What is the difference between a halfway couple and an original couple? What are the hidden contradi

The disadvantage of <> halfway couples compared to the original couple is that the halfway couple may have a low level of trust because they live together and are in a hurry to get married and find another dad or mom for the children. In this case, the property may belong to the other party and the salary may be AA. In short, they don't trust each other very much.

After all, they don't have much emotional foundation and haven't worked together, so they may have a low level of trust. Halfway couples usually can't see the difference from the original couple, but it will show up when they encounter problems. It turns out that when couples get married, they both yearn for love and marriage, but after a failure, it will have some impact on the individual.

One of the big disadvantages of halfway couples is that the children are not their own. Maybe you married a wife who has children of her own, so her children are not yours, and your children are not your later wife's. Therefore, the reason why the halfway couple is a little worse than the original couple is because the child is not their own.

For the original couple, the children are their own, and they must love the children very much in terms of co-parenting, but it is not necessarily the case for halfway couples. For halfway couples, there are still disadvantages. That is to say, because the emotional foundation between husband and wife is relatively weak, and the time for running in with each other is relatively short, that is, the time spent together is relatively short, so when combined, they only go for marriage.

Unlike the original couple, the emotional foundation is very rich, and they get married on the basis of love, but the halfway couple just lives together. If the relationship between husband and wife is short, there will be many conflicts after marriage, and it is best to get married after the relationship is good.

For halfway couples, children are a kind of bond. Maybe both parties have children, maybe only one party has their own children, but children are always a hurdle between husband and wife. If it is not handled properly, this can become a big problem because children are the hearts and minds of parents, and no one wants their children to suffer.

So in some cases, when there are some problems between the couple and the children, or when there is a conflict between your children, which side will you be on? Who would you choose to protect your own children? In this way, conflicts arise naturally.

Both of them have their own children and don't really face it. The degree of trust is relatively low, there is no emotional foundation for each other, they don't trust each other too much, they will be defensive against each other, and they will think about themselves first when they encounter problems.

There will be a gap between the two, and halfway couples will have a lot of problems when they get along, and when they encounter difficulties, most of them will think about themselves and will not really think about each other; Each other has an ex, and conflicts involving the ex will easily arise, and there will be problems with children, and the problem of raising children, if it is not handled well, it will affect the relationship between two people.

The original couple understands each other relatively well, and each other will use their thoughts and energy on each other, while halfway couples each have their own ideas, and it is difficult to use all their thoughts on each other.

The husband and wife must be the original match, and we see a lot of cases caused by second marriages. Because the second marriage will add many factors in the marriage, such as the children of the first marriage, the alimony of the first marriage, and property, etc., which are all factors that are easy to trigger conflicts.

Because if it is the original couple, the relationship between the two of them should be more stable.

Because the original partner is first together, they will also understand each other better, halfway couple, because everyone has enough experience, and they will be more mature in doing things. It's hard to be single-minded with the current couple anymore.

Some divorced people have an ambivalence of longing and fearing to get married again. There are some old sayings that are often heard:

"It is difficult for a halfway husband and wife to be together", "a halfway couple may always be a thief".In fact, this statement is one-sided and too biased.

If all halfway couples must be worse off than their original partners, then why do original couples divorce? How can a truly happy and happy couple be willing to divorce? These old sayings are fundamentally contradictory.

It is because the original couple can't live anymore that they will divorce, and remarriage is to find a happy marriage.

In fact, there is no essential difference between first marriage and remarriage, but the number of times is different, and they are both protected by law. As long as the husband and wife really want to live a good life and have a common understanding and tolerance for marriage, they can live better than the first marriage. Whether a person can live happily in his second marriage depends on whether both parties have come out of their ex's life, are ready to hold hands with a new life, and live a good life with their new wife.

One must believe that everything should be arranged for the best, and that everything that happens must have a cause.

In the second married life, both husband and wife may have their own little abacus, but if it does not affect the happy married life, it is harmless, in fact, the completion is negligible. No one is a sage, and they may have their own little selfishness, but from another point of view, is it a lack of security? In a marriage, both parties must know how to communicate in a timely manner, inform each other of their true thoughts, and work together with each other to truly grow old.

I know a lot of halfway couples, and they are all very affectionate, because they have lost one marriage and don't want to lose a second marriage, and they cherish each other.

I feel that it is indeed true, there is a saying that it is difficult for couples to go to the end halfway.

Not really! A full house of children is not as good as a halfway couple, at least he can be by your side every day, pour you tea and water, and chat with you to relieve boredom. If you have a headache and brain fever, you can take care of each other.

Not necessarily, if they truly love each other, it will always be good, and anything will be possible, so you can't deny it all, there are many possibilities for things, and you have to look at things comprehensively.

This is also possible, especially when both parties have children, they both want to plan for their children, and they both want to leave money for their children, so they will all think about this and that, and in the end they will still go their separate ways.

I think it is, after all, it's really hard for couples to go on halfway.

Hello! Let me answer your question. I think the original match is indeed better than the second marriage. If you get married for the second time, you won't have the same heart for the children. But everything is excluded, and some of them have a second marriage for a lifetime.

I don't think halfway couples are as good as original couples. After all, everyone has real feelings.

As long as the two people love each other sincerely, tolerate each other and accept each other, and live a down-to-earth life, whether you are a halfway husband and wife or the original couple, they are all legal couples.

Halfway couples may more or less not have the original couple.

It's better, because most of the halfway couples have children, if there are children, the economy is uneven, everyone wants to pay a little more for their children, which will cause conflicts between the husband and wife, which are getting deeper and deeper, if it is the original match, they do not have these problems.

Because the feelings are deep. The original husband and wife have experienced it together, and after ups and downs, the relationship will be deeper, so it is better to be the original partner.

Because the original couple knows each other best. It is the most comfortable to be with the original match, so the original match is good.

In married life, the original match can be said to be that everyone knew each other at the beginning, at that time everyone may not be very familiar with each other, and they don't know enough about married life.

The original couple will have fewer conflicts, no need to worry about each other's children, and no need to worry about the previous family. Most original couples are together, don't worry about each other's children, and there is no contradiction in this regard, and the hearts of two people can get closer together.

Because the original husband and wife are of the same heart as each other. I won't be too good for myself if I'm looking for anything.

Why is it better to say that husband and wife are still the original match? I summarize the following three points and tell you in three sentences.

1. Know each other and trust each other.

The original husband and wife, each other's first marriage, know their roots better, even if they have been together for a long time and there is no love, there is still family affection.

Don't mention divorce easily, because it's not easy for two people to come together, it's true to say that there is no emotion, it's fake, you can't find the freshness, and you're tired of each other.

As long as both parties have not touched the moral bottom line, to the point where they have to leave, it is recommended that each other take a step back, restrain their tempers, and do not leave if they can.

After leaving, it will be difficult to meet someone who knows the roots and trusts each other.

2: The parents of both sides have long been a family, and it is difficult to separate.

Couples who marry for the first time are very concerned about the relationship with their parents, and after being married for a long time, the parents of both parties are already their own parents.

If you remarry, it is difficult to achieve such intimacy, and no matter how good the relationship is, you always feel that it is not a family, and it is difficult to open your heart and treat it without reservation.

Even if they are really divorced, their attitude towards each other's parents will still be the same as when they were not divorced.

Because in your heart, they have long been their own family, divorce is not a trivial matter, even if you don't think about yourself, you have to consider your parents.

This is especially important, why is it better to say that couples are still original? The most fundamental reason is that there are children in common.

Children are the continuation of our lives, for the happiness of children, parents are willing to make any sacrifices, and only the original couples can do everything for the children, and it is difficult for non-original couples to do it.

It is difficult for a remarried family to really have a heart-to-heart, especially when it comes to children, everyone has their own little abacus, wholeheartedly, it is not easy to talk about.

The Miss Yang I was in advance in front of me is a living example, her husband always treats her children differently from her children, how can a mother not be chilling and sad?

04.Every couple is a fate cultivated in a previous life, and it is really not easy to come together.

I'm still saying that, if it doesn't get to the point where you have to divorce, I really don't recommend that you divorce the marriage casually, especially for couples with children, even more so.

Divorce is not a trivial matter, and marriage is not a child's play.

can't be so capricious, unless the other party touches your bottom line, and you really can't get by, it's never too late to leave.

Marriage is for happiness, divorce is also for happiness, whether life really can't go on, or you don't want to live anymore, you must weigh it clearly in your heart. I just want to say that marriage can't be a child's play.

At noon that day, when she got off work and was shopping near the unit with her colleague Sister Li, she received a **, which was called by her cousin Xiao Wu in the same city. hurriedly said a few words, Sister Li hung up**, confessed to me, play by myself, and left. At noon the next day, the two of us made an appointment to eat and walk together, and she couldn't help but sigh and said, don't divorce until you have to, if you want to remarry, you must think twice.

It turned out that she left in a hurry that day to go to her cousin Xiao Wu's house, Xiao Wu is an only son, and she has always been treated as her own sister. The moment he hit ** yesterday was actually very urgent, because he almost committed suicide. It turns out that Xiao Wu is 38 years old this year, a native of this city, divorced three years ago, and remarried last year because he couldn't bear to be lonely.

The woman I was looking for was a temporary worker at a supermarket cashier, with a low education, and a five-year-old child. Before remarrying, the woman asked Xiao Wu not to take the child, and she took the five-year-old child to the door. In order to have a home, he put his 10-year-old daughter at his mother's house and raised her five-year-old son with this woman.

The person who came just had a simple wedding, and did not get a marriage certificate, saying that it would depend on the situation in the future and get it when the run-in was good.

It is said that the stepmother is ruthless, this is not true at all, once secretly took her daughter back when her wife was not at home, and wanted to make up for her father's love, who knew that she was scolded by the wife who came back to get things temporarily, and finally drove Xiao Wu's biological daughter out. For the sake of this woman, Xiao Wu even endured these and didn't say anything.

The seven-year-old son brought by the woman didn't study well at a young age, watched TV every day, played with his mobile phone, ate junk food, and skipped school without completing his homework, Xiao Wu couldn't even say a word. And the son brought by this woman was very stubborn, tearing the books and clothes left by Xiao Wu's own daughter at home and throwing them on the ground, Xiao Wu couldn't bear it, so he slapped him. This matter was known to the woman, and she jumped up in anger and scolded Xiao Wu's family for not knowing what to do.

Xiao Wu beat her up angrily, but she didn't expect this woman to hit her head on the table and bleed, and finally called the police.

Xiao Wu returned from two days in the detention center, and when he returned, he found that his home had been ransacked and all his valuables had been taken away by the woman. The woman changed her phone number, leaving him with only a broken floor and rotten clothes all over the floor.

He was very sad for this, and felt that his repeated forbearance was in exchange for such a result, he hated the ruthlessness and injustice of that woman, and he also hated his own weakness. At that moment, he even had the heart to commit suicide, but thinking that his 10-year-old daughter was so sensible, but he couldn't often come back to accompany her, he sobered up and gave Sister Li a **.

Whether it is a man or a woman, you must cherish your marriage, because many examples of people around you tell that remarriage is not necessarily better than the original match, and the "halfway couple" is always separated by something, not intimate, each has its own small abacus, such a life is mixed with too many other factors, and happiness will be greatly reduced.