What should I do if my relatives become enemies, and what if my brothers and sisters become enemies?

Help each other, but not just in the way of giving money.

It is always more pleasant to give than to take. When our relatives are in a difficult financial situation, we should take the initiative to help them through the difficulties.

However, when it comes to money, we would do well to think carefully. This is because, when it comes to money, there are all kinds of problems: what if relatives don't pay it back? If the relative is unable to repay, can we accept the loss of this money?

If your relatives have been in poverty for a long time, you should give them concrete advice so that they can use their own initiative to face reality.

Fourth, don't discriminate.

When it comes to holiday giving, it's best to give the same gift to each sibling and don't show that you're particularly good with any sibling.

If we want to maintain a good relationship with our relatives, we need to pay attention to the above points. Don't let the originally friendly relatives become enemies in the process of getting along.

Why do many relatives become "enemies"? Tell you about these reasons.

It is rare for siblings to become enemies, but if there is a real occurrence, then the solution needs to be more cautious and meticulous.

Here are some suggestions:

1.Communication. The biggest problem between enemies is often communication and exchange.

If you think your relationship with your siblings has deteriorated, try to take the initiative to communicate with each other, listen to each other's opinions and express your ideas.

2.Attitude towards the problem. When dealing with problems, it is necessary to adopt a mature and pragmatic attitude and avoid influencing the problem through excessive rhetoric and behavior.

3.Try to find a settlement. For specific problems, if there is a solution that requires mutual compromise, try to reach a consensus around the solution, and if necessary, ask relatives and friends or even find professional institutions to help solve and resolve the problem.

4.Take care of your emotions. When dealing with sibling relationship problems, it is necessary to exercise self-control, suppress personal emotions, and avoid complicating the problem.

5.Deal with personal feelings. There may be times when you need to recognize the contradictions between yourself and your siblings, as well as your own handling of the emotions and factors after betraying the contradictions.

You can seek advice from a psychologist or take courses to better understand and deal with these emotional issues.

In short, dealing with the contradictions and conflicts between siblings is a relatively complex process, which requires the joint efforts of both imitators, abiding by the principles of justice, finding win-win solutions and solving problems.

When I was a child, I was obviously a family! How did you grow up and become a relative?

When I was a child, I always felt that time passed very slowly, and I was always looking forward to growing up quickly! However, when I grew up, I realized that time passed too quickly. At this time, I hope that time can indeed slow down a little bit, and ...... slower time

After getting married, I don't know when my parents became polite when they returned to their parents' home, and sometimes they even asked, when will you come to my house? It's no longer about when you're going home. In an instant, a wave of sadness welled up in my heart.

I found out that yes, I was already married, this is ......It's not my home anymore......So, where is my home again?

In-law? No, that's not my home either. My mother-in-law is also very polite, maybe it's because we don't get together often! Sometimes it feels like we're very strange to each other, so strange that I can't even call my mother for ...... rest of my life

Come to think of it, it's really sad that I lost my home after I got married! Even my brothers and sisters who used to fight together to the end of the year have now become so-called relatives! Once upon a time, we were still a family, eating together, chatting together, and playing together as ......a familyused to say everything, but now it is polite, why has it become so cautious ......

- There is a saying called ".

Bai loves deeply, hates du

of the cut". Due to different living environments, different personalities, different moral cultivations, different pursuits of tolerance, different concepts of life, and so on, there are also suspicions and misunderstandings between relatives, and there are enemies against each other. Once hatred is formed, it is much deeper and more terrible than hatred in the ordinary sense.

Even old and dead do not get along.

The reasons for the formation of hatred are quite complex. Communication is the most direct and effective means to resolve crises and hatred. If you are a caring person, then go and do their communication and resolution work.

But first of all, you need to be fully informed, grasp the opportunity, use all kinds of contacts, use your excellent communication skills and ingenuity, and do your work with care, care and patience. You're going to get the results you deserve. What is needed is your perseverance.

Wishing you happiness!

It is important to sacrifice oneself for family harmony.