the growth of us to encounter some problems that we think are very serious, at this time, we will think, we will also introspect and even blame ourselves! In fact, we can deal with these problems well, and we will get through them well!

Let's cut to the chase! Judging by your article, I think you're a teenager, and a very good teenager, and you think.

Now you think that you are decadent, more because you don't see the meaning of life, in fact, the meaning of life is also here! When you think about it, you often get nothing and feel distressed and distracted!

Therefore, I hope that from the time you read this passage, you can observe life from the small things around you and experience the meaning of life!

How good have you been? How much is the difference between what you used to be and what you are now? What is the difference between your age and your current age?

How many things have you lost? What's that? Are you only losing and not gaining?

Ever owned? What did you ever have? Fame, status, power, money, or just other people's praise and self-confidence and courage.

Is it a pity that you didn't grasp what you once had? Do you take it for granted that you must be absolutely like yourself? Do you think what you once owned is still as valuable now as it was once you?

Why do you only think of loneliness at night? Instead of taking advantage of the quiet night to think about what your problem is? Night, it is reminiscent of a lot, but it is precisely because it is night, it is easier to find your own way without **, isn't it?

Haven't you thought that maybe your former low-key was just pretending to be arrogant?

Are you trying to go back to the past, are you escaping the status quo? What have you gained and what have you lost? There are gains and losses in life, and the abilities of a genius are also exhausted. Do you think you won't be able to integrate better into society if you lose your former self?

If you are pathologically narcissistic about your past and ignore your present self, won't you look back at your present self? Even if he is not as 'great' as you once was, he certainly has something to offer.

You've trapped yourself in a small cage, and you think your former self understands loneliness? Will you ever be lost? No, your former self was outrageously smooth sailing, and you miss it so much.

And don't always think about how good you used to be, how good you used to be, you can't think about these things, you should knock on your head, take out your brain and ask it, why are you suddenly not enlightened?