100 bounty points Additional Walk the talk and steal the heart, psychology

What you call stealing hearts.

In fact, it is to grab the attention of the other person and make the other person admit that you affirm you.

A person likes another person simply because the other person has a good thing in him that he recognizes.

And if this recognition is a little bigger, it will develop into worship.

Of course, everyone has more or less good qualities in them, and you may often think, "I'm not worse than him, and I'm even more talented than him." "But why is he more likable than me?

This is called "doing what you like".

To make someone like you, you must first know what they like, rather than blindly showing their strengths.

A person's complete personality is made up of many sub-personalities, and in different situations, one sub-personality is more pronounced than the others, which is why sometimes you feel that one person is "like another" compared to others. When you know yourself well enough to control all your sub-personalities so that you can manifest themselves in the most appropriate way when you need them, you have achieved what you call "grasping yourself and hiding yourself." ”

In short, I think Sima Xiangru has not studied the "psychology of stealing hearts", but he knows how to make a Sima Xiangru the best.

As the saying goes, "the aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys", when your charm is attractive enough, someone will naturally appreciate you.

To do that, it takes time and cultivation as well as continuous self-improvement, which is not something that can be done by a discipline, a book, or a master.

Psychology is not a mystical discipline, its research is only to enable human beings to develop better, it is not mind reading.

Psychology is not a mind-reading, and there is no such dirty "mind-stealing psychology" in many branches.

First of all, there must be personality charm, alas, the current ......

I don't think it's so much about what other people have to attract people.

What kind of personality, appearance, learning, ......

Otherwise, I don't think you should think about any mind-stealing techniques, maybe it's better to study metaphysics directly, the thing you said, I think it's almost like dreaming.

The works you see are too immortal for Sima Xiangru.

Psychology should be in the right place.

Find out the other person's mind, understand what the other party wants, and try to meet their wishes, so that the other party's favorability towards you will increase. Oh!

Love is when two people are willing to love each other. You want the other person to love you. You've got to think about it.

That's the higher level of psychology knowledge, and there are books like this in libraries, and bookstores should sell them, but they're not as good as you say

Behavioral psychology can judge what a person will do next and what he thinks based on his behavior, and according to the changes in his expression and eyes, he can know a person's psychology. But no kind of psychology can steal hearts. Do you want to study psychology to pick up girls, ask such questions.

I am in front of you when you need me.

You're so nice, I love you indefinitely.

The police will say: It's safe here.

1.I love you.

2.I love you to death.

3.I have loved you for 10,000 years, and I will love you all my life

What you do for her is the most important thing.

It's just appearances.

Stealing hearts is generally used in passive sentences, "My heart was stolen by you." I was stolen by you", indicating that my heart no longer belongs to me, always thinking about you and the like, expressing my liking and temptation for you.

A common expression used in active sentences: I'm a stealer. Use humor to express your covetousness.

Your sentence has no context, and it's certainly not a standard usage of what he says, so it's hard to tell what it means. But it shouldn't be looking for a junior. Maybe it's a typo. Don't worry about it, don't do anything, just wait and see.

Stealing hearts: It is unconsciously, after time and chat, the other party slowly has a good impression of you, so that it changes from a friend's heart to a liking heart, which is stealing a heart.

Stealing: It is a metaphor for a cat stealing fish, used to describe the good of carrying a lover behind his back and others.

Stealing your heart should be exactly what you are stealing, you are liked by the other party, and without knowing it, he thinks that you have stolen his heart, and you are stealing your heart.

Stealing fishy ** is not eating the cat's own food, stealing the fish in the fish tank to eat, and the metaphor of finding the junior is very accurate.

ambiguously said that I like you, so it's better to ignore it.

1.Peking University is good, especially in terms of cognition, but in terms of consulting, there is no particularly outstanding one in China, which is related to the late start and poor foundation in China. It is more difficult, after all, it is the top 5 psychology in the country.

In particular, its re-examination is very difficult. It doesn't matter if you are a student, the important thing is that you can do well in the exam. In addition, I would like to say that Hunan Normal University is actually not bad, and Yan Liangshi's research in the field of basic psychology has a very good reputation in China.

2.The strongest psychology in the United States has always been considered to be Stanford University, where the famous Bandura. Yale's is of course very good, but it is also very difficult to get into.

Regardless of the school, students who want to study abroad at YALE will need to take the GRE test, of course, if some schools have some kind of partnership, such as exchange students, that is another story.

3.If you want to study psychology, it is recommended to go to the United States. There is still a gap between Europe and it.

In addition, in addition to the United Kingdom, other European psychology such as Germany is also good, but you need to pass the German test, which is very troublesome. Of course, Chinese students are accepted, as long as you have enough exams. Scholarships are now difficult to apply for due to the economic crisis, and the number of scholarships available at various schools has been reduced.

4.There is basically no threshold restriction for domestic psychological counselors, and general training institutions can help you get it, which is not much to say. In Europe and the United States, for example, if you want to become a psychological counselor, you need a master's degree or above in psychiatry or psychological counseling, and other majors cannot be a psychological counselor, which is a very high threshold.

5.In psychology, it is very easy to mix, but if you want to learn it well, you have to put in a lot of effort. At the same time, a good foundation in mathematics and English is required.

Psychology still has relatively high requirements for statistics and measurement, because measurement and harmonization are often used in research. Overall, the difficulty is moderate.

6.I recommend a book to you, "Psychology and Life" by the People's Posts and Telecommunications Publishing House. Read this one first and then think about the rest, the foundation is very important, the content of this book is relaxed, practical, basic, and very interesting. Don't try to become fat in one bite, take your time.

If you need any additional help or other questions, I'm happy to answer them.

Most people who study psychology go crazy and die, and many commit suicide! You should study law, be a lawyer, consult legally, or counsel more than psychologically.... …

Psychological counseling for those patients who are admitted.... …

I'm not trying to pour cold water on you, I admire you!

The previous conversations and situations only indicate that you have been in contact with her for some time, and that you are disgusted and uncomfortable with her words and actions. However, you have not made any obvious targets and manifestations out of personal qualities or principles. I don't understand why she didn't refute and criticize you in person.

This shows that she has a different view and relationship with you. Psychologically, none of your three-point solution is viable. First of all, you have not found out the cause, and you form a hostile opponent's misunderstanding based on perception and subjective judgment.

You say how to put yourself in an advantageous position, which constitutes a psychological contradiction. Suggestion 1: Face up to the problem, clarify the relationship, and communicate.

2. Change the concept, open the mind, and treat everyone equally. Three:

Self-analysis, dialectical issues, matters of priority, rational treatment. Life is a kind of growth. Learn to give up, let go, and pursue.

to make people mature.

If a gentleman doesn't move his hands, I won't approve of your approach.

She hates you, and you don't like her.

If the other person hates you and wants to make himself in a good position, generally speaking, it is to knock on the bamboo bar of this person and make this person ask for it. Don't expect to soften the other person socially, as that will only make them think you're weak. And the only way to win against someone who hates you is to make the other person start liking you, which proves that you are the one who has the final say in reality.

On the other hand, if you don't like someone, the worst outcome for you is that you don't show your attitude in the first place. If you think carefully and hesitate before making up decent reasons to hate the other person, you will only make yourself appear pretentious and capricious.

If the two are combined, ......That's a bit more complicated. At this time, it is best to put aside the wins and losses first, and first find out the character of the other party. When a person does not find a reflection of his own light in others, he is faced with two problems, one is to deny himself, and the other is to become self-centered.

You see the other person's reaction as a private war, typically self-centered. The way to deal with self-centeredness is to shift all personal interest to understanding others rather than judging them. When a self-centered person encounters a person who is more self-centered, he becomes inclined to deny himself, and conversely, when he encounters a person who tends to deny himself, he becomes more self-centered.

This girl is not as self-centered as you are, but tends to deny herself. Those who deny themselves are irritable and irritable, and those who deny others are as if they were denying themselves. Now, if you want to be a good person, the least you need to do is to see a little bit of self-reflection in others.

However, the other person and you are really at opposite ends of the same thing.

Don't say anything about tolerance and generosity, human nature is hypocritical and narrow-minded, whether it is to help others or to take revenge on others, it is arbitrary guided by self-interest. You have only two choices, choose to be self-denying or self-centered in this matter, or choose to focus on another thing.

There is a ...... of gain and loss in this kind of thing

You're almost taking the college entrance exam, thinking about all these things all day long.

People who are unfriendly to themselves can completely ignore her. Is there anything to lose.

I don't know if I can say that you are cheap, people didn't move you, what are you doing with others! said that people said unpleasant things, what people said, even a cat can't say it, it's not that they have a weak heart! Also from a psychological point of view, you have a problem with your own psychology.

Isn't a 100 bounty score great? Give 100 yuan and ignore you!

This friend, you are really interesting, from the perspective of psychology, put yourself in a favorable position Simply put, it is the spirit of Ah Q Stay optimistic and control your emotions to improve yourself in a favorable direction If you can do this, you will always be in a good position Hello friend For the first article: In the eyes of this kind of girl, scolding without dirty words is an effect It's just that scolding people with dirty words is direct Scolding without dirty words also makes people think you are insidious Article 3: Since you graduate, you have to invite the whole class to dinner, but you don't invite him, This is typical of the child's temperament and the temperament of the small family Maybe you feel very happy It is this kind of immature performance that will make others have an opinion of you Such as you are very grudgeful, small in spirit, calculating, and so on And the second one, ignore him He scolded you, you ignore him, 1 is disdainful, 2 is that you are a man You must have a mind not to worry about him It is nothing to scold you Patience is also a manifestation of maturity

Advantage is relative, as long as your psychology is balanced, the world may be perfect in your opinion, not just advantageous?

But the biggest characteristic of human beings is satisfaction, people who are not satisfied will live in pain, and people who are satisfied have no desire for progress. So trying to adjust our mindset is what we can do and be useful.

Say less, see more, think more

Low-key is always the most high-profile).

Be low-key, don't be arrogant, be calm, calm, don't bully, be sleek, optimistic, accumulate thick and thin, and be soft inside and outside.

Extremely strong psychologically, relatively mediocre behavior. There are deep friendships and alliances, there are abandonment and take, and there are wars and peace.

Well, well, I can't tell you how it feels.