What are the reasons why second married women are reluctant to have children? Do you know?

Everyone's energy is limited, and the same is true when it comes to children, and many women will not choose to be housewives after marriage.

Instead, they will continue to work to remain financially independent. Therefore, as far as the child is concerned, a child has already received all his energy. For married women with careers, the rest of the work, the other half, and the rest of the life is the children, so many married women will learn more lessons and allocate their energy well after marriage.

The second-married woman has already given all the energy she has to this child, the daily expenses of the child, the company's companionship, and the future of the child's second-married woman will be planned. After the plan, if the other half wants to have another child, then the second married woman will feel that one child has distracted her remaining energy, and she does not have the energy to have another child, so she will be reluctant to have another child because she does not have the energy to take care of it.

Now for any couple or couple, if they really like each other, they all want to have the crystallization of love between two people, and they also want to have children of their own. That is to say, even people who have been married twice are willing to have children for each other if they really love each other. But for people who don't like you, they naturally don't care about your feelings, and they won't give a little bit for their family.

So if a woman is unwilling to have children with you after her second marriage, it is very likely that the other party does not really like you.

Many men no longer marry to pursue love, but just want the women of the family to do the housework for him and take care of themselves. Most of the people who are married for the second time have given up hope in the relationship, and they only live together temporarily. Some women know that having a child can't tie a man's heart.

So there is no such idea. Don't tie a man to a child. He doesn't love you.

Most of the restructured families are quite old for both parties. Some women may have already given birth to a child and are older, so they have a second child.

The stakes are high. If you find a good husband and mother-in-law, then they will naturally understand the reason why you are reluctant to have children, because children are not necessary for marriage.

If the other party does not consider your feelings at all and only cares about his own selfish desires, then such a man is not worth your efforts for him.

Fear of neglecting one's own children, fear that one's husband will not like one's own children, will not be good for one's own children, will not have the energy to take care of another child, and will not be at a good age to have children, and afraid that there will be problems when giving birth. I know.

Aware. They are afraid that their children will be treated favoritically, they feel that they are under great pressure, they feel that their relationship is not particularly stable, they feel that the economic situation is not particularly good, they just want to live an easy life, so they are unwilling to have any more children.

It is because the impact on the body is particularly serious if you have a second child, it may affect the uterus and pelvis, and there may be urine leakage. Children are not the main factor in maintaining family happiness.

I know. Because he has experienced a failed marriage, he will not choose to have children so blindly, if he gives birth to a child, the woman will generally choose to continue to endure this marriage for the sake of the child, if there are no children, then if this marriage is another failed marriage, he can choose to leave by himself and will not be hurt again.

Can't afford to raise children. Nowadays, the cost of childcare and education is very high, and even if a man does not care about the second-married woman having children, he will worry about whether his income is enough to raise children, and if the man himself has the desire to raise children, the burden of two children is too heavy.

Because they are more mindful of this in their hearts, their thinking is still stuck in the Qing Dynasty, which is too feudal, in fact, I don't think it's necessary at all.

Because it will increase his financial burden and also make him have a lot of constraints, he would rather choose to be single.

Because such women have been hurt before, they will be very defensive even if they remarry, and two people will not be happy together.

This is because it is particularly troublesome to find a second-married woman who has given birth to a child, which will make you lose face, and besides, who wants to raise children for others for free, it's not so stupid.

Because the second-married woman is very realistic, and she also has a child, she has a lot of pressure invisibly, and it is better to be single by herself, and you don't have to think too much about the family situation.