Two people who love each other, will it last long?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Because general love can only last for three years, love will not last long, but it will last for a long time when it becomes family affection.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The first thing to understand is that two people who truly love each other does not necessarily last long.

    Although love is more difficult to fathom, we also have some ways to maintain the healthy growth of love.

    If the two of you really love each other sincerely, you will be able to go through the ups and downs together, on the road of love, care more about each other, understand and trust each other more, and need more mutual tolerance, love is actually a kind of trouser responsibility, to him (her) to complain less, more considerate; More praise and encouragement, less blame and snubbing. Only by cherishing each other more can we help each other grow old.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Not two people like each other can last long, whether it is in love or marriage, mutual liking is only a prerequisite, determining the conditions of your together, and how to operate on this basis is the most important thing.

    There are many people who think that as long as two people like each other, they can always be together, they can last forever, I think people who have such thoughts are really naïve, too superficial, two people like each other is just a feeling, this feeling is a stepping stone to whether you can continue to contact and communicate, and people's emotions are complex and changeable, who can guarantee that this feeling is not temporary, so it is not that you can like each other for a long time.

    There is still a certain distance from love to love, and in this distance, there will definitely be friction between two people when they get along, after all, they are two strangers, each person has their own personality, way of doing things, views on problems, different people together, or this kind of intimate relationship, there will definitely be sparks of thought colliding, in the face of these problems, will like to be consumed by these things.

    Two people like each other or learn to manage feelings, slowly accept the difference between each other and you, understand each other's world a little bit, like is feeling, and the blending of thoughts is able to touch the depths of the soul, this kind of soul communication can support the two of you to go on for a long time, so that two people like each other more.

    When the TV series "The Age of Naked Marriage" was on fire, there was a sentence to describe the relationship between Liu Yiyang and Tong Jiaqian, called "details defeat love", their original relationship was really envious of others, sweet and happy, but many things after that made them feel troublesome, often quarreled over trivial matters, but they didn't know how to solve these problems, which finally led to the divorce of the two people.

    Once together, there will be a lot of responsibilities, to plan for the future of two people, to live happily, these are all to be considered, to like each other to make a good start, and then for a better future to manage with heart, so that the relationship between two people can last for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Two people genuinely like each other, and I don't think the relationship between them will last long.

    Generally speaking, when I enter society, I think it is difficult to have a simple love like when I was a student. Even if you really like it, if the economic gap is too big to satisfy one side, you will separate. Especially when getting married, many couples are separated because of financial problems, and the parents do not agree or there is a person who thinks about life after marriage.

    In the real world, it takes a lot of money to get married and have children, let alone raise a child in good health. After having a child, as a father, there will definitely be pressure. It is necessary to take care of the family, raise children, and money, I think this will affect the relationship between the two.

    There should be very few people who get married without thinking about their lives after getting married and having children, which is too blind and unrealistic. Reality is not a fairy tale, there are not so many miracles.

    Reality is cruel, you must know that you can't live in this world without money, money is important. If you really like someone, I think you should know when to let go, if you can't guarantee it, you can give each other happiness, a sense of security, and a warm home in the future, you should let go.

    In this society now, there are fewer and fewer true feelings, and many true feelings have been dismantled by money. Two people who really like each other may not be able to last long, because there are too many factors to consider in reality.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Not necessarily, liking each other is a foundation for a long-term relationship, but it is not a necessary guarantee.

    Because both sides like each other, they have each other's appreciation, mutual seeing, and mutual affirmation, so that each other feels more and more happy together. As the feeling of liking this sublimates into love, true love for each other, cherishing, and being willing to do more for each other, then this relationship will last longer and longer.

    If liking, just a temporary, sudden feeling, does not increase to each other's appreciation, is not willing to pay more for each other, do more, does not ask for each other's return, does not care about each other's strength, but in getting along with each other is to blame, demand, and even complain, manipulation, then the relationship will only get worse and worse.

    In the relationship, when you do more, when you like to sublimate into love, the emotional foundation will become more and more stable, so the longevity of real feelings comes from each other's continuous liking and appreciation, and you are willing to do more of a quality of love for each other.

    In the relationship between the two of you, is this kind of continuous liking? Or is it a spur of the moment? Is it the increased strength of each other's blessings? Or do you drain each other's strength? This is the foundation of your long-term relationship.

    Mutual liking is the basis for the two sides to have emotions, and the subsequent development in which direction still needs to be managed by both parties, because emotions are more spiritual and need to go through the test of life level, that is, in the events experienced together in life, whether they can still like and appreciate each other, and at the same time accept the differences of both parties, respect their differences and needs, and learn to manage emotions in the experience of getting along and working together, so that this emotion continues to sublimate and become a love that holds hands with each other and knows each other.

    May both of you cherish and protect each other's emotions and be gentle in the long river of time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is a very lucky thing for two people to like each other, but it does not mean that two people can grow old together, but two people can grow old together because two people like each other.

    This world is more complicated than we imagined, people are the same, people living in this world will have a lot of things to deal with, there will be a lot of responsibilities to bear, two people together are not all spent before and after, there are still a lot of trivial things to deal with, there are many misunderstandings and quarrels, need to back down and compromise.

    Therefore, there are many factors mixed in long-term love, and there is not only a single point of liking. It also needs the care and maintenance of love from both parties.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In my opinion, two people like each other is a necessary but not sufficient condition for a long-term relationship, it is not easy to be long-lasting, and the following conditions are also needed:

    First, you need to be the right person. If two people want to be together for a long time, they must get married justifiably. When you fall in love, you just need to think about the wind and snow and how to have fun.

    But when it comes to getting married, it's not so simple to think about.

    Second, you need to have the same three views. If you have different outlooks on life, one strives to be motivated, the other is biased towards stability, and as a result, the motivated party is bent on going to graduate school, or going to a big city, and the one who is willing to live a stable life is just a gangster diploma and a stable but unpromising job in a small city, then you will find that you have less and less common language, and the two of you will gradually drift apart.

    If your values are different, a person is high and a person is materially realistic, and in the face of life's choices, you will inevitably quarrel constantly, and when the time comes, you will not only be more and more unable to understand each other, but also bored with each other, how can it last long? As for the world view, it is the way you look at the world, it is your understanding of society, and only when the world view is the same can you understand each other, and only when you understand can your feelings not fade, and you dare to talk for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily.

    Two people like each other, which is the best way for love to begin, but it does not mean that the relationship can last for a long time. Because the feeling of liking has a time limit, it is related to the secretion of dopamine.

    Whether it is in real life or in TV series, we can always see countless examples of this: a pair of men and women who are in love with each other, love died and came back to life at the beginning of love, but for various reasons, they finally parted ways, or even turned against each other.

    In love, it is not necessary to have a good beginning, but there will always be a good outcome. The longevity of love takes time and effort to manage, and it must be done by both parties. Feelings have always been a matter of two people, and unilateral efforts are just in vain.

    If two people who like each other are together for a lifetime, then there won't be so many people divorced. We always think that most of those who divorce are matched on a blind date and have no feelings at all, but in fact, they are not. Among so many divorced couples, the majority are those who once loved each other.

    Because they once loved each other, after the heat of love subsides, there will be some discomfort, and there will be comparisons in the days to come. This comparison will find that the relationship between the two people is not as good as day by day, and the once sweet and sweet is still like a real thing to come back to. Especially after getting married, there is more firewood, rice, oil and salt, family trivialities, the time for warmth is reduced, and the time for quarrels is increasing day by day.

    At this time, if the husband and wife do not sit down and communicate well, and do not find a way to resolve the conflict, the former like will turn into disgust, and the other party will not be pleasing to the eye. Coupled with the rise of personal emotional freedom, if you don't love it, you want to let go, and in the end, your marriage will be broken.

    So if you like each other, then after you are together, you must treat your feelings more attentively, be more tolerant and understanding, and praise more and blame less, and love will last for a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Two people like each other, if they want to go to the end, they must not only have an emotional foundation but also a material foundation, because nothing can be maintained until the end by feelings alone, and liking is not enough to love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, as long as you truly love each other, no matter what happens, your love will last forever.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No; Because love can't stand the test, let alone wait.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although long-distance relationships rarely have long source bends.

    But that's because each other's hearts are not strong enough.

    If you love each other deeply, can trust each other, understand each other, communicate more, and have a firm heart, the long-distance relationship is not so difficult to maintain.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, it is manifested in:

    1. Mutual distrust.

    Both men and women, as long as there is doubt, then, whether it is good or bad in the future, the seeds of estrangement have been planted. In the relationship between men and women, the most important thing is trust, only when men and women trust each other, will create a happy love, when the trust of both parties is not there, this long-distance run of love is about to come to an end. In order to better solve the pain, at this time, both men and women should break up as soon as possible to leave each other with the most beautiful memories.

    Second, I always feel that the other party is not working hard enough.

    Everyone has everyone's attitude to life, maybe one party has worked very hard in life, in work, but, in the eyes of the other party, everything is not worth mentioning, then, at this time, no matter how hard you work, the other party can not see the eyes, for a long time, the gap between the two sides is getting bigger and bigger, no matter how hard one party tries, can not keep up with the rhythm of the other party, the gap between the two sides is getting bigger and bigger, love must end in failure.

    Third, I don't think the difference is very big whether there is another party or not.

    Love is sweet, and both men and women in love should miss each other more and think about each other all the time. However, when you feel that life is still like this, there is no difference whether there is a other person or not. That means that without love, the feelings between you are gone, and your life is the same with or without each other, and in this case, end it as soon as possible.

    Fourth, you will think of other people.

    Many people don't know why they fall in love, and they don't know where their feelings come from. Many times, men and women don't know who they love. When one day, the distant figure comes to mind, so similar to him in front of him, maybe there is an answer.

    At this time, don't hesitate, don't delay the other party any longer, and end it as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, two people who love each other are very romantic together, but the topic may become less when they get along for a long time.

    But it's not the same when you love and kill each other, you have an interesting past and an interesting life, and you have a way of getting along with each other that you feel comfortable with, which can enhance your feelings, increase your interest, and be more conducive to understanding.

    Love and kill each other, but also keep optimistic about life and work!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love and kill each other. Can the relationship last? The relationship of love and killing can last. Because if two people love, they love or not, they don't love? I think this kind of relationship is very good, and it is quite casual.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Can a love-and-kill relationship last? Generally speaking, in most cases, the relationship of love and killing cannot last long, because it will hurt each other, and when it hurts to a certain extent, both people will not accept this feeling.

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