Why is it that once a loved one turns his face, the resentment is deeper than that of others?

Relatives are a kind of blood relationship.

and the establishment of social relations.

In our hearts this relationship is strong and close. We can love our relatives unreservedly, and it is precisely because this love is so deep that once we turn against our relatives, our relatives often become the people we hate the most. <>

Loved ones are the people we trust the most, and in front of our families, we will show our truest selves unreservedly, precisely because of this unconditional trust. It deepens our relationship with our loved ones, and we feel extremely angry when we are betrayed by our loved ones. Because I once gave my heart, but I didn't get the same return.

If someone else has a conflict with us, we can also share it with our family, but we have a conflict with our family, that feeling of isolation and helplessness, and a huge sense of psychological gap. tends to increase our anger at our families. <>

It's also because we put too much emphasis on this relationship, and we both think that each other is the most important person to each other. How can you treat yourself like this, but in life, the turn of face between family members is often because of interests. Because they are the closest people, they know each other very well, and it is inevitable that there will be comparisons, and we can't stay out of this comparison.

If there are many siblings in the family, it is often more profound. Some parents will favor younger children, which is not a harm to those older children, so in some families there will be a phenomenon of older sisters or older brothers bullying younger siblings. It's not because older brothers or sisters are selfish, it's because they also want to be loved equally by their parents.

In fact, in a harmonious family, the elders play a vital role. They are a bridge for the younger generations to communicate and exchange, and their relatives turn their faces, both parties are uncomfortable, they want to save face for each other, and their relatives will inevitably meet on various occasions. The so-called look down does not see the head up, so this resentment will always exist.

However, the resolution of this resentment is often also because of this blood relationship.

Because there are too many intersections between relatives. Relatives don't look up and look down, and if they turn their faces, they will feel very resentful.

Because the feelings of relatives are very deep, and relatives are very good when they get along, so the resentment will be more profound than others after turning their faces.

Because relatives know themselves very well, and they also know their family life very well, so once they turn their faces, they will say all the unfair things, and the resentment will be deep, but I think this is a very normal phenomenon, because there are many families like this.

People who dare to argue or conflict with their parents are generally those who are very confident in their own opinions or actions, they may have different values, outlook on life, or goals, or they may want to pursue their dreams and conflict with their parents. In this case, they may choose to express their point of view and stand their ground, even if it leads to discord with their parents. However, flipping with one's parents is not always a positive act, as the family is an important support system, and a harmonious relationship between family members is very important for the happiness and growth of the individual.

When disagreements arise with parents, it is advisable to try to find a compromise or solution based on respect, understanding and good communication, rather than dealing with the problem through arguments or confrontations. Respecting each other's opinions and feelings and seeking consensus is the key to building a healthy family.

There are certain reasons for the occurrence of grievances and grievances between relatives, and some are even long, long years ago, and they can't be relieved.

First, sit down face-to-face and make it clear. When there is a grievance between relatives, it is best to find an intermediary, and then everyone sits down and explains the things clearly, if it is really a misunderstanding, then it will be solved. If it is really one party that is wrong, apologize for the wrong, and be more generous if it is right.

It's a lot simpler.

Second, the old and the dead do not get along. If you still can't untie the knot after the above open and honest conversation, then it's best not to see anyone. It's best not to know each other when you meet to avoid too many emotions piling up in your heart.

There are also some grievances that will gradually fade in each other's hearts with the passage of time, knowing that one party has come to the end of their lives, only to suddenly realize that it is not worth so many years.

Mother-in-law and her sister are like this, because there was a gold ring when her mother-in-law died, she didn't know that she went**, and her sister said that she took it, causing her brother and sister-in-law, younger brothers and sisters to have a lot of opinions about her. The truth is that she didn't take it at all. This incident caused a gap between the two sisters, who hardly moved every year except for the first day of the new year, and this estrangement lasted for more than 30 years.

It wasn't until her sister, on her deathbed, that she insisted on seeing her and told her that she was wrong, that the gold ring was later found under the coffin. When my mother-in-law heard her say this, tears flowed down all of a sudden, and she had been misunderstood by her relatives for so many years, full of grievances, but at that moment she was all released, and she felt relieved.

If I'm happy with you, please give me a thumbs up with your little hand, thank you.

Be more tolerant, turn big things into small things, and turn small things into small things.

Relatives are the most intimate relationship in the world besides lovers, what can't be forgiven.

As long as there are people, there will be contradictions, relatives are also people, and it is normal to have contradictions, so it would be good to be more tolerant.

The best way to settle grievances between relatives is to live in old age and death, so that each person lives his own life, then there will be no harm to each other, and there will be no trouble with each other.

It is difficult to tell the grievances between relatives, who is right and who is wrong, because everyone feels that they are justified, and it is usually necessary to resolve the small contradictions in life in a timely manner, so as not to accumulate resentment.

I think that relatives should have as few quarrels as possible, and they should try to resolve as many as possible.

It's good to talk to each other. After all, blood is thicker than water. As long as you still want this feeling, there is nothing you can't get over.

- There is a saying that "love is deep, hate is deep". Due to different living environments, different personalities, different moral cultivations, different pursuit of interests, different concepts of life, and so on, there are also cases of suspicion and misunderstanding among relatives, and there are enemies against each other. Once hatred is formed, it is much deeper and more terrible than hatred in the ordinary sense.

Even old and dead do not get along.

The reasons for the formation of hatred are quite complex. Communication is the most direct and effective means to resolve crises and hatred. If you are a caring person, then go and do their communication and resolution work.

But first of all, you need to be fully informed, grasp the opportunity, use all kinds of contacts, use your excellent communication skills and ingenuity, and do your work with care, care and patience. You're going to get the results you deserve. What is needed is your perseverance.

Wishing you happiness!

Relatives are more blood related, but getting along with others still depends on personality. If the personalities do not coincide or the values and ways of doing things are inconsistent, there will naturally be differences. When this disagreement grows bigger and bigger, beyond the emphasis on blood relations, the original relatives will turn against each other.

The reason why you can't accept it is because you are not related to your friends by blood, and when there is a disagreement, you can also accept that your friends turn against each other. But the importance you attach to blood ties makes it impossible for you to accept that the differences have grown. Clearly close to the outside world, this is a family ugliness that cannot be publicized, but each has a small ninety-nine.

Hehe, this is a family conflict.

It depends on how both sides get along. It may be hard to hear, but after all, it is a family member, and all you can do is to accept this way, not affect the way you do things, and you still express and deal with things in the way you think is right.

Bless you Relatives rarely turn against each other. Most of the quarrels caused by not being broad-minded enough and caring about the small things in life can be persuaded on the sidelines, and it will be better to persuade them in a way that they accept. How to do it depends on what they do.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Yes, as long as the interests of the other party are destroyed, they will turn against each other.

Love and hate are in the palm of a day.

Therefore, if you don't communicate in time, small things will become big things.

Think about it, isn't it? Parents in the family have raised their children, but most of the children still remember that they are not good for themselves.

This is called easy to remember grudges, and it is easy to forget grudges!

People often hurt their closest people.

So learn to be grateful to be happy!

This will definitely happen, most people grow up to think about their own interests, and when someone infringes on their own interests, they will not consider any family affection.