Is it better to have a wife or the original match? Is it good for a husband and wife to really be th

The original husband and wife are the people who have walked into the marriage siege together, and they are all single-minded to each other, digging out their hearts and lungs, and having no reservations. But halfway through the couple, it's different. Because they were hurt in their last marriage, it is difficult for them to completely surrender their true hearts in their second marriage, and they are more reserved and leave a way back for themselves.

As the saying goes: Halfway husband and wife, each leave one hand. Those who remarry after divorce will always find ways to keep their interests, will always be wary, and will not be honest enough to trust each other.

Most second-married couples simply want to find someone to live with, take what they need, and really stage the marriage into a cooperative relationship, always thinking about how to ensure their own interests.

The deepest affection of the original couple is that they have the crystallization of common love, which is the child. And after the reorganization, it is okay if the family does not have children, and if there are children, then it is destined that the marriage will be difficult to be harmonious. Men and women in second marriage, as long as both parties have their own children, it is difficult for the two to live together.

Many times, when some people are separated from their original partners for some reason, they think that they can find their favorite other half in society, but after looking around, they will still find that it is better to live together with their original partners.

Of course, the original wife talks about feelings, knows the roots, is intimate and considerate, and has no second heart, and will talk about interests after the second marriage.

That must have been handed down back then, the couple must have been originally matched, and if they did not form a new family after divorce, it would not be smooth sailing to participate in the affairs of their respective children!

If the wife is not the kind of bad woman, the wife must be a good match.

It doesn't have to be a bit of a post-marriage, but it's also very good, it depends on whether the two people have true love.

Under normal circumstances, the original match is relatively happy, but it cannot be generalized. Some people get married blindly, they may find that the other party is not suitable for them, and they may meet the person they like more after they mature, so some people will find out which person is more suitable for them when they get married for the second or third time, and their marriage will be happier.

To be honest, this sentence can be said to be true, but it is not completely true, and it also depends on the situation. If you are in free love and do not mix it with any other purpose, then of course the original match is good. If you are a strong melon and the emotional foundation is not strong, then do you really think that the original match is good?

Look at what the situation is, the Chinese tradition is to care more about the original couple, generally as long as there is a divorce, there will always be people behind the back, so many people also choose to continue their marriage for the sake of face, and some people will continue to live because of their children.

Husband and wife are not necessarily good for the original match, otherwise there will not be so many people looking for a mistress outside to meet the needs of all aspects, and the original husband and wife give the family a basic lifestyle in life, and to a certain extent, there are some spiritual deficiencies.

Why is it better to say that husband and wife are still the original match? There's a reason behind that.

The original wife will be very responsible, take care of the family, and have no outside intentions, want to work hard with you, and have shared weal and woe with you.

The original wife will be very good to you, will be sincere for you, for the family, and for the children, and will not have two hearts with you.

A friend is divorced, just got the divorce certificate yesterday, and saw her smiling happily with the divorce certificate in her hand in the circle of friends, with the text: I thought I would cry when I got divorced, but I didn't expect me to laugh, divorce is a relief, a kind of rebirth.

A woman in her thirties, with a daughter, will also have a difficult life in the future, if she remarries someone else and reorganizes the family, it is very likely that she will be a bad mother, everyone knows that it is difficult to be a stepmother.

A family, after having children, needs to be cautious about divorce, divorce not only hurts the children a lot, but the remarried family is not necessarily happy.

I have always felt that the husband and wife are still the original match, especially after having children, the children are eager to grow up in the love of their fathers and mothers, and they do not want to bring unnecessary trouble to them because of the divorce of their parents.

Although the husband and wife will often quarrel over trivial matters at home, sometimes even rise to physical conflicts, but there is no overnight feud between the husband and wife, the bedside quarrel and the end of the bed, and over time it will evolve from love to family affection.

However, it is difficult for couples to integrate into each other, and their daily life is not only quarreling over trivial matters at home, but also often suspicious of the unfair treatment of the children of both parties.

It is best not to divorce easily between husband and wife, the husband and wife are still the original match, and the children can grow up healthy and happy in the original family.