Should I have children after 40 years of second marriage?

Updated on society 2024-08-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Reasons for having children in a second marriage.

    As the saying goes, "halfway husband and wife are thieves", that is, the heart can not always be twisted into a rope, so after having a common child, the two hearts are condensed together, and the two people can live a down-to-earth life.

    1.After having children, neither husband nor wife will be distracted, and it is also very fair for the party to marry without children, which is the best of both worlds in the eyes of many people.

    2.If I don't have a common child, it may happen in the future when I get old, whose child will provide for whom, and I don't care about my stepfather or stepmother, and after having a common child, this situation will never happen.

    Reasons for not having children in the second marriage.

    There are also many reasons why there are many reasons why there is no need to have children in the second marriage.

    1.Because you already have children, then having another child will bring a lot of pressure to your life, so it is better to maintain the status quo.

    2.If you are having a child, then it will be difficult for the parent who has a child to balance his psychology, for fear of neglecting the big one and not taking care of the small one.

    3.Many second-married couples have no confidence in marriage, and are afraid that the two will not be able to get together in the future, so it will become a burden to have children, and they are sorry for the children.

    Whether you want children or not, it will make you have mixed feelings and sorrows, so should you have children or not? I think it depends on the actual situation of your family

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    If you don't have children in your second marriage, I personally think you can still have a child, even if you are an elderly woman, as long as you are careful, you can still do it, but if you already have a child, you are 40 years old, or you don't want children.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Personally, I shouldn't want it, the parents are older, the pressure on the children will be greater in the future, and the parents will not be able to help, and the children will pay more and more in the future, the prices will be higher and higher, the pressure on life will be great, communication will be hindered, and the children will not be able to learn.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It is recommended that it is best not to, firstly, your body can't withstand the toss now, and secondly, when the child grows up, you can't walk anymore, which is not good for everyone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you want to have a child at the age of forty, it is also a kind of advanced age, if you want it, as long as you are in good health, you can still do it, but you also have to pay attention to your body, after all, you are old, you can't compare it with when you were young, so take good care of yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you are 40 years old, I do not recommend having children, because older pregnant women will have certain risks when giving birth.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Whether you should have a child or not, it depends on your physical condition, your own wishes, and your own wishes, and then you have to consider many aspects of your family's economic situation. This is something that only you know, if only by age.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This problem is very complicated, and it is necessary to consider the health of both parties, the financial status of raising a baby, work, the relationship between husband and wife, how to take care of children, etc., to see if they can be properly solved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    For a woman, marrying the right person may be happy for a lifetime, and marrying the wrong person, then this life may be ruined, so many women will divorce each other after marrying the wrong man, and find a new person worthy of entrusting for life, but a complete family is composed of children, wives and husbands, all of which are indispensable, thenShould I have children after 40 years of second marriage? ?And should I have children when I remarry? If you're interested in these two questions, follow me and take a look.

    OneShould I have children after 40 years of second marriage?

    1. If two people are married for the second time and have children, then it is recommended not to have children, because now it is very stressful, and it takes a lot of time and money to raise a child, if they are all boys, then the consumption will be greater, so in the case of not very good economic conditions, it is best not to have another child.

    2. If the man is not worthy of entrustment, then it is best not to have another child, because being born will also become a burden for him and he has no ability to raise it, but if the man is particularly responsible and responsible, and the family conditions are very good, then it is possible to consider having another child at this time.

    3. If the man's family has the concept of patriarchy, then don't sell your deeds to have another child, because after all, there is no way to control the birth of a boy and a girl.

    4. There is a great danger in giving birth to a child at an advanced age, if the quality of all aspects of the body is not too good, then when giving birth, it will be easy to have a corpse and two lives, so if you want to give birth to a child, you must do a comprehensive examination of your body and see what the doctor says.

    So everyone consultedShould I have children after 40 years of second marriage? , The most important thing is to see if the self-canonized body is allowed or not, and then make a decision, after all, there is only one life, and you must be cautious and heavy.

    2. Should I have children when I remarry?

    1. The meaning of remarriage and first marriage is completely different, most people are very cautious about remarriage, most people feel that remarriage, having another child is the long-term solution to maintain marriage, if two people are with children, the family economy allows to have another child, which will make the family more happy.

    2. If there are still some marital problems between two people after remarriage, it is not advisable to think of having a child at this time to maintain the marriage relationship between two people.

    3. If you are not old, you can consider having another child, because the risk of childbirth is not very large, but if you are old and old, the risk is too great, so it is not recommended to have another child.

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