The troubles of early love? Is it normal to have thoughts of puppy love?

There are many problems with early love, because two people can come together, first of all, the probability is very small, teenagers at this age, this is the budding of puberty, boys will be curious about girls, and girls also want to talk to boys to understand boys, if these two people come together, first think that they are not mature in thinking, consider things are not comprehensive, easy to appear troubles, the final outcome is often unhappy, and the problem of early love has not been recognized by the family and school, not recognized by the society, And in terms of the economy, they have no income, so this is also one of the main reasons for the final unhappy breakup!

1. Go with the flow – we must admit that this is an experience, and that there is no absolute right or wrong, good or bad; And this experience may not be something we alone have the power to control.

2 Be happy – whether you choose to be emotional or not, make yourself as happy as possible – the purpose of love is not to add to our troubles.

3. Be responsible for yourself - it is not easy for each of us to grow up after so many years of struggle, if you can't control yourself, is it worth it to delay the future?

4. Be responsible for each other - since love - I dare not use such sacred words for my feelings - so should I think about the other person? Before we can't give each other anything, at least don't disrupt each other's peaceful life, so that the other party can continue to move forward and continue to struggle.

5. Oppose the statement of "early love" - it is not early if it is "love", and it is not called "love" long ago

Puppy love isn't all on the downside.

The word puppy love has now become a derogatory term.

I'm furious. Whoever stipulates that love is an adult's business.

Isn't it normal for two people to have feelings of affection for each other?

Two people help each other.

Encourage each other. Isn't that a great thing?

But I also don't deny that there is a downside to early love.

Nowadays, people are too rash in dealing with early love.

Causing the current students to be sad.

In fact, it is the adults who should be reviewed the most.

It's normal to have ideas. Every child has their own stage of development and growth. When there is gender awareness, there will be a particularly strong interest in the opposite sex.

It's normal to have the idea of early love, because adolescence is the most curious time for the opposite sex to fall in love, and there are boys and girls of the same age around you, it is easy to like someone, and you will want to fall in love.

It is normal to have the idea of early love, children in adolescence will be full of imagination about the opposite sex, at this time to meet a girl or boy who is compatible with the early love, at this time parents should give the right guidance, rather than blindly blocking, let them understand the importance of academics in this period, two people can promote each other, if you can maintain this idea in college, in order to achieve positive results, do not take early love as pressure.

The idea of puppy love is very normal, most people will have a good impression of the opposite sex when they are teenagers, and there will be puppy love, but some people can restrain themselves, and some people can't restrain themselves.

It's normal to have the idea of early love, after all, when you are young, who hasn't massaged a few people, but this kind of thought is better to curb it, after all, the final result of early love is not very good, and it will delay each other.

Although puppy love is not tolerated by society, it still has certain benefits. Get in touch with society in advance and be able to mature earlier.

If you have a relationship experience, you won't be so stupid when you actually fall in love in the future (compared to some nerds who fall in love now......Alas......）

After really falling in love with someone, it will give birth to a certain hormone, which is good for learning to a certain extent. (not nonsense, there is a scientific basis).

When I was a child, I had to be exposed to more new things, and the society was not so ideal.

Know how to treat the opposite sex, know what responsibility is, and what you should do when you really love someone.

With experience, the success rate of real marriage in the future will be high, and the divorce rate will decrease (how many people divorce because they have no experience and don't know the mind of the opposite sex?). ）

It's a good memory, and the odds of puppy love going on are low, but it's a great experience.

Today's children live ......Add a little bit of color......

And the average child is not very interested in early love, because these are actually the curiosity of love in adolescence, so love once can end their curiosity as soon as possible, but they can be more engaged in learning.

It's normal for you to have thoughts of early love, and many people will have such thoughts, that is, some people control it, and some people don't. No matter what, you must not fall in love early, only by working hard to make yourself better, can you find someone as good as yourself.

Normal. Because everyone will have the idea of early love when they are young, they will feel that early love is a very beautiful feeling, and they will yearn for it.

Even puppy love should not be called puppy love, this concept of "early" should not have appeared in the first place. What kind of feelings arise at what age, the likes that I thought I liked when I was a child may not think so when I grow up, and I have to experience it to know, and the generation of these experiences also varies from person to person.

If you like each other when you are still young, the most important thing for parents to do is to thoroughly analyze the two issues of academic feelings according to the child's own situation, and finally let the child make his own choice, teach the child how to face a relationship, and also teach the child how to grow up in a relationship to avoid physical or psychological damage.

For immature boys and girls, it is a wonderful thing to be able to produce an innocent liking, which is the only way for them to grow up, and it is also the most cherished treasure in their own hearts. What we need to do is to respect their feelings and help them protect them, instead of exposing them in broad daylight to let others see how ridiculous this seemingly immature love is.

Of course, it has an impact on students, everything has two sides, and early love is no exception, but we actually know that early love gives us more harm than good, so it's better not to try. After graduation, there is always a separation.

With the development of society, people have become more unscrupulous, so it is normal to have early love, even if it should not be? It's not puppy love yet. Being young and ignorant makes them not understand the meaning of love.

A ridiculous beginning, a sad ending, it's doomed. Affection is a profound art. I hope that everyone will treat feelings with their hearts, experience the sweetness, and know how to cherish them.

In my opinion, it shouldn't! Because puppy love generally affects career, etc.! And, if it's not good, it hurts the heart.

Personally, I think that early love is also good, but there are also disadvantages, early love allows children to understand the good and evil in the world, can strengthen children's independent thinking, and it will be helpful to enter the society in the future. The disadvantage is that some children delay their studies because of early love, and they are psychologically harmed、、、 and so on.

From the teacher's point of view, it's better not to fall in love, but it's normal for teenagers to have a good impression of each other, these things still depend on you, how you think about it, you can get over it, but don't fall in love, it's generally fruitless, I hope to adopt.

Puppy love is good, as long as you encounter a few setbacks, you will know that puppy love is not good, because what you find now is not necessarily the person you are looking for in the future, but it will make you sad a few times, but in the future, when you are really in love, you will know that what you used to talk about was not about love, but for fun.

It is not recommended to fall in love, because you have experienced fewer things now, and you have met fewer people, and you are not sure that the current person is the person who can be with you until you grow old and entrust you with your life.

You should not fall in love, it will affect your studies, you will lose confidence in your life goals, you will achieve nothing for your life, and it will bring difficulties to your future life.

It's best to be in love when you're a student, otherwise you'll talk about it in the future, and you'll be stuck with it several times, and your confidence will be uncomfortable and you will lose the opportunity to fall in love, and you'll miss your life.

How to define the thing of early love, simply use age, before the age of eighteen is considered early love, after the age of eighteen is considered late love. I don't think that's appropriate.

The so-called "early" should be before being able to take responsibility. If it is said that in many aspects, including emotions, emotions, finance, family, etc., can bear all or most of it independently, it is not too early to give a good influence to the other party. Otherwise, knowing that there will be a bad impact, whether it is for yourself or the other party, you still have to insist on the so-called love, which is undoubtedly an irresponsible emotional venting, which is not advocated for a long time.

Thinking about it this way, it is okay to have early love, but there are few young loves that meet the above conditions and agree after all. When you can't judge yourself, it's advisable to find trusted relatives and friends to talk to and advise.