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I believe that we should be filial and considerate to our elders at all times, because they are our elders, and we can only respect them better.
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There is room for redemption in all fanfare accusations; And those who left quietly never came back.
When two people are together, they are willing to quarrel and make trouble because they still have expectations for each other;
On the contrary, those who don't say anything, leave, and really won't come back.
Because at this time, the heart is already dead, so even saying "goodbye" seems redundant.
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Write about your experience of your elders? Be polite and polite to your elders in all respects. First, then respectful.
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The feeling of understanding the elders is to prepare what is good and what is not good, and what is not good, and what you put forward.
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It's just that I sometimes have a certain idea about my elders and maybe my elders, and I don't agree with the thoughts of young people.
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Grandma always bargained when buying vegetables, always because of a few cents for a long time, but later I learned that grandma was not a door, but to save money to give us living expenses, some things are not what we see, we have to take a long-term view.
Communication skills with relatives:
1. Walk around often.
The relationship between relatives and friends is a relatively natural and intimate interpersonal relationship. Relatives and friends must move around and communicate with each other frequently, so that they can deepen their feelings and close relationships.
2. Reject the psychology of sour grapes.
In communication and exchange, we should get rid of the kind of self-isolation and sour grape inferiority complex due to our poor economic situation.
Not only do they think that other relatives look down on them, and they don't want to associate with our poor relatives, but they also pretend to show their high spirits, thinking that they are poor and ambitious. Of course, there should also be no such thoughts as deliberately stammering and touting dignitaries in communication.
3. The basic principle of getting along.
Exchanges between relatives and friends should be based on the principles of enthusiasm, clear distinction between right and wrong, mutual trust, politeness and propriety, and doing what is within one's ability. Relatives and friends who are in trouble may extend a helping hand to you, and should be warmly received, especially those in high positions, but also be humble and enthusiastic, and do not think that they are superior and neglect guests. When relatives and friends explain their intentions and make requests, they should listen patiently and analyze whether they are legitimate or not, and whether they are reasonable or not.
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After studying the back and combining it with life examples, I have a new understanding of my own intelligence and the detours of my elders. I believe that one's own intelligence is a person's intelligence and a person's IQ. And the detour of the elders is a kind of wisdom in life.
What we need to learn is the wisdom of the elders in this way of life. We can't say that the detour of the elders is a foolish act. What we need to learn is the wisdom of the elders in this way of life.
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I hope that after I become an old man, try not to trouble young people, they go to work one day, get off work is also very tired, go in the morning, come back in the evening, it is not easy, especially in today's society, the pressure is high, it is really not easy, as an old man, you can help them, you can't help, you can manage yourself, as much as possible not to annoy people, to be a lovely old man.
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It's not as simple as you think. Those old men and old ladies you are talking about. It's the same as you think now. However, age changes people more than you think.
For example, you've been doing one thing in a certain way. And young people have to do it in a different way, what do you do? Insist, not insist. Persistence is the strange old man in the eyes of young people.
The old people used to be ...... younger
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Fu Lei once said in a letter to his son Fu Cong: "I write to you at length, not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I do regard you as an opponent who discusses art and discusses **; Second, I would like to arouse the feelings of some of your young people, so that I can get some fresh nourishment as a father, and at the same time, I can also indirectly spread it to other young people. Third, train you by correspondence—not only in writing, but especially in your thoughts; Fourth, I want to be a wake-up call for you everywhere and a 'faithful mirror', whether in terms of life, in the details of life, in terms of artistic accomplishment, or in terms of performance posture.
Some people say that Fu Lei is a model of fatherhood. In fact, this is only half true, and more importantly, he himself is a model of life. In the famous "Letter to Fu Lei's Family", we not only see a father who is painstaking and painstaking, but also a serious and pure soul who values the dignity of art and life as supreme.
This is a reading that is both relevant to Fu Lei and not only about him. In addition to Fu Lei as a father, you will see Fu Lei who is an individual who faces the "weight" of life alone, as well as others who also face the "weight" of life, regardless of age, identity .......
Answers to questions about his son's life in the godson.
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This is an eternal ...... of expectationBut there are very few people who cook. The young and the old have different knowledge structures and social experiences, which leads to different views on things, and which is better and which is bad is also an eternal problem. In old age, there are still young people who do not approve of it.
Therefore, I think that the problem of old age should be limited, and it is better to study dialectically with constraints, so that Chinese civilization can flourish forever.
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This is mainly for you to see, don't worry about everything, just take care of yourself.
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You have to keep up with the times, and you can be a cute old man.
When you are old, first, you must insist on learning, live to learn all the time, you can't do nothing, you have to arrange your own study plan every day, and your mind must not stop.
Second, you must have a skill, give full play to your ability, so that young people can look up to you, are willing to make friends with you, and do not speculate more than half a sentence, which requires you to like to learn when you are young, rather than when you are old, you can't learn to learn again.
Third, we must travel thousands of miles, travel around the world to open our eyes, and have no time to care about the affairs of young people, so that we can be a lovely old man.
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Remembering the past because the present is not as happy as it was then, turning the old yellow calendar is the spiritual home of life and abandoning loneliness, you don't turn it over when you are old, you can't even play a supporting role in life, what else can you do.
Remembering the past because the present is not as happy as then, turning the old yellow calendar is the spiritual home of life and abandoning loneliness, you don't turn it when you are old, you can't even play a supporting role in life, what else can you do to remember the past because it is not as happy as it was then, turning over the old yellow calendar is the spiritual home of life and abandoning loneliness, you don't turn it over when you're old, you can't even play a supporting role in life, what else can you do.
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Haha, you can say something like that, you're already a lovely old man!
Wishing you a long and healthy life!
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Sometimes the idea is very good, but it can't be realized, and you can't control your emotions, so you have to control your emotions to be like this.
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Yes, when a happy old urchin
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The placement of the portrait of the old man is originally a personal thought. The original houses are almost all facing the main entrance of the hall, with square tables hanging on the wall in front of the elderly, and family portraits on both sides. There is no such place in the suites now.
If you really don't have a place to put it, organize it and put it together with the photo album at home. Take it out and take a look when you want to see it! Just don't throw it away.
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The remains of the old man are generally kept by the boss, if you keep it, you must wrap it in a black cloth and put it in the cabinet, because you have to pay homage to the old man every year, which is the respect for the old man is also a memory.
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Put it away and store it properly, hang it in the main hall for worship during the New Year's Festival, and then store it after the festival. The remains of the elderly do not necessarily have to be hung every day.
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You can just keep it away or just burn it.
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Hello netizens, the reason for this problem is because our country is more traditional, so people's thoughts are more traditional, especially those of the grandparents' generation, so don't care too much, try to explain the current era to your family.
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The old man thinks that the white clothes are filial piety, and the old man thinks that you are impolite, which is a curse for him. Don't wear Energizer in front of the elderly, just like it, after all, it's a trend. You also look beautiful in wear.
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What the old man said is right, it's not that the old man is pedantic, it's that you are a little brainless and don't respect the old.
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Children are meant to be managed.
But. Discipline should be administered in the right way.
When I was young, I talked about everything about children.
As the child grows up.
Children have their own worldview, their own ideology.
As a father and mother. It is necessary to help children with some guiding suggestions, so that children can analyze them by themselves and find out good truths.
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Now the children are only children, and their parents, including grandparents, are very doting on them. I'm afraid that they will be hurt, so they are very strict, but the premise of the speech is to give the child's thoughts to the parents to live in, so that they have no room for imagination, so when they encounter a thing, they will be unwilling to let the adults manage, and there will be a kind of rebellious psychology, what you say to the adults will be good to him, good for him, he will also rise up to resist, this is in response to that sentence, **there is oppression** there is resistance, so the child should not be too much, you have too much, In the future, the child's development will be less spatial thinking expansion, and he will be more dependent, so it is necessary to let go and let the child be more free.
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That's true. Our teachings.
The education system has remained unchanged for thousands of years, and although there are great differences in education and culture between the East and the West, I still agree that children should be managed in a free-range manner. Learning is important, but we can't deprive children of time to play because of the pursuit of learning. And the most important thing is that Chinese parents generally do not know how to communicate reasonably and effectively when their children are in a rebellious period.
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Indeed, during the growth of children, they should not be too loose and laissez-faire, but they should not be too tightly controlled, and they are easy to rebel.
In fact, many children will be more or less rebellious after entering primary school, because after they enter primary school, they have learned more knowledge and life experience, and they think that they have grown up, so they try their best to break free from the control of their parents.
If parents continue to use the previous education methods to educate their children, it will definitely make the children more rebellious, and even their academic performance will decline as a result, which will eventually be irreparable.
Therefore, parents should discuss with their children more in case of trouble, do not engage in adult dictatorship, and if some small things can be decided by children, parents may wish to give their children a chance to make their own choices, so that children can also feel their own importance. At the same time, it is also important for your child to have a good lifestyle and routine, which can help you better restrain your child's bad behavior. Adolescence is a relatively rebellious period for everyone, many times it is a period when the body enters the initial maturity, but the psychology is immature, and it is easy to have frustration when encountering problems that cannot be solved, which will definitely hinder the growth of children.
At this time, if parents are forcibly disinforcing discipline, it may make the child more rebellious, and the effect is counterproductive, the correct way for parents is to try to be friends with the child, to truly understand the child, only by respecting the child's ideas, can the child be guided in the right direction.
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It is the duty of parents to discipline their children. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and they are the first objects of their children's imitation, and their words and deeds play a vital role! But everything should be done in moderation and not excessively!
If parents manage their children too much, it will inevitably cause their children's money rebellion, not only do not give their children positive space, but instead restrict their children's growth space and children's autonomy and self-care ability. This is incorrect! Some things should be left to children to deal with by themselves, and cultivate their independent problem-solving skills, otherwise children will be timid, passive and rebellious by their parents' endless control!
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It seems to be Liu Lao's real estate, after the success of the brothers, Wang Yi needs to be demolished, how to divide the charm, if there is no transfer, it should be according to the normal score.
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