Why did he become like this? Psychologically strong ability to help me

It's just that it's too cold, and when you face this situation, you'd better be enthusiastic, and you want to move him, and he may also have a kind of bitterness, and this kind of distress is to want to break up with you, and when it's hot and cold, you feel that it's hard to serve, so I want to say that I want to break up with you, I thought he should think like this in his heart, and the rest is up to you.

Whether he loves you or not, you shouldn't be with such a man.

A man who can beat a woman with his hands is definitely not a good man. If you're with him, maybe he'll beat your kids up in the future.

Slap in the face and give you another piece of candy. Aren't you sad in your heart?

I feel like he's twisted inside. Think about it.

He is a combination of contradictions. Anyway, a man who hits a woman is not a good man. He is always so indecisive, for the sake of the future, it is okay to divide it.

Even if they are together, they will not be happy. Even if he treats you well today, you may still worry about what he will do to you tomorrow. Rather than being frightened, it is better to break it early.

Obviously, you're dumber than a pig, you're embarrassed to say love, and you don't even understand the most basic meaning of love.

If you don't die, you're wasting national food.

Because he knows that you are the stupidest woman in the world, and as long as you keep being stupid, then he will always love your body.

I think if it wasn't for a terminal illness, or a personality problem. Otherwise, I can't think of any other reason. Go and ask him, tell him your doubts, your pain, and ask him, why did you make me like this, what happened to you?

Others can't help you, don't you have to face him in the end? I wish you a good result.

He has a problem in his heart, he is troubled by something, so he is in a strange mood, you can communicate with him well, but since love is so hard, it is better to break up.

Leave him. You have to love yourself for others to love you.

This should not be in depression, but in the face of difficulties.

Too many sad things will be depressed in the heart of the cheerful together, but in fact, this is the difficulty caused by life, people living in this world, often encounter some difficulties that are difficult for the soul to bear, when the soul is unbearable, there will be excessive sadness.

I feel. If your boyfriend really likes you and believes that he will not break up with you, let alone be with other women at the same time, what you should think about is not that all your trust is shattered, but that you have found a person who is cheating on your feelings before, such a person, what is it worth it if you are sad for him.

If I were your boyfriend, I know you're in the current situation, and your first choice is to stay with you, say nothing, and stay by your side!

Recognize reality. People always need to grow up in reality.

Maybe it's because things are developing and my grandfather dies, but for the elderly, seeing you live happily in this world is their greatest happiness.

If your grandfather is still alive, I am afraid that I will not be happy when I see this situation.

The reason why you have become this situation is because you are a woman, and it is difficult for women to make the right choices in the face of difficulties. After all, this kind of difficulty is placed on men, and it can also lead to extreme depression.

Take out a chair, put it in front of the window, sit on the chair, open the window, let in the air, look at the world outside the window, take a deep breath, feel the cool breeze blowing outside the window, maybe it will be much better.

There are three realms in life.

Looking at the mountains is not the mountains, and the water is not the water.

You and I are in this level, since you can't see everything clearly, then be yourself, and besides, you need someone to talk to to help you solve the worries in your heart.

What I wrote below, you must take a look, this has nothing to do with faith, just a method, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

Shame and courage, for him, the girl is estimated to be unimportant, he understands what the value of life is, but the feeling of being torn apart from the self-esteem will make him remember, always remember, and maintain that state of progress!

It may be to make yourself better, to have a stronger charm, not to be disgusted by girls like before, and it may be that you will change yourself for the sake of that girl.

I have ambition and don't want to waste too much time. In people who don't love.

It may have inspired the pride in my heart and wanted to make myself better.

It should be that he wants to start his own business and succeed and show his best side to girls.

If you don't want the two of them to meet and have conflicts, but you're afraid of hurting the two of them, then invite both of them to come, but not at the same time at your party, such as inviting No. 1 first, and then inviting No. 2 when No. 1 leaves. If you really can't help it, then you try to tell them psychologically, for example: We used to be good friends, but why are we ...... like this now?Something like that, it should have a little effect.

But you have to know that friendships like yours are already on the edge, you are all changing, and that friendship will not last forever.

Since you are destined to be friends, it must be uncomfortable to see 2 good sisters become enemies, you have to stand up and be a peacemaker, ha! Needless to say, your birthday should know how to do it yourself! You can have a few confidants in life, I wish your 2 sisters a speedy reconciliation

Find out the problems of 1 vs 2 girls, don't be blind. Friendship does not mean that change will change, and there is hope for recovery.

Hehe, I don't think the problem you are facing is actually complicated, I will talk to you separately, and you will understand.

There are two aspects.

On the one hand, your personality problems, whether you disdain to socialize with other people, or you are jealous of others, in short, your upbringing must have a great impact on the development of your personality.

It's a little withdrawn (I hope you don't mind that word), but now that you've grown up, you need to face society, you need to face people, you need to communicate with people, whether it's for comfort, or whatever, it's necessary for a person to grow.

No one can grow up in isolation.

So, for the sake of your own growth, you need to be brave enough to take this step.

It doesn't matter if it's your current table mate or someone else. Be brave, kid.

The second aspect: about your tablemates.

Don't think too much about it just yet, because I'm worried that you're going to feel different just because there's no one else to talk to with you. Do you like him? This is uncertain.

And it's normal for adolescent children to have a good feeling.

If you have a crush on someone, does the other person have a crush on you?

Every adolescent wants to know the answer.

But there is absolutely no fixed method and answer to this. I need you to continue to contact and communicate.

So for this guy, I suggest you continue to take this step bravely and continue to talk to him.

Let's not say it's for the sake of feelings, let's take this step first.

As for feelings, the answer will definitely come on its own as you take this step.

I wish you academic progress and healthy growth.

In fact, you said that you are withdrawn and unwilling to make friends with others, which is caused by jealousy, you should correct your mentality, actively interact with everyone, and become friends with everyone, and share your pain and happiness with everyone, that is, you will be the same as everyone else, and the image in everyone's mind will change, others will not look at you differently, and your jealousy will naturally disappear. The more friends you have, the wider your road will be.

Is there anything difficult to chat with others, there is nothing to be embarrassed to say, as long as your brain is not bad, there can be many topics, such as you have your thoughts and opinions on a certain thing, a certain person or a certain thing, etc., just think of a topic, you try to discuss it with him, naturally it will be something to talk about, of course, there are many ways, telling, arguing, talking... Wait.

Normal friends, don't care too much about what others think of you, as long as you are honest communication, communication and chat, naturally nothing, of course, if you follow the way of chatting above, once you talk about what you are concerned about, and even find each other's unique temperament and characteristics, and be attracted, that is what is said to be "feelings", and finally it is possible to sublimate into "love", which is a later story, and you will talk about it when you grow up.

Well, because you're a freshman in high school, your age is not very big, and I've just passed this stage, because I haven't experienced a lot of things, so I don't know how to do it, first of all, it's normal for you to be like this, it's normal to have some thoughts about the opposite sex at this age, and because I also have the same feelings, so I won't say like others that you study hard and don't think too much, because girls are easy to think more, it's not that you don't want to want to, first be positive, be confident, whether you are beautiful or not, you should laugh more, It's okay to talk to him more, but keep your emotions in check, don't think about what he will think of you, be yourself. Because most people don't know each other in the first year of high school, you should also make more friends and be enthusiastic, not to ask you to talk more, but not to be cold and laugh more. Maybe after making more friends and understanding people, you will find that this kind of emotion is normal, by the way, you should also study hard

There is a feeling of ignorance, I think it is also good for me to keep a normal heart, chat more about myself, whether it is a man or a woman at the same table, it may come in handy after getting along, it is recommended that you continue to talk to him, chat, don't be too wary of people, you can't have the heart of harm, you can't have the heart of defense, but it's not good to have too much of a heart to defend people, and it's good for you to make more friends! I suggest you continue to talk to him You actually just found someone to him who feels like talking and feels that he can speak, and to put it bluntly, it's nothing, so I don't understand what's wrong, I think it's good. Don't think about it, if you want to ask, just ask it If you don't get it, maybe you'll have your first love Come on, bless you

First of all, you have to look forward, people don't just live in the past, which can make you lose confidence in life. This is important! You have to remember that you are living happily and happily is the greatest comfort to your parents.

As for your tablemates, in fact, the first thing that comes to my mind is the affection for the opposite sex in adolescence. But it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that you have friends. You said that you were given a title like a withdrawn girl by your classmates, and your table mate still talked to you, and he was not afraid that other classmates would isolate him and prove that he had a good heart.

So it's not a bad thing to talk to him. The important thing is how to communicate, girls have the reserve of girls, so when he talks to you, you can reply to his words, which will slowly make the two of you familiar with each other, and this will establish a deep friendship. And you have to smile a little more, and you will become more and more confident.

Try to learn to smile and talk to everyone. In this way, you will make yourself more approachable, cute and amiable, in fact, you should understand that a sunny and confident girl is more beautiful, maybe you smile often, and your friends will instantly shorten the distance between you... Get out there ...

Trust you. I'm a boy, and I thought the same as you,,, I walked out, and now it's fine... There are a lot of friends,,I feel that the society is so warm.。。。

Believe in yourself,,, you can doit!! just do it！！！

Well! I think the landlord should open his heart, I was often bullied by others in junior high school, and no one wanted to be friends with me. I would love to play with other people, but I don't know anything, I can't play basketball...

In high school, I wanted to start my life again in an environment where no one knew me, I started talking very little at the same table with me, then he taught me to play basketball, invited me to play with him, and slowly he said you're so funny! For the first time, I felt that I had friends, and now I have slowly made some friends, so the landlord opens his heart and changes his withdrawn personality, maybe he will find a different side of himself! Maybe there's a good karma.