In family education, what kind of love is conducive to the healthy growth of children?

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The influence of parents on children is very great, and parents' words and deeds will be children's role models, and I personally believe that in family education, fair love, grateful love, and selfless love are conducive to the healthy growth of children. The most important thing in educating children is not grades, but character, which plays a vital role in a child's life and accompanies him for life.

Nowadays, many families may not have more than one child, and parents must be fair when treating their children, some eccentric thoughts will make children's hearts have wrong ideas, and even resentment towards parents. To give every child fair love, there is nothing that should or should not be. In this way, the child may grow up to be a fair and upright person.

To have grateful love, in family education, parents to their parents' words and deeds will be seen by children, only your gratitude, so that children can learn to be grateful, children should learn to be grateful to the people around them, to others care and care for gratitude. People should be grateful.

Parents' love for their children is selfless and does not ask for anything in return, but don't always say what they give, children are actually sensible, they can understand the hard work of their parents, if parents always regard their children's efforts as "credit" on their lips, it may have a counterproductive effect. Children need selfless love so that they too can learn to love others selflessly.

The above is only a personal opinion, there is no unified way and model for educating children, and the best way for your child is a good way. Let the child grow up healthy and happy, this is the wish of all parents, and at the same time, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, do not rush for quick success, and accept that the child may also be an ordinary person, as long as it is safe and healthy.

We must respect children, do not hit children, create a good family environment for children, and choose the appropriate education method according to the child's personality when educating children.

Correct love will make the child have a healthy growth, the child does right, parents should encourage, but if the child does wrong, should criticize the child, and should also restrain the child. Don't be spoiled.

Be sure to give children respect and companionship, never give children material love, show up in time when children need it, let children feel that their parents are there, and give children a sense of security.

It is believed that in family education, it is necessary to help children according to their needs, not to impose their own needs on children, to be patient with children's growth, and not to spoil children, this kind of love is moderate. Many parents attach great importance to their children's education, and will inevitably compare their children with others, and will find that their children have many shortcomings, so they expand this idea, making the child feel very stressed, this behavior is very wrong, and will affect the physical and mental growth of the child. <>

Parents need to lead by example and be a good role model for their children, and their children will learn from their parents. Children are like a blank sheet of paper, on which parents draw a variety of patterns, and if they draw properly, they will make their children grow up very well. It is believed that family education is the most important one in the process of children's growth, and a good family style will benefit children for life, and when they encounter difficulties in the future, they will also solve them with their own hands, rather than blindly relying on their parents, so that they will not have the ability to solve problems independently.

Today's children are usually more pampered, and when they encounter trouble, parents will help their children solve it, and if they do not let their children get exercised on their own, such children will grow up to be mediocre and have no ability to face difficulties. Children will encounter all kinds of setbacks in the process of growing up, parents need to be patient with this change, not too much interference in the child's affairs, to give the child a little space, to let the child grow up strongly. Parents can encourage their children when they ask for help and nurture them in the right way.

Parents can take a period of time to communicate with their children after each day's work, so that their children can feel the love of their parents. The family atmosphere will also affect the healthy development of the child, if the family is not harmonious, it is likely to cause problems in the child's personality, and the child needs to feel the warmth of the family. It is necessary to take a correct view of the shortcomings and advantages of the child, not to ignore the shining points of the child, to give the child appropriate support, and let the child pursue what he likes.

Love in moderation. Parents should not be able to focus all their attention on their children's learning, which will bring great pressure to their children.

I think it's better to set the right example for them, don't overly pursue comparisons around them, be realistic, respect their ideas, be friends with them, and love each other.

Family education is very important to the growth of children, parents must be clear in rewards and punishments, if the child behaves well, must give encouragement and rewards, if the child makes mistakes, must also be punished.

Some parents always think that their children's status in the family is superior, so family members have to give their children special care everywhere, such as eating "alone", good food or their favorite food will be placed in front of them for one person to enjoy; To be an "only child", parents regard their children as pearls in their palms, and the elderly in the family like grandfathers and grandmothers can not have birthdays, but children must have birthdays, buy big cakes, and give gifts ......Such children feel special in themselves, and over time they become accustomed to being superior to others, and will inevitably become selfish under the pampering of their parents, have no sympathy, and will not care about others.

The focus of the family, the family always takes care of him and accompanies him. Not to the New Year's holiday, relatives and friends come a lot often laughing and teasing the child is not finished, sometimes adults sit in a circle around him in the center, praise the child together, and repeatedly welcome the child to perform the program, applause continues. In this way, he will feel that he is the only one in his family.

For a long time, he has developed the inertia of children, and he does not know how to be polite to his family, and he is not at peace all day long, his attention is extremely distracted, and "people are crazy" is also very serious, he will not look at the timing, he does not know how to respect others, and even when the guests come, they will be so troubled that they can't talk.

Develop bad habits for children, there are no special rules and requirements for children's daily life, let children watch TV late at night, and don't wait in the morning. Children can do whatever they want, sleep lazy, skip meals, walk in meditation, or wander around during the day. In this way, children who grow up in the doting of mistakes and defeats will be self-motivated, curious, and passable as a person, and they will do things with a heart, with a beginning and no end, and nothing will be accomplished.

Excellent family education, children's practical ability, coordination ability and emotional intelligence, very strong. From the ancient story of Meng's mother's three migrations, it can be seen how important an excellent family education is to teach students according to their aptitude.

For the growth of children, excellent family education plays a vital role, and can even affect the child's life and the child's future, family education is the child's first enlightenment education, vital to the child, a family as a good or bad, directly affect the child's physiological and psychological normal development.

The effect is very large, and it is also very good to help the child in the future, after all, the child will still be affected by the original family, which leads to his lifestyle in society.

Good family education includes: life education, psychological education, learning education, sex education, and parental self-education; The importance of a good homeschooling for children. Ms. Soong Ching Ling, a great politician and social activist in China, once said:

Children's personalities and talents, in the final analysis, are most influenced by the family, their parents, and especially their mothers.

A good homeschooling is a great help to a child's growth. A good family education is to be able to teach children the correct outlook on life and values. Create a healthy family atmosphere for your child.

The best example of a good family education is that parents lead by example and educate their children to set a good example and correct values and outlook on life.

In the family, the expression of love is very important. Love is a powerful emotion that strengthens the emotional connection between family members, reduces conflict and tension, and also enhances family members' sense of well-being and satisfaction.

In the family, love can be expressed in many ways, such as saying words of love, warm hugs, attention and care, help and support, and so on. Through these expressions of love, family members can build a relationship of mutual trust and mutual dependence, and strengthen family cohesion.

Conversely, if there is a lack of expression of love in the family court, the emotional connection between family members can become distant and cold, and may even lead to conflict and conflict. Therefore, in the family, the expression of love is very important to promote harmony and happiness among family members.

1.Teach children to face setbacks and build self-confidence.

In school, we can often hear students talking about what their parents do, taking them to play, and buying things for themselves when chatting with each other. Some of the students were frowning, while others were unspeakable. If parents maintain close communication with their children, interact with their children frequently, and take their children to complete meaningful activities such as traveling, playing sports, leisure shopping, etc., it can not only strengthen the relationship between parents and children, but also improve children's self-confidence.

2.Teach children to learn psychological adjustment to ensure physical and mental health.

Family education includes all aspects of children's learning, life, psychology, etc., and an excellent student must at least have a perfect personality, a strong physique, rich knowledge, skilled skills and innovative thinking. First and foremost is to have a perfect personality. Mental health education is an indispensable and important part of personality development.

Family education is particularly important for children's physical and mental health, and a harmonious family and a calm communication environment are conducive to ensuring children's physical and mental health.

3.Teach children to learn to learn and improve their academic performance.

A child's education depends not only on good schooling, but also on excellent homeschooling. When children come home from school, if they can get guidance and accompaniment from their parents during after-school review and pre-class preview, it will definitely be of great help compared to completing homework alone. Parents' learning behavior will also subtly affect children's growth, which plays an important role in improving children's academic performance.

4.Teach children to be grateful and develop good habits.

Excellent study and living habits will make children use it for a lifetime. Family education plays an irreplaceable and important role in the formation of children's good habits. The words and deeds of their parents, their way of life, their living habits, and their dealings with others are all clear and clear to children, and they will imitate them from an early age.

5.Teach children to behave in the world and establish a correct outlook on life, worldview and values.

The outlook on life, world outlook and values are important qualities that everyone should cultivate throughout their lives, and having the correct three views is not only beneficial to the individual, but also very necessary for the collective, society and the country. In family education, advocating that children change their mistakes, be honest and trustworthy, and learn to be grateful, etc., is irreplaceable by the school's education.

6.Teach children to learn to resist pressure and enhance their ability to resist stress.

Good academic performance, but psychological fragility is a common problem of many students. Some students can't stand a little setback, can't stand a little test, and when they encounter a little problem, they either choose to give up or choose to retreat. Some are very anxious before the exam, and they are afraid that they will not do well in the exam.

These are the embodiment of children's weak ability to resist pressure and weak psychological quality. In family education, frustration education and stress resistance education are also an important aspect, so that children can learn to face difficulties, face difficulties, and take children to overcome difficulties together, which plays an important role in enhancing children's ability to resist pressure.